Zvinosuruvarisa, machinda pamabhiza machena kare akafamba achienda pane imwe nzvimbo. Nokudaro, isu, vakadzi vemazuva ano, tinofanira kuda varume vavo, pamwe chete nezvikanganiso zvavo zvose. Asi chii chaunofanira kuita kana, somuenzaniso, pombi muimba yekugezera yave ichiyerera kwemwedzi iye zvino, asi unodikanwa wako wakasindimara haazvione? Chokutanga pane zvose, yeuka kuti nyoka nevakadzi vane chinhu chimwe chete pamwe chete - uchenjeri. Sezvo uine huchenjeri huchenjeri, mukadzi anogona kukanganisa kubva kumabambo.
Mamiriro 1
Simba redu riri muhutera hwedu
Saka, ngatitange nepombi. Pane masikati neusiku kuti akuyeuchidze murume wake kuti ari kudonha (matepi, ndiko), iwe unogona kutamba musoro uye inzwi muzwi risina simba uudze murume wako pamusoro peroto kuti wakambotambudzwa nemvura inodonha pamucheka.
Zvisinei, chirevo chisinganzwisisiki kune iyo nyanzvi inogona kunge isingauyi. Mumwe mukadzi akachenjera achasangana naye mudiwa wake mumufananidzo unofadza wemusikana akavhiringidzika ane karoti muruoko rwake, chiso chake chizere nematambudziko: "Ndaida kuzvigadzirisa, asi hazvina kundibatsira ini ..." Ndicho chokutanga chakakosha kuparadzira imba yekushambidzi isina basa uye nharaunda inobatana chigadzirwa chemashonga, kusanganisira saw uye sariding iron. Paanenge akabatikana nemapombi, zvakakosha kutevera zviito zvake nekuyemura kusinganzwisisi uye kubvunza mibvunzo yakadai seyo: "Saka izvi zvinononoka zviputi, hongu?" Zvose zvinotevera manheru anoenda pasi pechiratidzo chesimba rake.
Mamiriro ezvinhu 2
Magic Words
Iyo nzira yakafanana neyo inoshandiswa nevepfungwa dzepfungwa dzinoti, nekubatsirwa kwemashoko asingazivikanwi manipulators, anokwanisa kubhabhatidza varwere vese vasingateereri kuenda mumatambudziko. Kuti uite unobtrusively kufadza pfungwa yako yaunoda yemamiriro acho ezvinhu, mibvunzo yemhando yepusudo yakanaka kwazvo:
"Kudhakwa, asi ketheni yave yatopira?" Kana kuti mashoko akafukidzirwa: "Wacherechedza here kuti munyori wako akapfekedzwa nenzira yakaipa sei?" Shoko rokuti "OR" rinowanzoregererwa. Somuenzaniso, unogona kubvunza kuti: "Tichaenda rinhi paMugovera kana Svondo?" Sekutonga, mubvunzo wokuti "Ndinofanira kuenda here?" Haasati watumidzwa.
Mamiriro ezvinhu 3
Pamusoro pokubatsirwa kwekunyora pasi
Ndiani akati mukadzi oga anoda hura? Muzvokwadi, varume havafariri zvikuru kukurumbidza. Chinhu chikuru ndechokusarudza chiremera chinonetsa kuongorora zvakajeka. Somuenzaniso, kana munhu akataura kuti ane mutsara unoshamisa kwazvo wezwi, zvakaoma kutarisa, asi mafungiro ake anomuka, uye iyi ndiyo mamiriro akanaka ekutaura pamusoro pekutenga chinhu chitsva chokuchenesa. Chinhu chikuru pano hachisi chokudarika. Semuenzaniso, haufaniri kutaurira murume wemhazha kuti ane chekutanga chetambo.
Nzira yakaratidza nzira yekurumbidza munhu pamberi pevanhu vatatu: "Unoziva, ane hanya zvikuru, anogona maruva pasina chikonzero chekupa" kana "Anowirirana zvakanaka nevana, handigone kuzviita." Musi weSvondo, paanenge achiendesa vana kune zoo, unogona kurara zvakasimba pamubhedha nemucherechedzi.
Mamiriro 4
Tinotora kutya
Vavice vevanhu nokuda kwekukurudzira ndeimwe yemitambo inokosha yekutaurirana kwedu. Kune nguva dzose kutaura pamusoro pechinhu chimwe, nokuti kazhinji mamiriro ezvinhu anowedzera seanecdote. Kuti ucherechere kwaari, iwe unoshuva kupfeka gasi mask. "Wakabudisa mashizha ako here?" Anopindura. Pane pfungwa huru. Achienzanisa bvudzi rake refu, raasina kuremekedza kwenguva yakareba zvakadaro, munhu anofanira kunge asina chokwadi: "Icho chakatemwa, kana chii?" Hapana simba rokuomesa bvudzi iri. Uye zvichida iwe unogona kugadzirisa iwe pachako? "Unogonawo kufunga nezvepurasitiki yekuderedza kushambadzira kana kuti mavara emagetsi lenzi:" Vanoti zvino maziso eruvara ari mumashini ... "
Mamiriro ezvinhu mumamiriro ezvinhu ose anokwanisa, hongu, haagoni kurondedzerwa. Asi mutemo mukuru wemamwe nguva ekukurukurirana nehafu yako inokosha, zvichida wakatozvinzwisisa. Chinhu chikuru ndechokugadzirisa musungo nokuchenjera.
Zuva rekuroorana rinosarudzwa pakutanga
Mhedzisiro yewanano inogona kufanotaurwa zvakajeka mumakore ekutanga ekuvapo kwayo. Icho chirevo chakaitwa nevanotsvakurudza veAmerica, vachitsvaga, mumakore makumi maviri, 156 vakaroorana.
Zvakazoitika kuti tariro yakawanda yemhuri yakabudirira uye inogara kwenguva refu inogona kuwanika kune avo vakakwanisa kuramba vane mafungire akanaka kune mumwe wavo mumakore maviri ekutanga ehupenyu. Vaya vakarambana mushure memakore manomwe ekuroora ndivo vaifarira zvikuru pakutanga kwehupenyu hutsva. Asi kurota kwakanaka kwaisava kwenguva refu: kuparadzana nemafungiro aitora gore roga rekugara pamwe chete. Iyi "simba rehukama" inoratidza hutano hwepamusoro hwekurambana mushure memakore akawanda emhuri.