Izvo zvitsva, zvinoreva kusiyana kwehupenyu zvinooneka. Mukuwedzera, sayenzi inotaura kuti semugumisiro wekuchinja kwehomoni, ukuru hwemasero eimwe nzvimbo dzeuropi hunowedzera mumuviri wemukadzi anobereka. Iyi nzira inobatsira pamabasa eropi hwemukadzi ari mubasa, uye maererano nevasayendisiti, inoita kuti ifare! Uyezve, sei-mwana akaberekwa anounza naye zvinhu zvakawanda zvinoshamisa uye zvinetso zvinononoka, zvinoita kuti amai vaunganidzwe, vanoita zvisarudzo nokukurumidza mumamiriro asina kutarisirwa. Maitiro ebaba vaduku ari kuchinjawo - iyezvino anonzwa ane mhosva kune mwana, nokuda kwehupenyu hwake. Zvakawanda zvakanaka, zvinofadza uye zvakajeka. Asi pane zvimwe zvinetso. Panenge usiku usiku uye mabasa ezuva nezuva emhuri, mamamamangwana amangwana akanzwa. Asi dambudziko muhukama mushure mekuberekwa kwomwana kunowanzova kushamisika kwavari. Amai amai vaduku, vakapofumadzwa nemanzwiro matsva, vane chivimbo chokuti mufambiro wemurume wavo unofanira kunge wakafanana - kushingaira, kubata uye kusava nemisodzi. Zvisinei, papa haasi nguva dzose kunzwa manzwiro akafanana saamai vake. Uye izvi hazvirevi kusafarira mwana wako. Chinhu ichi ndechekuti murume akazoziva kuti mudzimai asati aberekwa mwana akabhadhara zvose kwaari chete uye iye zvino kutarisa kuti kutarisa kwese mumhuri ndekwomurume muduku mutsva ari kuona godo risingazivi.
Mwana wacho anonyanya kuchinja nzira yehupenyu hwaamai, achimusiya asina nguva uye simba kune chimwe chinhu-anonyatsotarisira amai vake kwaari. Murume anoona kuti amai vake vanopa sei rudo rwake uye rudo, vanogona kunzwa vasingakoshi, vasingafungi, uye vanotanga "kuva capricious" vachikwezva maitiro akadaro, kana kudzivisa nzvimbo yaasingadikanwi - kugara pabasa, kushandisa nguva isina shamwari neshamwari. Chimwe chiitiko chekufambira chinokwanisika - godo uye kureva kuneta mubasa kana zvimwe zvikonzero "ramba uchifamba pakarepo", uchibvumira amai kuti vagare zvakakwana mumwana. Kubva maziso eamai, zvinoratidzika seizvi: mwana wavo, mwana akamirira kwenguva refu, mwana asina waanenge asisanzwisisi hupenyu, anokonzera baba vake kusava nehanya! Izvi zvingatove chiri chikonzero chekubuda kwematambudziko muhukama mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana. Icho chinangwa chechokwadi chekuita kwakadaro chinofanira kutsvakwa pahutano hwepfungwa. Ichokwadi chokuti mukadzi panguva yekuberekwa kwomwana anokonzera hutumbi hwemwana - asina mazwi, pamusana wekubatana kwepfungwa, anogona kutaura nechechecheche, iye asina ruzivo rwakanzwisisa anonzwisisa kuti chii uye mwana wake paanenge achidikanwa. Varume havana unhu hwakadaro - manzwiro ake ose pamusoro pomwana anowanikwa, vanoda nguva yekugamuchira, vanoda mwana wavo. Idambudziko rinogara kwenguva refu muukama rinongowedzera mamiriro ezvinhu, kusabvumira munhu kuti ashandise pabasa rake idzva. Zvisinei, kwete munhu chete ane mhosva yematambudziko. Iyo syndrome ye postpartum kuora mwoyo, iyo iyo sebhotheni kubva mudenga rebhuruu inowira pane mukadzi atoora uye kuberekwa, uye anokwanisawo kumutsa dambudziko muhukama. Saka unobuda sei mumamiriro ezvinhu? Sezvo nhamba dzichiratidza, 39% yemhuri inosangana nedambudziko muhukama pashure pokuzvarwa kwomwana. Nokudaro, dambudziko harisi rakasiyana uye rinoda kubvunzurudzwa, nokuti chete apo iwe unonzwisisa zvikonzero zvechokwadi unogona kuzvigadzirisa.
Kuti akunde dambudziko iri muhukama zvakakosha kuti paizove nechido chekubuda mazviri. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya hazvibviri kuramba wakanyarara - zvinokosha kukurukura dambudziko nemumwe wako. Tiudzei kuti chii chaunenge uchinetseka pamusoro pezvo, zvauri kuona. Iva nemwoyo wose mukukurukurirana uye mukudzoka iwe unogamuchira kuvimbika kune mumwe wako. Inzwisisa kuti chete pamwe chete iwe unogona kukurira dambudziko iri muhukama mushure mekusununguka kwemwana. Usaponesa murume kubva kune "kushungurudzika" kunetseka - kurayiridza kuti aite chimwe chemhando yebasa - mutende iye, achabudirira zvechokwadi! Chokutanga, murume achamira kutya mwana, uye rwechipiri, achaona achidiwa. Usaita kuti mhirizhonga muve nharo - zviise iwe mumashangu emumwe wako, tarisa mamiriro acho nemeso ake-iwe ungaita sei munzvimbo yake? Usajekesa ukama huri nekunze kana nevana vako-kukakavara ibasa rako chete, usasanganisi vamwe pakuwana hukama. Itai kuti zvive nyore kuti imi pachenyu muri kupomera mhosva yechikonzero chekukakavara - kune vanhu vashomanana vashoma vasina kukanganisa. Kana iwe pachako usingakwanisi kukurira dambudziko iri muhukama mushure mokuberekwa kwemucheche, haugone - usatendeuka dambudziko racho. Tsvaga muongorori wepfungwa, yakanakisisa inosarudzwa pano inongororwa mazano.
Mukupedzisa, ndinoda kutaura kuti kiyi yemhirizhonga yemhuri rudo, kuremekedzana nekuwirirana pakati pevakaroorana. Utano hwemhuri uye mwana achangoberekwa hunongobva kune vabereki chete, kukwanisa kwavo kuwana nzira yekubuda mumatambudziko, kukurukura matambudziko, kwete kumirira kubva kune wawakaroora, uye kutanga kuenda kumusangano! Rudo, ruremekedzana uye pamwe chete iwe unogona kukunda matambudziko ose!