Zvisinei, pasinei nekuti vanhu vakawanda vanogona kutaura, zvinosuruvarisa, kwete isu tose tinokwanisa kuva vanobatana navo vanofarira avo vamwe vanhu vanoda kutora maawa emazuva akasununguka, kuti vanzwe mutsara unotevera kubva pamiromo yedu. Saka tingava sei vanyori vanonyatsokwanisa kushandisa, kuita kuseka uye kungowira murudo nevateereri nemashoko mashoma chete?
Zvinoshamisa kuti, zvakajeka zvikuru kuva muvepi anonyatsoziva, pasinei nokuti zvinotora gore rinopfuura rimwe kuti zvibudirire muhudhi iyi. Pamwoyo wezvinofadza kune vanhu vakakupoteredza, pamusoro pezvose, inyaya ye "kushamisika". Hongu, ndeyekukwanisa kushamisa vateereri nemutsara wega wega unotevera uye isu tiri kuve kufadza uye, nenzira yakati, vakurukuri vanokwezva. Semuenzaniso, zvingava zvinonakidza here kutarisa matanho kana iwe uchiziva zvakakwana kuti chikamu chimwe nechimwe chekunyengera chakaitwa uye chii chaunotarisira pakupedzisira kwechiito chekuita zvemashiripiti? Kwete kwete! Ndizvo zvazvakangoita nekwanisi kutaura - iwe unogona kuzviona uri munhu ane chikonzero chekufara, asi kana iwe uchitaura majee akafanana zuva roga roga raunenge uchiverenga mubhuku "101 rwiyo runonakidza", hapana anozoseka, asi enda uchiteerera hurukuro , somuenzaniso, pamusoro pemafungiro ezvinyorwa kana masayenzi ehuwandu muhupenyu hwevanhuwo zvavo.
Chidzidzo chechipiri chinonyanya kukosha chaunodzidza usati watanga kurota kuva chirevo chikuru ndechekuti haufaniri kumboedza kutaura pamusoro pezvinhu zvausingazivi. Zvinokwanisika kuti iwe hauna zivo yakadzika, zvisinei nokuti chii, kunze kweumwe. Saka edza kushamisa vanhu nezvose zvaunoziva panyaya iyi, uye usatarise kuonekwa kwepasi rose, kutsigira kukurukurirana pamusoro pehurukuro yawakangonzwa muhupenyu hwako kwekutanga. Vanhu vazhinji vanobvunza kuti vangaita sei panguva iyo hurukuro, kune imwe uye inonzwisisika kwauri, haigoni kuchinjwa, sezvo iwe usingakwanisi kungoramba wakanyarara. Mhinduro yacho, sezvainogara ichi, iri nyore - kuzvizvidza kuchakubatsira iwe. Zvimwe chete, kana iwe ukatarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu apo iwe unomanikidzwa kutsigira kukurukurirana pamusoro pechinhu chausingazivi, edza kushandisa kusaziva kwako uye panzvimbo yekubvunza mibvunzo kune vamwe pamusoro pehurukuro, iwe unogona kunyange kuedza kushandisa mano ako uye kubvunza vatauriri vechinhu chimwe, ipapo izvi pamusoro pechinyorwa ichi, chavanofanira kufungisisa uye kwenguva refu kuedza kuwana mhinduro, kupfuura iwe unogona kupa zvishoma zvishoma, asiwo kufadza kuhutano hwako. Kana iwe usingagoni kuita izvi, iwe unogona kungoshandura shanduko mubvunzo wakabvunzwa kwauri, nenzira yejoke kune umwe munhu muboka rako.
Uye, pakupedzisira, unyanzvi hwechitatu hunonyanya kukosha iyo mumwe munhu anonyanya kuzivikanwa mukurukuri munharaunda yevanhu ane ushingi uye kusavapo kwekuzvininipisa zvakanyanya. Nguva dzose yeuka kuti kana iwe uchitaura chimwe chinhu, iwe unotaura mazwi, mitsara uye mitsara yakazara kune vanhu vakangofanana newe pachako, ndiani angangomuka ozotanga kutaura kuitira kuti vakukurumidze kukanganwa pamusoro pako uye iwe uchatomanikidzwa kugara kune rumwe rutivi uye runyararire kuvhara tiyi, asi vamwe Vasya Petrov vanobva kumunda vachanyaradza uye vanyatsoshesa avo vanopoteredza, uyewo kuvashamisa nemashoko pamusoro peimwe mishonga. Nokudaro, zvakakosha zvikuru kuti uyeuke kuti pakarepo paunoshamisa muromo wako uye utaure izwi rekutanga-kubva ikozvino iwe uri mambo wekukunda uye zviri kwauri kusvika nguva yakareba sei usati waiswa. Uye mambo anofanira kutonga sei? Zvakarurama - zvinonzwika, zvakajeka, zvakasiyana-siyana, zvine njere, uye zvakakosha - zvakanaka. Tichienderera mberi kubva pane izvi, tinogadzira chimiro chekanakisisa rhetoric: zvakanaka rhetoric = kutaura kukuru uye kwakachena + tsika, zvisingatarisiri uye zvinonakidza mazano kune vamwe.
Pakupedzisira ndinoda kuona kuti chinhu chakanyanya hachisi kutya kutaura uye kuratidza maonero ako, nokuti vanhu vanogona chete kubvumirana nevamwe havana kumbobvira vadikanwa, uye havadi. Kunyange kana maonero ako achipikisana zvachose nemafungiro evamwe - kutaura zvose sezvaunofunga, uye iwe uchazove, kana iwe, uchiremekedzwa nekuda kwekushinga kwako kupikisana nevamwe, uye kana iwe "uchiratidza" pfungwa yako inopesana nekubatsirwa kwekutaura kunoshamisa, ipapo vatauri havangatauri chinhu chakaipa zvachose, asi chete vanotenda nguva dzakanaka apo vakateerera kutaura kukuru, kwakanaka.