Saka edza kutsvaga mhinduro dzemubvunzo uyo pasina mubvunzo unonetseka vazhinji: kuti kudzivisa zvepabonde kune hutano hwevarume nevakadzi. Zvisinei, kunyange nemashoko oga-pfungwa dzinopinda mumubvunzo uyu dzinoda tsanangudzo yakasiyana.
Masayendisiti eIsrael akawana kuti mushure memakore gumi ekudzivisa, chikamu chinokosha chevarume vanobatanidzwa mukuedza kwakaderedza kunaka kwe spermatozoa, kunyange zvazvo nhamba yavo yakawedzera.
Chirwere chakareba kubva kuHong Kong, uyo akapemberera zuva rake rekuberekwa kwe10, anotenda kuti kurarama kwake kwenguva refu kunogona kubatanidzwa nekudzivisa kwenguva refu kubva pabonde.
Chikwata cheGermany Ronnie Ackermann, uyo akakunda medari yesirivha paSalt Lake City Olympic, anobatanidza zvaakawana nekurega kurega kwenguva refu. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinofunga kuti zviri nani kuti varume vasiye zvepabonde vasati vambokwikwidzana, uye kuvakadzi, zvisinei, hupenyu hutsinye hwemhirizhonga hunobatsira kurova zvinyorwa. Zvisinei, dzidziso iyi ine vadzivisi.
Kwemakore anoverengeka, zvikoro zveAmerica zvakadzidzisa nyaya "Kuita zvepabonde" kuderedza nhamba yezvirwere zvepabonde nekudzivirira pakati pevechiri kuyaruka. Izvo zvinotyisa ndezvokuti nyaya iyi yakatangwa pasi peMutungamiri Bill Clinton - hero yepasi pose inonyadzisa zvepabonde.
Mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu haisi iyo yakajeka, nokuti:
Idzimu uye hutano hwepabonde hwakasiyana nevanhu vose, saka kune mumwe munhu pasvondo pasina zvepabonde unova muedzo wakakomba, uye mumwe munhu anenge asingatori pasina kwemwedzi inoverengeka.
Mukuwedzera, basa rinokosha rinotarirwa nezvikonzero nei munhu aine hutano hwepabonde uye kana achimupa kusaremara mumuviri kana mutsika, iye ari pamusana pokushaiwa kwechido kana zvakasiyana-siyana - anofanira kubviswa.
Saka, hazvikwanisike kugadzirisa nguva, apo kupera kunosvika pakuzvidzivirira, nyanzvi haisi kugadzirira zvakadaro. Zvisinei, vanove nechokwadi chokuti kusavapo kwepabonde hakuperi mumuviri pasina tsanangudzo. Zvinonzi Sexopathologist zvinowanzoparadzanisa nguva isina zvepabonde muzvikamu zviviri:
1. Kuenderana nemarota asina kunaka uye chido chepabonde;
2. Kudzorera apo kupera zvishoma nezvishoma / sublimation ye libido inotanga, uye kudzoka haisi nyore nguva dzose.
Chii chinoitika kuvanhu?
Varume vane chimwe chikonzero kana chimwe chinhu vanorambidzwa zvepabonde vachiri vaduku, kunyange zvazvo vangave vasina kunzwa vakasununguka, asi havaiti zvinokuvadza zvakakomba, sekutonga, havazviunzi, uye vane mukana wekudzoka kune zvinonakidza zvisingaiti pasina. Zvisinei, kana munhu mukuru, kusamanikidzika kuzvidzora kunokonzera kujekesa kwehutano hwevarume - kudzokera kuhutano hwehupombwe, kunyanya mushure mekunge kwenguva yakareba, zvingava zvakaoma, pakusangana nemamiriro ekurarama kwenguva refu kwenguva refu, zvinetso zvakasiyana-siyana zvinogona kuitika. Uye mukuru murume uyu, zvakanyanya kuoma zvinetso izvi ndezvi: kana mumakore makumi mana kusavapo kwepabonde nguva dzose kunokonzerwa nekusvika nguva isati yasvika uye kusagadzikana kwe prostatitis, uye pashure pekunge 50 inogona kuwedzerwa kunyange kusakwana kwakakwana, nokuti kukanganisa kwechizvarwa chechido chekuita zvepabonde kunonyanya kupera kwekuregererwa kwebhaibheri kubva pakurega.
Kumanikidzwa kubvisa kunokanganisa pfungwa yepfungwa yemukadzi uye kazhinji inotungamirira kumagadzirirwo emagetsi. Nezvo zvakabatana: nekushayikwa kwepabonde kana nekuti mukadzi wacho anonzwa kuti haashandisi kune ani zvake - haazivi. Masayendisiti anotenda kuti kugunun'una kwevanoti "vasikana vekare" ndiko, kutanga, kuwedzeredza, uye chechipiri, hazvibatanidzi nehupenyu hwavo hwekusingaperi, nokuti kusagadzikana kwepabonde kune avo ndezvekuzvarwa uye hakunzwisisi sekurasikirwa. Zvinonzwisisika kufungidzira kuti ndiyo chaiyo maitiro ehutsika hwakasarudza kusurukirwa kwavo kwevakadzi. Kuzvidzivirira mumuviri hakuregi kune vakadzi vaduku, vanoita zvepabonde mukugadzira. Asi nezera, mukadzi ane hutano hwepabonde anova zvakaoma kukubvuma kusava nekugutsikana kwepabonde. Zvisinei, zvizhinji pano zvakare zvinoenderana nezvetsika.
Kubatana kwepabonde kwakabatana ndezvepanyama uye, pasina mubvunzo, chikamu chakanakisisa chehupenyu hwemunhu chero upi zvake uyewo kudzidzisa kunoshamisa kwemitemo yose yemitemo. Nokudaro, kuramba zvepabonde, hongu, hazvina kukodzera. Zvepabonde muhupenyu hwako zvinofanira kunge zvakanyanyisa sezvamunoda - ichi chisinganzwisisiki chinyorwa icho chinotsigirwa navanachiremba vemakato akasiyana, zvikoro uye mazano.