Apo manzwiro apfuura zvisingagadziriki kune vashandi

Isu tose takamirira rudo uye tinonyengetera kuna Mwari kuti achatipawo rudo. Musangano wakaitika. Vanhu vakadanana mumwe nomumwe kana kuti zvinoita sevari ivo, asi vanofara, maziso anovhenekera, anonyemwerera pazviso zvavo.

Vose vehama vari kumirira muchato, uye vasati varoorana iyo haina kuuya. Apo manzwiro apfuura asingagoneki kune vakaroorana, rudzi rweuchato huripo ... Munhu wese anonzwisisa kuti harisi rudo, kwete rudo rwechokwadi, asi rudo rwevamwe pamwe chete. Uye zvichida rudo urwu haruna kukura murudo? Sei?

Apo vanhu vatangotanga kusangana, chido chechisikigo chevamwe varoorana ndechekutarisa mumaziso eumwe munhu zviri nani kupfuura iwe chaizvoizvo. Ichi ndicho chikanganiso chikuru pakuvaka ukama pakati pevadikani. Mune nguva yemasikati, kukanganisa mukurera uye mufambiro avo vanobatana navo, uye izvo zvingavaisa mumwenje usingabatsiri mumaziso evanodiwa, vadiwa, vanonyatsoongororwa uye vasingaratidziwi kune mumwe wavo. Kudzora kwakadaro kunopfuurira kusvikira vashandi vanotsanangana murudo. Tsananguro yaitika, chivimbo chakauya chokuti nguva yevhisi yekasa yapera uye zvino zvinogoneka kupumha. Apa ndipo pane njodzi huru yevakaroorana inhema.

Vashandi vanobva vatanga kuzvibata nenzira yavanoshandiswa nayo muupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Uye izvi zvakasiyana zvachose nevanhu. "Sei ndisina kuona izvi zvisati zvaitika (l)? Iye ane utsinye, anorwara, asina kuberekwa (kwete) sei (oh) ndakafungidzira iye (iye)? Mukuda kwekuwirwa murudo, munhu haaoni zvikanganiso izvi (ivo vakavanzwa kubva mumaziso evashamwari), uye zvino vashandi havadi pamwe navo kuti vazvigadzire uye vagogamuchira. Mifambidzana yemumwe wako kune mumwe munhu haigoni kushivirira uye inosemesa. Vanoda chikamu. Zvakanaka, kana zvakaitika musati waroora, uye kana mushure maro, ipapo kurambana hakudzivisiki. Chii chakaitika kune rudo rwakapfuura? Kana manzwiro apfuura asingagoneki kune vose vakaroorana, havakwanisi pamwe pamwe uye havadi, saka iyo yakanakisisa yekusarudza iyo yose isarudzo yakagadzikana-kugovana nokusingaperi, pakuchengetedza zvishoma ushamwari.

Zvinowanzoitika kuti munguva yekutya kwakanyanya, somuenzaniso, panguva yekuzvarwa kwomwana kana panguva yekudzivirira kwechinyorwa, kutsamwa kunowedzera kune mumwe wako. Vabereki vaduku vanotya nekuda kwemitoro mitsva, munhu wose anoedza kubvisa kubva kwavari ivo mhinduro yechinetso chacho, kunyange zvazvo zvingagone kuvadzirisa pamwe chete, zvinogona kubvisa kutsamwa uye kuchengetedza manzwiro. Uye dzimwe nguva vaduku vanhu vane udyire havadi kugamuchira kusakwanisa kwekuve pamwe chete, nokuti mumwe wavo ane basa rinokurumidza kana chimwe chiitiko chinokosha mumhuri. Ipapo kutsamwa kunowedzera, avo vanobvumirana havagoni kurarama nayo, uye vose vari vaviri vanonzwa kuti manzwiro acho anoenda asingagoneki kune avo vose. Iko kuonekwa kwechinetso, chinogona kugadziriswa kana, panguva ino, ndiko kunzwisisa zvinetso zvemudiwa uye kusangana naye paanosarudza matambudziko ake. Ipapo iwe unogona kuchengetedza manzwiro. Zvinosuruvarisa, panguva dzakadaro, mafungiro anowedzera pamucheto, mukukanganisika kwevanhu vanokwanisa kutaurirana nemashoko akawanda asingafadzi, anonyadzisa, "nzvimbo yekudzoka" yapfuura, zvino nguva inosvika apo vashandi vari pachena kuti manzwiro avo apfuura, hapasisina rudo, tsitsi uye ruremekedzo kune umwe neumwe. Zvino usati uedze kubatana, munhu wose ane kodzero yekuenda, haanzwisisi kuparara kweukama sekunyadzisa kana kunyadziswa, kungonzwisisa kuti ichi chisarudzo ndicho chete chechokwadi kune vose uye vanobvumira mumwe nomumwe murugare. Upenyu pane izvi hahuna kuguma, uine ruzivo rwakanaka pakuvaka hukama, kutangazve, zvakare iwe uchabudirira, tenda mazviri.