Ichokwadi nenhema pamusoro pekutanga kweukama hwepedyo

Apo patakanga tine makore ane gumi nemana neshamwari, takarota kuti rudo rwokutanga, ruzivo rwekutanga rwepabonde, yekutanga (ndiye oga uye asingagoneki!) Muchato wakabatanidzwa nesu. Izvi hazvina kushanda kune ani zvake. Asi patakakurukura zvipfeko zvedu munguva ichangopfuura, takaona kuti upenyu huri kufamba nenzira yakarurama. Saka, zvakakosha sei kutanga kweukama hwepedyo? Ndiwe munhu wokutanga mutemo uyo mukadzi anosanidza zvose zvinotevera? Ndezvipi zvingava nani kutanga? Ngatitsigirei kana kuti tisapupurire mhedziso yakafanana pamusoro pekutanga kwe rudo. 1. Chiitiko chekutanga chinoita kuti upenyu hwepabonde huwedzere.
Ichokwadi, kana chaive chakanaka, saka vakadzi vane chirongwa chekufunga: zvepabonde zvakanaka, zvinounza mufaro. Mukadzi akadai akadaro anonzwa zviri nyore uye anowedzera kuwedzera, anowedzera mufaro kubva pabonde. Zvinonyadzisa, semuenzaniso, mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, apo musikana akatorwa nechisimba, anotungamirira kune chimwe chinopesana. Mukadzi akasara ane dambudziko repfungwa. Kazhinji anotya uye anongwarira vanhu, anozvipomera mhosva yezvakaitika. Vanga rakavimbika rinotungamirira kumatambudziko muhupenyu hwepabonde. Mudzimai akadaro kazhinji ane vaginismus, iyo inopesana nekuzvimirira yemisumbu yemapapiro nemukadzi. Anoda kushanda nemudzidzi wepfungwa, chiremba wepabonde nevamwe vadzidzisi - yekare, zviri nani.

2. Kukanganwa kwemuti wakarambidzwa kunakisisa kuziva nemakore 18-20.
Iyi data yakagara ichishandurwa kare - iye zvino mune dzakawanda zviitiko zvose zvinoitika kare kare. Nhamba dzinotaura zvakajeka kuti: munyika yedu, 10% yevana nevechiri kuyaruka kubva kune makore 9 kusvika kumakore gumi nemashanu vakatoita zvepabonde! Aya ma "maruva" mazano - chiratidzo chehutano munzanga.

Mhuri isingabatsiri, kuparidzira kwekunyengedzera, chisimba paTV, mumafirimu - izvi zvose zvinoita kuti vana vaedze kutanga hupenyu hwavo hwevanhu vakuru nekukurumidza. Imwe 40% yevechiri kuyaruka inopinda muukama hwepabonde hwekutanga kubva pamakore gumi nemasere kusvikira pamakore gumi nemana, 40% yevakomana nevasikana - kubva pamakore 18 kusvika 22, uye 10% - mushure memakore makumi maviri nemaviri. Maererano nevarume vanoita zvepabonde, munhu anofanira kuita zvepabonde kana kugadzikana mupfungwa. Vafanana vakafanana uye nhamba hazvikoshi. Maererano navanachiremba, "izvi" zvinofanira kuitika nekugadzirira mupfungwa uye zvichida kune rudo. Kubvumirana kwevamwe mapato kunokosha. Hazvina kunaka kwazvo, apo musikana wacho achirwisana nemwoyo wose, uye murume wacho anomunyengedza kwenguva refu. Uye musikana wacho anopiwa chete "nokuti anotya kumurasikirwa" kana kuti "kwete kuseka neshamwari dzake." Uye Iye uye Iye anofanira kunge akagadzirira chiito ichi. Kana munhu ari murudo, mahomoni emufaro anooneka - endorphins uye kushungurudzika hormone - adrenaline. Kubatana kwakadaro kwehomoni kunounza hutano hwakanaka. Kuramba mairi, musikana wacho anowana mufaro mukuru kubva kune zvepabonde. Nokudaro, ne endorphins kurega kumhandara zviri nyore uye zvisingarwadziki - physiologically uye mupfungwa.

3. Mhandara dzinotevera 25 dzinogona kuva nemusoro.
Izvi hazvisi zvechokwadi. Pane kudaro, zvinetso zvepfungwa. Kana iwe ukaramba uine mhosva kusvika pamakore makumi matatu nemakore, dambudziko remukadzi wechidiki rinogona kukura. Vanodzidza zvepabonde vanokurudzira mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro kuderedza zvinodiwa zvevarume. Zvadaro kuwana pepa kuchava nyore nyore. Mukupedzisira, iwewo hauna kukwana. Kunyange zvakadaro, kune vanhu vakagumidzirwa nekugadzirisa zvepabonde pakuenzanisa nevamwe. Vakadzi vakadaro nevarume vanoda rubatsiro rwechiremba.

4. O, zvakaoma sei matanho ekutanga!
Izvi ndezvechokwadi. Uye kusangana pabonde kwekutanga kune zvakaoma kumusikana nemukomana. Misiyano ndeyekufunga kwepfungwa kwezvinoitika: mukadzi anotsvaka kuti murume waainge apedza, uye murume - kuti mukadzi ndiye aiva wekutanga. Kuvanhu, kutanga kwepabonde kunogona kunyanya kukosha. Anonzwa ane mutoro wakakomba. Pashure pezvose, usiku hwokutanga kwaari - unogona kutaura rudzi rwe "test of masculinity." Kana zvose zvakafamba zvakanaka - iwe uri murume. Uye kana zvisinga ... Munyaya iyi, anogona kunge ane dambudziko rekusimba. Kunyanya kana kukanganisa kwake kuchasekwa. Murume wechidiki akadaro, zvichida angafanirwa kuenda kundoona nyanzvi. Nokudaro, mufambiro wemukadzi unobata basa guru. Zvakakosha kuchenjerera uye kunakidza kuitira kuti munhu anzwe akasununguka.

5. Mhandara inogara yakarasika pamusana pokutanga.
Kazhinji zvinoitika. Pakuswedera kwepakutanga pane kupera kwe hymen. Asi izvi zvinoitikawo kuti haibvamburwi, asi yakatambanudzwa. Haakwanisi kuputsa kunyange mushure mekuita rudo rwekare. Kana chipfira hachigoni kubviswa zvachose. Semuenzaniso, izvi zvinogona kuitika kana nhengo yemunhu inopinda mukati mechikadzi kwete zvakakwana, uyewo kana zvipfeko zvemusikana zvakakonzerwa nekushungurudzika, kuita bonhora, kana kunyatsoongorora chigaro chechikadzi. Vamwe vasikana (uye kunyanya vasikana vechidiki dzimwe nguvawo) vanotya kuti pakushamwaridzana kwekutanga ikoko kuchava neropa rakawanda. Asi izvi hazvirevi nguva dzose. Kubuda ropa kunowanzoitika dzimwe nguva kana hymen iri yakaoma. Kazhinji kurasikirwa nemhandara kunofambidzana nemadonhwe eropa. Marwadzo aripo, asi, sekutonga, kwete zvakasimba. Uye dzimwe nguva hazviitiki zvachose. Chero zvazvingaitika, mushure memazuva mashomanana, mhedzisiro ye hymen inoporesa uye musikana haasati anzwa asingagadzikane nepabonde.

6. Murume wekutanga ndiye akadzivisa musikana wekusachena kwake.
Pano, izvi ndizvo. Asi musikana anogona kunzwa zvakasiyana. Semuenzaniso, pakagamuchirwa nemurume wepabonde, mumwe murwere akaudza kuti akarasikirwa nemhandara yake pazera remakore gumi nemaviri - pamutambo wakadhakwa neshamwari isingazivi yaasina kuona zvakare. Asi murume wake wokutanga, anofunga nezvejaya, iro raakatanga kusangana naye makore mashoma mushure mekuitika kwechiitiko ichi. Vanodzidza zvepabonde vanotsanangura ichi sechigadzirwa chepfungwa izvo vamwe vakadzi vanoshandisa "kuzvinyengera." Ivo pachavo vanosarudza munhu upi zvake kuti afunge nezvekutanga ozotenda nemwoyo wose mazviri. Mushure mezvose, manzwiro ehupombwe anobata basa rinokosha pane imwe nguva pane mafungiro emhando.

7. Chiitiko chekutanga zvepabonde chinoramba chiri chisingakanganwiki.
Hapana chimwe chezvinhu. Mukadzi achafananidza varume varo, uye kwete kuti wekutanga wekutanga achamira pamatanho aya pamusoro pevamwe. Mudzimai asingakanganwiki angave ari kwaari kwete munhu waakarasikirwa nemhandara yake, asi uyo waakawira murudo kwete chete nemuviri, asi nemweya. Nenzira iyo, inoshandawo kumusikana wakasimba. Vamwe vevakadzi vavo vanoyeuka varume upenyu hwavo hwose, uye vamwe havagoni kuyeuka - dzimwe nguva, kunyange zita ravo ...

8. Pakutanga kushamwaridzana kana kuti inogadziriswa inobvumirwa.
Izvi zvinongowanikwa mumavhidhiyo kana mumabhuku asina kudiwa mavhidhiyo: "ndiyo yaiva yekutanga yehutano hwekuita zvepabonde uye akakwira achibva kunofadza kuenda kudenga," akanzwa kuti murume wacho akabata "bud" rake kwekutanga - uye muviri wake wakazara nenyasha dzakadai sokunge pakarepo zviuru zvemaruva akanaka zvakaputika uye mamiriyoni ehurukuro dzakaputika mapapiro awo. " Zvinosuruvarisa, nokuti rwekutanga nguva yechirume kana kuti inenge isingadi kuuya, saka usamirira iyo pasina. Musikana anogona kuwana rufaro kubva kumararamiro ekutanga kana kubva pamhombwe. Orgasm inogona kuuya gare gare, nekuuya kwehutano hwepabonde. Zvisinei, kufarira zvepabonde - iyo pfungwa inonyanya kuzvibata uye yega. Nokudaro, kana iwe wakambosangana nemafungiro ekutanga, zvinongokufadza iwe.