Unhu hwepabonde huri nguva dzose huri chiratidzo chekusagadzikana, vakaroorana vasina kukwanisa vakakwanisa kuchengetedza ukama hwakasimba uye husingaperi kwenguva refu kupfuura makore mashoma. Kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura, vakaroorana vakadaro havakwanisi kunyange kurota mhuri yakakwana, vana, kungoita rusununguko rwekuve iwe.
Ruzhinji rwakadzidza kubvumira vanhu vasiriwo maitiro akasiyana-siyana zvakanyanya kana zvishoma nezvishoma, vakatanga kutanga kuvimba pakati pehuwandu hwevanhukadzi. Kufambira mberi, zvingaratidzika. Asi haana kuenda kune vakawanda vaida.
Pasinei nokuti nyika dzakawanda dzakavimbika kune zvekuita zvepabonde nemurume mumwechete uye ukama hwakadaro hahuna kushamisika, zvakaoma zvikuru, kugadzirisa mhuri yakakwana yevanhu vanoita zvechikadzi.
Nzira yekuita sei? Munyika ipi yekuroorana? Inobvumirwa kuita chibvumirano chowanano here? Ichava nesimba here? Chechi inobata sei imba dzakadaro uye zvinokwanisika kuva nemuchato? Chii chichashandura uye mune nzira ipi?
Iyi inongova mhando shoma yemibvunzo inokunda vese gay lover kana lesbian. Zvose zvakaoma pano: kubva pamutemo kusvikira kusarudzwa kwemasayina pamakadhi ekukoka. Zvichida, izvi zvose zvinonetsa zvinomisa vanhu vakawanda vasiri tsika dzekusika kubva pakutora chisarudzo mukufarira kugadzira mhuri. Asi iwe unogona kugadzirisa chero chinetso chero chipi zvacho, kunyange chakaoma chakadai seichi. Kunyanya kufadza ndechokuti pane chaizvoizvo chisarudzo.
Rudo vs mutemo.
Kana iwe uchifungidzira iwe somunhu anoda zvechokwadi munhu wepabonde imwechete saiye, apo iye anoda simba, uye zvakakosha, hukama hunoonekwa, anotya nekuti chinhu chose chinoratidzika chisingaitiki.
Ngatitaurire kuti chipo chacho chakaitwa, uye mukupindura, "Yee" yaidiwa yakanzwika. Chii chinotevera? Ndepi uye kuti ndiani waunofanira kuenda nechido chavo chekuita varoorana?
Kutanga, iwe unofanirwa kuziva kuti kure nenyika dzose mutemo uchave uri kurutivi rwevanoda.
Kunyange iyo Holland yakakurumbira yakazivikanwa nevarume vanoita zvechinguvana kodzero yekuroorana mumutemo muna 2001, asi, inonyanya kukosha, yakazivikanwa! IEurope ndiyo yekutanga kurasa maonero akare pamusoro pekugadzirwa kwechato, naizvozvo chikwata kuHolland, Denmark, Sweden, Norway, Spain, Canada, uye kunyange muSouth Africa isati yava rudzi rwetsika yevakomana nevadzidzisi pasi rose. Iko kune dzimwe nyika iyo chero vaviri vakaroorana vanozivikanwa zviri pamutemo semurume nemudzimai, murume nemudzimai, kana mudzimai nemudzimai, uye panzvimbo yezviso zveblique vachapiwa chikamu chechido chekufara. Kuti uite izvi, zvakakwana kungokumbira chido chekuroora muhurumende yemunharaunda, kubhadhara mamiriro ezvinhu anodiwa emitero uye mitero, uye ipapo iwe unogona kutumira zvakasununguka zvipo.
Kunyanya ichangopfuura, zvinyorwa zveunyengeri zvakawira muCzech Republic, Germany, France, Belgium.
Zvakaoma zvikuru kune vagari vemuUnited States - munyika ino vanoona kana vanhu vakaroorana vanogona kuroorwa vasina kubvumirana, pasinei nekusununguka kweiye munhu, kurima. IU.S. nyika inotyisa, uye izvi hazvisi nguva dzose zvakanaka. Pano pano iwe unogona kuroora kana paine vase yako yaunoda, asi kusangana nezvipingamupinyi munzira yekubatanazve neaunoda.
Uye hazvisi nyore kune vagari vekumabvazuva, kunyanya nyika dzeMuslim, apo rudo rwepabonde imwechete runotongwa uye kunyange kutambudzwa.
Munyika dzakawanda dzakabudirira pane imwe nzira yekuroorana yepamutemo kune vanhu vese maitiro. Semuenzaniso, Britain haisati yakunda zvachose homophobia kumatunhu enyika, saka vanhu vane maitiro asina kukodzera havazogashiri chikwata choroorana pano. Asi munharaunda yose yenyika ino inobvumirwa nemaitiro ehurumende yehurochani kubatana, iyo ine kodzero, haisi yakasiyana nedzimwe kodzero dzemhuri yemagariro. Kunyangwe kurambana kwevamwe varume vanoita zvepabonde muBrithani kuchaitwa kuburikidza nedare redzimhosva pamwe chete nechikamu chenguva dzose cheimba uye mamwe maitiro kuburikidza nemamiriyoni ehutano husina kupfuura.
Tourism mubasa re Cupid.
Sezvaunoziva, kuda kunowanzogadzira chirongwa uye kuroorana kwepabonde imwechete-kwete imwe chete.
Chido chakakosha chekuva mumiriri vepamutemo chinogona kuramba chiri kurota kune vazhinji vanoita gays nevadzidzisi, kana vasiri mabhizinesi uye vanoita basa. Nhamba huru yevanhu vanoita zvegachani havana mukana wekuva vakaroorana, pasinei nokuti nyika dzakawanda dzakagadzirira kunyora imba yavo. Ndicho chikonzero mahofisi akawanda ekufambisa anopa zvinonzi "mamwe mazano" embairo. Regai vasave nemasimba emutemo, asi zvakasiyana hazvo zvakasiyana nemitemo yemuchato.
Pakusarudzwa kwevanoda kunewo nzvimbo yeparadhiso yezvitsuwa zvinowanikwa nemadzinza avo, uye Europe ine masvingo ayo, akapfuma munhoroondo uye zvirokwazvo madzimambo emadzimambo. Pakupedzisira, kune vazhinji vanokosha haisi iyo tsananguro inozivikanwa mupasipoti, uye zuva remazuva uye nguva yakamirira "Hongu" mukupindura kune: "Unobvumirana here?".
Mukuwedzera, chisarudzo mukufarira mutambo wokufananidzira chinoreva zvakare rusununguko rwekusarudza chero chinangwa chenyika uye mukana wekusada kuvimba nemaitiro ekugara.
Pamugumo wezvakaipa.
Uye iyo nyaya yakakosha munyaya dzehupenyu yaiva uye inoramba iri chechi. Hazvina mhosva kuti vakaroorana vanorota sei kuroora uye kuropafadzwa, kereke inoramba ichitsigira. Chero chitendero chenyika chinoramba rudo rwepabonde imwechete uye ichi ndicho mutsara kunze kwekuti kushivirira kwevafundisi venyika kunoguma.
Asi kana uchida, izvo zvingawanikwa zvinogona kuwanikwa kubva pane chero mamiriro ezvinhu uye hazvifaniri kukodzera muitori akapfekedzwa jasi iro chikomborero chisina simba.
Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vakaroorana vanogona kuroorana muSweden Episcopal Church. Ichokwadi, zvinoda kubvuma kutenda uku, asi kana zvichidiwa, dambudziko iri rinogadziriswa.
Nokuda kwei?
Ndezvipi kune zvekunze zvose zvinokonzera uye kukunda zvipingamupinyi zvakawanda kana zvichikwanisika kurarama pamwe chete, pasina kuisa nyika mukududzirwa?
Mubvunzo wakanaka wekuti vanhu vose vanobvunzwa pasina kunze, pasinei nehutano hwavo. Pane mhinduro yakakosha kumubvunzo uyu, iyo inopfuura kupfuura kusava nechokwadi kupi zvako. Uye mhinduro iyi vana. Hatifaniri kukanganwa nezvechido chokuva vabereki , chinoratidzika pasinei nokuti unodii uye zvisinei kuti uri ani.
Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vakaroorana havakwanisi kuva nevana vanozivikanwa nokuda kwezvikonzero zvinonzwisisika. Kana hurumende dzevakadzi dziine mukana wekushandisa kubudirira kwemishonga, somuenzaniso, kushandiswa kwemaitiro, saka mhuri dzinoumbwa nevarume dzakasarudzwa mukusarudza kwavo. Kubvuma kubatana inzira yakanaka iyi, asi iyo nzira yakaoma zvikuru kupfuura dzose dzepabonde peripeteias. Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vane mukana wekuva vabereki, asi, sezvinoitika mumhuri dzedzinza, zvinowanikwa kune avo vakaroorana, uye avo vakabatana vakaedzwa simba.
Chero chii chakanga chiri, mukana wekufara iwe zvachose zvinhu zvose, uye kune nzira dzakawanda dzokugadzirisa nadzo, iwe unongoda kukwanisa kuzvishandisa panguva yakakodzera.