Antipikap. Mitemo yekuzvidzivirira kwevasikana

Pikapery, kureva kuti, varume vakagadzirisa hukama nevakadzi nekuda kwekunyengera nokukurumidza, vave vachigara. Pakupedzisira, ivo vaidanwa kuti "vatendi vasina kutendeseka" uye vakaurayiwa mu duels. Nhasi, iyo pikicha yave yashandisi yemabhizimisi ose, panyaya iyi yakanyora mabhuku akawanda nemavhidhiyo. Seminari uye kudzidzisa kunoitwa, apo vechidiki vanodzidziswa kuti zviri nyore sei kuzivana uye nekukurumidza kunyengedza musikana. Vakomana vanoisa mari kuti vadzidzise uye vave maziso chaiwo, pameso avo vanhu vemukomana vakasiyana-siyana vanodonha uye vakaisa ... kwaari kumubhedha.

Kunyangwe iwe uri musikana akaregererwa zvemazuva ano, kwete muvengi wepabonde kweusiku humwe, hukama husina basa, nezvimwewo, iwe zvechokwadi unopesana nemashoko ehutano hwako hwekutanga uye hwekupedzisira mune zvose zvine tsvina zvinokurukurwa mumitambo yepamusoro pakusarudza. Uye mifananidzo yako nenzira ye "nude" yakatenderera pedyo neRetet. Nhamo, kune vamwe, chiratidzo chekuona haisi kungosiyana kwepabonde mupfungwa yevamwe venguva-svondo, asi mutambo mukuru nemakiti, vateki uye pepanhau zvinyorwa.

Uye kana iwe uine hukama hwakareba uye hwakakomba, uye hausi kuzova imwe "nyeredzi pane fuselage" yeumwe shamwari itsva, tarisa zvakanaka uye uchenjere kuongorora mafungiro ako.

Nheyo yekutora-kushamwaridzana nekuziva. Mumwe murume anowanzoswedera kumusikana waanoda uye, kubvunda uye kushamwaridzana, anobvunza "ndinokwanisa kukuonana newe here?" Pikaper anoronga kubva kune unozivana kuratidzwa uye anokurova pakarepo. Semuenzaniso, inenge iri pamberi pako pamabvi ako muchitsime uye ichipa maruva. Kana kuti achakukuvadza nemaune, nekukukwezva iwe ku cafe kuti "uite". Hapana mitsara yakadii, kwete mavongedzero evhesi haazoiti. Kunyange kana iwe wakaramba kakawanda, iye acharamba achinyanya kuseka uye achiomerera pakuenderera mberi kwehukama. Muchiitiko ichocho, kana iwe wakamuda zvikuru, kana ari muchengeti wemapikicha.

Iva akajaira kune vatsva vanoziva: mapikicha anogadziriswa pane avo vasina kuenzana uye kufanana kuratidza chiremera chavo. Pikaper-unyanzvi hunofananidzwa zvakasiyana nevakashambadza varume varipo. Akashongedzeka, akapfekedzwa zvakanaka, asingatyi zvinhu zvinotora maziso. Uye kana ane chifukidzo chakasvibiswa uye zvigunwe zvisere zvepepanhau, zvino, iva nechokwadi, iwe uchaedza kuzviratidza manheru ekutanga.

Imwe "alarm alarm", ichizivisa kuti fan yako pikaper - hupfumi hwayo. Zviri nyore kwazvo: ane zvakawanda zvevasikana, pane zvose zviri kuparadza mari. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti kana munhu aine hanya nemusikana, "achaisa mari muhukama." Hazvirevi kumirira kana kukumbira zvipo zvinodhura kubva kumurume. Asi kana jaya rakakupa chryshemhemum pane nzvimbo yakanaka, haana kukubhadhara iwe mu cafe, akazvikoka kuti ashanyire uye akauya asina chinhu, haana kuenda kumusha uye asina kupa mari tekisi, ichi chikonzero chokufungisisa zvakanyanya. Kana iye ari kukwidza-up, kana kuti kushungurudzika. Zvose izvo, uye imwe-chisarudzo chisina kukodzera iwe.

Kubvira pamanzwiro chaiwo iyo pepanhau haina chokuita, zvose zvinoitwa nemukomana wako zvichavakwa pamusoro pekunyengera. Achaedza kuchinja musoro wako nekukusimbisa nezvekusava nechokwadi kwako. Imwe musikana anononoka, iye achati ane chikwereti chechicchi, muridzi wezamu duku achadavira kuti "hukuru hahuna hanya," musikana asina ruzivo achamutumidza kunakidza uye zvakananga. Asi aya mazwi nemabasa ndiwo nzira yeku "tora" uye kuita kuti afunge nezvayo nguva dzose. Sei? Nhanho inotevera ye manipulator ndiyo mamiriro ezvinhu: kana ini ndine hanya newe, ita izvo zvandinoda. Ikozvino, tora zvepabonde neni, hazvina basa kuti iwe hausati waibva.

Nenzira yakawanda, sezvo chinangwa chevanyori vekutsvaga ndechepanguva imwe chete yepabonde, iwe uchave wakanyatsoda kutamira kwaari. Kuti azadzike, achashandisa purogiramu yakazara kushandisa maitiro epfungwa, kumanikidzwa pamatambudziko asina kusimba uye zvinorwadza. Yeuka kuti munhu akajairika kumanikidzira uye kuchinja musikana wake anodiwa haazoiti.

Saka, sei kuti urege kuva umwe "fungai muzvinyorwa" zvepikicha? Chirongwa chedu chikuru ndechekuchenesa sanity uye intuition. Mumwe nemumwe wedu anotora kupesana nemweya wechitanhatu. Ichi hachisi kunyunyuta kana paranoia. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti shamwari yako inhema kwauri, haitauri, "inobereka" - kakawanda, saka ndizvo. Uye iwe unotofanira kuenda zvakanaka, don Juan ngaatsvake mumwe munhu akaremara.