Chinhu chokutanga.
Munhu wose anoziva kuti kuchengeta mudzimai nemubatsiro wokuberekwa hakubatsiri, hazvizosimbisi ukama, asi kunowedzera kukanganisa. Asi zvakadaro kuonekwa kwomwana kuchiri kukwanisa kusimbisa ukama huno - sarudzo yekubatana yezvinetso zvevana inokonzera kukakavadzana kwavo pachavo kumashure. Asi mwana wacho achakura uye zvinhu zvose zvichawira zvakare, vabereki vachadzoka kune zvavanopesana, nepo kukwanisa kukurukurirana kwave kwanyangarika. Mhosva dzinowanzoitika apo mhuri iri pedyo nepokurambana, mwana anotanga kurwara nguva dzose, matambudziko anoitika. Uku ndiko kupesana kwekusaziva pamusoro pekurambana kwekuroorana kwevabereki, izvo zvinokwezva kufunga. Pasina mubvunzo, iyi inokosha yakakura yekubuda kwemhuri kubva munguva inonetsa. Dzimwe nguva vabereki vari kumucheto kwechikwata chekuchata vanoziva kuti vachakurumidza kuva vabereki uye vasarudza kuti chipo chakadai chekuguma chiri mukana wekusimbisa ukama hwavo. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, vakaroorana vanobudirira.
Chipiri chechipiri.
Iyo ngozi yehupenyu hwemhuri ndeyekutanga. Vanoonekwa sevasina kusimba, nokuti pamapfudzi evarume vakaroorana vane zvinetso zvakawanda zvavanofanira kugadzirisa: nyaya, dzimba, nyanzvi. Kuroorana pakati pevanhu vano "mira zvakasimba pamakumbo avo" vanoporofita hupenyu hurefu. Mushure mehupenyu hurefu hwehutano, zvichaoma zvakaoma kuchinja kune hupenyu hwemhuri, kugadzirisa kune mumwe wako, shandura mararamiro ako. Mumachato ekutanga pane zvinopesana, nguva yekugadziriswa uye "kugaya" nemumwe wako zviri nyore zvikuru nekubatsirwa kwepfungwa dzakagadziriswa, izvo zvinongowanikwa kune vechidiki chete.
Chechitatu chikonzero.
Vazhinji vanofunga kuti kana mhuri ichikamanikidzwa kugara ichigadzirisa zvinetso kukurira matambudziko, inokurumidza "kuputsa", kwete nekusangana kwakadaro. Vamwe vanotenda kuti chinokonzera dambudziko mumhuri ndiyo iyo inonzi "kuparara", kusuruvara, kufanana, uye matambudziko ari kusangana pamwe chete. Dambudziko mumhuri rinogona kukanganisa humwe hutatu hwehupenyu nekusimba kwayo.
Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, chetatu chinowanikwa mumhuri imwe neimwe, uye izvi zvinotungamirira kune zvakawanda kuchinja. Chokutanga, vabereki vari kutarisira kumatangwe nekutarisira kukuru uye mufaro, uye mwedzi mishomanana mushure mokuberekwa, kune mhirizhonga mumba.
Kubata, kubereka, maawa makumi maviri nemasere kutarisira matayire emwana amai vaduku. Mudzimai anoneta nguva dzose anotsanangurira kunyunyuta kwemurume wake, anomupomera zvinhu zvose, anomanikidza kumubatsira pamwe chete. Baba vacho havana kunyarara: anoramba achiyeuchidza kuti ari kushanda uye ari kunetawo, uye kana asingakwanisi kurarama nemishandiro emhuri, ndiye mudzimaikadzi akaipa uye amai. Maonero evanhu vakadaro pamusoro pemudzimai wake haasi akanaka kwazvo, anofunga kuti yaiva mhosva yake kuti pane matambudziko mune zvepabonde. Uye sezvo varume vehafu vasingadi kuwana hukama, ndicho chikonzero vanoedza, vanogona sei kuonekwa kumba. Kazhinji pane panguva ino chifeve chokutanga chemurume wake - haatarisiri zvepabonde, asi kune zvizhinji zvekunzwa nzeve, anoda kudurura zvido kumudzimai wake, anoratidza kuti iye achiri murume.
Kuvhiringidza pakati pehukama huri kukudzika, matambudziko emhuri ari kutanga kukura sechando. Rubatsiro rwehama (vanasekuru, vanasekuru) kumubereki muduku ane chiitiko chakanaka, kunyanya kwevhiki, amai vakaneta vanogona kurara kubva kunetseka kwezuva nezuva. Asi dzimwe nguva, pane zvinopesana, izvi zvinomanikidzira ukama hwevakaroorana: chizvarwa chekare chinonyanya kufarira, uye dzimwe nguva hachigoni kuzvidzivirira uye kwete kuratidza maonero avo, kuongorora vaduku vabereki. Kazhinji kazhinji zvakaipa. Mukuwedzera, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, baba vaduku havakwanisi kushamwaridzana nekushamwaridzana nemucheche, anotanga kunzwa asingakoshi, pane nguva, anofunga kuti mari inotarisirwa kubva kwaari. Nguva dzose inonyadzisa chero munhu upi zvake. Somugumisiro - nguva yakawanda neshamwari, yakawedzerwa nguva yakareba, mikana yokutengesa iri kuramba ichikura. Mukupindura, anogamuchira zvimwe zvinotaurwa kubva kumukadzi wake.
Upenyu hwemhuri hwehukama hwechidiki hunofananidzwa nechikepe. Mugore rokutanga mushure mokuberekwa kwechecheche, "chikepe" chemhuri yavo iri kushingaira kwazvo kuti iite nyore kuenda pasi. Maererano nehuwandu panguva ino, nhamba yakakura yemichato yevechidiki vakaroorana vari kuparadzaniswa. Kunyangwe paiva nekutanga kwakanaka kwakadaro.