Chii chaainazvo chandisina? Sei aine icho, asi handizvo? Uyu mubvunzo uyu unomutsa kunzwa kwakanyanyisa uye kwakashata, izvo dzimwe nguva kunounza matambudziko akawanda kune avo vasingatauri nemafungiro akafanana. Nguva dzinokurudzira godo remakwikwi, hukuru, asi vazhinji vavo vanoratidzika nechitarisiko (isu tiri kutaura nezvakanaka uye chimiro) uye zvepabonde.
Runako
Varume nevakadzi vakanaka pavanofarira vakomana nevasikana. Kuziva mukadzi / murume semunhu anokwanisa kuita naye, hatimboiti kukanganisa kuti ndechipi chehafu inoda.
Kana tichitaura nezvehutano hwekunaka mumuviri wakasiyana-siyana, nhoroondo inoratidza kuti samples, maitiro ekunakisa ari kuchinja zvikuru munyika dzakasiyana uye tsika. Mukuwedzera kune zvakasarudzwa kune vanhu vasina chimiro chekuti muviri unonzi asymmetry, uyewo "chiyero" muchimiro, pane zvimwe, zvichichinja tsika dzetsika.
MuGirisi neRoma yekare, mitemo yekunaka kwevarume nevakadzi yakange isinganzwisisiki kubva pamitemo yezana remakore rechimakumi maviri, nguva yekufambiswa kwesangano reOlympic. MuMiddle Ages, unogona kuona mafashoni ekuzadza (somuenzaniso, mumifananidzo yeRubens), uye pamusoro pekugona kubereka (mifananidzo yevaDutch masters, somuenzaniso, madzimai ane pamuviri).
Pakati pezana remakore rechimakumi maviri, maitiro ekunaka kwemuviri akataridzika zvakanaka uye akaenzana. Parizvino, "mafashoni" anoenderera mberi kuzivisa muitiro wekunakirwa kwevakadzi, semunhu akaonda kwazvo, akareba kwazvo.
Mukuwedzera kune runako rwepanyama, pfungwa yekunamata, kunaka kwemweya yakaumbwa mumitambo yevanhu. Izvi zvinoshanda kune vanhu, pasinei nezera ravo uye zvepabonde, uye rinosarudza mafungiro kune uchenjeri, kutendeseka, kukanganisa, kunaka kwevanhu.
Nhamba huru
Kwemazuva mazhinji zvakambofungidzirwa kuti kuvapo kwechimiro chakanaka hakusi kungoita chete, asi zvinodikanwa. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzekare dzakagamuchira maonero aya emufananidzo. Panguva iyoyo, kuvapo kwechimiro chakanakisisa kwakanga kusiri chido chomumwe munhu. Chimiro chakanaka chaingova chaidiwa.
Kana iri nyika yemazuva ano, tinogona kutaura kuti iye zvino pane imwe nzira yemuviri wakanaka, asi chifananidzo hachinazve chinzvimbo chakafanana nenguva yaAristotle. Asi kufarira mumufananidzo wakanaka haukwanise kupera. Izvi zvinogona kutsanangurwa sei?
Sigmund Freud akati munhu wese hupenyu hwake hunoita zvinhu zviviri: zvokudya uye kugutsikana kwepabonde. Nhamba yacho inobatana neizvi? Hongu yakanyanya kunyatsoona! Kuti uve nechimiro chakanaka, zvakakosha kuti udye zvakanaka uye zvakakodzera, zvakakosha kudya, somuenzaniso, zviyero zvakaringana zvemichero, miriwo nemimwe michina, sezvo zvokudya zvakasiyana-siyana zvinogona kupa muviri muviri wakakwana wezvibereko zvakasiyana-siyana, semuenzaniso, mavitamini.
Apo kushayikwa kwezvinhu zvipi zvataurwa pamusoro apa zvinoshandiswa pakushandisa zvakasiyana-siyana zvinowedzera zvokudya. Iyo yakanyanyisa kuenzaniswa maererano nekuwanikwa kwezvikamu zvakasiyana-siyana ndeyekudya kwemitambo. Inotarisa kuvepo kwezvinhu zvose zvemakemikari zvinokonzerwa pakugadzirisa kwakakodzera. Cherechedza kuti vatambi vanogona kuzvirumbidza pamusoro pechimiro chavo, uye izvi hazvifaniri kungoenderana nekuti ivo vari kugara vachidzidzisa.
Upenyu hwepabonde
Nezvekugutsikana kwepabonde, kupusa kuramba kudikanwa kwechimiro chakanaka kuti chizadzise chinangwa ichi. Basa rinokosha pakucherechedza hutano hwevanhu vasingazivikanwi runotaridzwa nemufananidzo. Semuenzaniso, musikana ari mudiki paanoongorora nhamba yemuviri (chimiro) inokwezva kuvapo kwechikoro chechidiki chechina, iyo inonzi inowanikwa nevanhu vakawanda vane makumbo maduku. Ngwarira mufananidzo wevanhu vakawanda, asi iri panguva imwechete kuratidzwa kwakanyanyisa kwekunetseka kwechimiro. Inofanirawo kudziviswa, zvisinei hazvizoendese kune chero chinhu chakanaka.
Iwe unogona kazhinji kuona miviri yakaisvonaka paTV. Kunyanya mukudhinda uye mafirimu. Zvakaoma kufungidzira chero maitiro emabhaisikopo pasina kubatanidzwa kwe protagonist nechimiro chinoshamisa.
Sezvo mutemo, kutarisira chimiro chake chinowanzoenderana nevasikana, sekuvanhu, ikozvino hazvisi nyore kuwana murume ane chimiro chakanaka. Zvakaoma kutaura kana zvakanaka kana kwete. Somuenzaniso, panguva yeAristotle yakataurwa pamusoro apa, zvakanga zvakaoma kuwana murume asina hanya nechitarisiko chake, chimiro nezvimwe zvinhu. Iyo yakabatanidzwa munzvimbo yekutanga neyekuti tsika yeiyo nguva yaiva yehuchani. Kuroorana pakati pemurume nemudzimai kwaive kwechimiro chetsika uye zvaive zvakakodzera chete kupfuurira kwemhuri. Nguva dziri kuchinja! Mazuva ano, ungochani hwakarasikirwa nekukosha kwenguva yaAristotle uye kudiwa kwechimiro chakanaka munharaunda (pakati pevarume) chaderera zvikuru. Ukama huri pakati pemurume nemukadzi ndeyemutsika, uye pano inofanira kuonekwa kuti mukadzi ari mumurume haaswededzwi nemunhu chete. Izvi zvinoderedzawo kudiwa kwemuviri wakanaka.
Parizvino, kune mazano akawanda ekuvandudza muviri, kune matani emagadziro anoita kuti iwe uchinje chimiro. Aya maitiro akawanda kwazvo, i.e. i "musanganiswa" wemhando dzakasiyana-siyana, maitiro uye mazvokudya.
Inowanzokwanisa kugadzirisa chiyero ichi kuderedza uremu. Mumapfumbamwe emazana ematatu, mafuta emunharaunda uye mahombekombe akawandisa anobatanidzwa nekuputsika kwemakinhydrate metabolism. Zvinoratidzwa kuti hormone yakabudiswa nepascreas - insulin inoita basa guru mukugadzirisa kwemafuta mashomanana. Kudya kunotungamirira kuwedzerwa kubudiswa kwe insulin mukupindurwa nekudya nokukurumidza kwehuwandu hweshuga muropa. Insulin inokurudzira kufanana kwemafuta uye inodzivirira cleavage yavo mumafuta masero. Nokudaro kazhinji kacho hazvibviri kuderedza uremu pasina kubvisa insulin block. Uye chete apo uwandu hwe insulin huchiderera, nzira dzekuparadzanisa mafuta uye kusunungurwa kwemafuta acids kubva mumasero anotanga. Kuwedzera kurema zvechokwadi dambudziko rakakomba, sezvo rinogona kuva chinhu chinokosha kune zvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana. Uye mitsipa yakanamatira inoita sokuti haisi yakanaka chaizvo.
Chiitiko chinowanzoitika munguva ichangobva kuitika, ndeye kufara kwevakawanda nehuwandu hwemitambo yakadaro sekuvaka muviri. Iri rinotaura mutauro wechiChirungu rinonyatsogadziriswa mumutauro weRussia, kana iwe ukaedza kuishandura mudu redu, zvino zvichaita sekuvaka muviri (chimiro). Chinhu chakanakisisa nokuda kwekusimudzirwa kwechimiro chacho chinokanganisa nekushambira, nekuda kwechikonzero ichi, hatifaniri kukanganwa nezvekuvapo kwemahombekombe ekudhara. Iye zvino pane mamiriro ezvinhu ose anodiwa ekurasikirwa nekurema uye dzimwe nzira dzinotungamirira pakuvandudza kwechimiro, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti chido chekuvandudza ichi chimiro hachibvisi!
Sezvaunogona kuona, zvose zviri mumaoko edu. Uye unogona kuvandudza mumwe nomumwe, saka sei uchigodora, kana iwe uchigona kuita?