Sei takasarudza nyaya iyi yakaoma yekufungisisa nekutsvaga: matambudziko evanhu-zvepfungwa zvemhuri ine doro? Nokuda kwezvikonzero zvinokonzera kudhakwa zvinoshungurudza kwete chete munhu anorwara, asiwo zvizhinji pamusoro pemhuri, saka ikozvino kudhakwa kunoonekwa sechirwere chemhuri. Kuti uwane chigumo, uye zviri nani kuwana zvose maererano nehosha, funga zvinhu zvakadaro semafungiro ehosha yacho pachayo, zvikonzero zvekuitika kwayo, migumisiro yemunhu uye yemhuri yese.
Kunwa doro ndechirwere umo munhu anoshungurudza doro, uye panguva imwechete atotowana mitsva yakawanda, zvose zvehupenyu uye zvepfungwa-zvemagariro. Pakutanga, apo doro rakangobuda mumitambo yekare, raishandiswa kuita tsika dzekare zvakangofananidzira, asi dzichishandisa zvidhakwa zvinodhaka. Zvadaro chirwere chacho chakatanga kukura, apo kubatana kwakadaro kwechikwata semuzinda wechipfuva wakaonekwa, uye vanhu vakatanga kudzivisa matambudziko ezuva nezuva. Kusvikira nhasi, dambudziko rekudhakwa rinongowedzera, zvichida ichi ndicho chimbo icho isu pachedu tinouraya vanhu vedu kubva mukati.
Sezvo chiri chikonzero chikuru chekudhakwa, vazhinji vanosarudza chiito chekuita chiitiko chinoitika mushure mekudhakwa doro. Mushure mokunge, musinganzwisisiki, inobatsira kupumhudza, kufara, kuve yakasimba, kukunda mamwe matambudziko epfungwa. Mukuwedzera, zvinokonzera kudhakwa zvinogona kugoverwa mumapoka maviri: izvo zvinokonzera kuitika kwechidhakwa nekuvandudzwa kwaro kune mumwe munhu, uyewo zvikonzero zvinobatsira pakuvandudzika kwayo mune zvemagariro evanhu.
Pakati pezvinokonzera kukanganisa kudhakwa sechirwere, kuchave kwakadaro: hukama hwemagariro evanhu (hunhu hwemagariro evanhu uye mafungiro evanhu), mupfungwa, sechiratidzo chekusadzingiswa kwevanhu uye nezvepfungwa dzevanhu, kusagadziriswa kwehutsika hwehutsika uye matambudziko echomukati maererano nezvayo. Genetic inokonzera kusarudzwa kwechirwere ichi, nemhaka yekuti kudhakwa chirwere chinowanikwa nhaka. Itaiwo zvimwe zvinokonzera zvipenyu, zvinosanganisira kudiwa kwevanhu kwezvinhu zvakakodzera, kuvimba kwayo, nezvimwewo.
Chimwe chezvikonzero ndezvekudhakwa kwevanhu nhasi, kudhakwa mune dzimwe nguva kunonzwisiswa sechinhu chakakosha, kusina migumisiro inokosha. Vanhu vari kuramba vachiwedzera uye vanozvipira kune izvi, nguva yekudhakwa inoderera, pakupedzisira tinoona kuti kudhakwa kunogona kuitika mu ... vana. Tinoda ramangwana rakadaro here? Chirwere chacho pachacho hachisi kungofunga nezvepfungwa chete asiwo zvehupenyu kuzvidzora, chirwere, uyewo chimwe chinhu chepamusoro egocentric uye mupfungwa kwete kushamwaridzana. Mudhakwa, pane dzimwe nguva, munhu anenge achizvipukunyuka achibva kune chokwadi, kunwa, kuchinja chokwadi chaiye uye vaanoda, achigutsa zvaanoda, pasinei nekukumbira kwevamwe.
Kunwa doro kunosanganisira migumisiro yakaipa yehupenyu hwakasiyana, zvose zvehupenyu uye hwemagariro evanhu, zvepfungwa. Pamusoro pezvo, kukanganisa kunopfuurira kune vanhu vazhinji kwazvo, sezvo doro rinokonzera matambudziko kwete iye oga, asiwo nevana vake mune ramangwana, mhuri uye zvakatipoteredza zvaainazvo iye zvino, zvakare kune nyika yake. Iye oga anobatsirwa nekudhakwa ndiye muiti wake, nokuti inozivikanwa kuti kubudisa doro ibhi rakanaka chaizvo.
Kana tikasarura maitiro ehupfumi nehupfungwa-ehupenyu hunokonzera kudhakwa, madambudziko avo achachengetwa mukati memapoka aya maviri. Nenzira yakawanda, iyo inongororwa yepfungwa, zvemagariro, zvehutano uye zvepamutemo. Nekushandisa doro, kuparwa kwemhosva kunowedzera, uye chimiro chaicho chakajeka ndechokutungamirirwa kwehupenyu hwako. Kunwa doro pachako kunokwidza zvitatu nezvikonzero zvekufa, kunoparadza muviri, hurongwa hwekutya; kukanganisa kwepfungwa kwekudhakwa kunongova kukuru. Migumisiro ichave yekurasikirwa kwehupfumi kubva kunwa doro, kuderera kwekurarama kwehupenyu, kuderera kwekushanda nesimba uye unyanzvi hwakasiyana-siyana, kuwedzerwa kwehutano hwekutarisira, kuwedzera kwehutachiona, kupesana kwehukama nevamwe, kukakavadzana.
Matambudziko ehupfumi nehupfumi hwemhuri ane doro ichave yakakosha zvikuru. Kunwa doro kunotungamirira mukurambana, kukakavara, kusawirirana kwemhuri, kukanganisa kwehukama, kushungurudzika, mishonga, kukanganisa kwevamwe vemhuri ine doro. Chii chinonzi kuvimbisana kwevamwe vemumhuri, pakati pavo kune doro? Kunyanya kuzviremekedza, kuzviramba kwezvinetso zvake, kurasikirwa kwekutarisira hupenyu hwomurwere, uye pamusoro pezvake. Kunwa doro kunoparadza hupenyu uye mhuri yeramangwana yemwana wako, apo iwe unosvika makore makumi matanhatu nemasere kubva kuzana makumi mapfumbamwe nemazana evanakomana vako vanova doro kana kuti zvinodhaka. Kune vasikana, chiyero chacho chiduku, asi ivo vanonyanya kutungamirirwa neruzhinji. Kune vana, kudhakwa kwevabereki kunorwadza zvikuru uye kunogona kutungamirira mukusavhiringidzika kwepfungwa, zvakanakisisa - kuzvinetsa nguva dzose uye neuroses. Zvinwiwa pachavo zvinowanzova nekutambudzika kubva pakuora mwoyo, kuwedzera, ivo vanowanzoita kuti vawane zvinetso zvepfungwa mupfungwa.
Zvichengetere iwe nemhuri yako, usakundwa nehutano hwechinwa doro nekubatsira vamwe vakakupoteredza. Zvichida mune ramangwana, kuburikidza nekuedza pamwe chete, tichakwanisa kukurira dambudziko iri.