Neyekutanga maitiro akadaro, rudo rwakanga rusipo pakutanga kwehukama, pakati pavo hakuna kuumbwa kupfuura chido chokubereka, izvo zvinozviratidza kune zvisikwa zvipenyu zvepasi redu. Kukwezva kwechimiro kwakange kwakavakirwa pazvinyorwa zvisinganzwisisiki zvevabereki uye amai. Munhu mumwe nomumwe anotaura manzwiro ake zvakasiyana, asi ungaziva sei: rudo kana unyengeri?
Sezvo tsanangudzo yakadaro yemurangariro we rudo haisipo mukusiyana nemafungiro ekunyengera. Rudo rune marudzi akasiyana, kubva pane izvo isu tose tinowana muupenyu hwedu hwose - vanaamai, kuda nyika yedu, asi rudo rune simba uye rwakanaka rwechokwadi, chokwadi, rudo pakati pevanoda vaviri. Rudzi urwu rworudo rusingarondedzere sechimiro chekuda kwakasimba, chido chinotyisa kupenga, zviitiko, uye kutarisira munhu wechipiri wehukama hwemhando mbiri inokosha zvakare.
Panguva imwecheteyo, tinowanzoona kuti munhu watinoda kwatiri munyika ndiyo chikamu chinovhenekera nzira yedu, kunyange mukukakavara, tinoedza kusagumburana kune mumwe nemumwe asi kuumba pfungwa dzedu kuti tirambe tichifambidzana nehukama hwepedyo pedyo nesu mudiwa, kugamuchira rudo uye kukanganwira unyengera. Kazhinji tisati takaita rudo rwakadaro tinonzwa kunzwa kuti vamwe vedu tinokanganisa kutenda rudo. Iyi manzwiro anonzi rudo, inogona "kugogodza" musoro wedu, kudzivisa pfungwa, tinogona kuzvibata sevana uye hatinzwisisi izvi nokuti hatina hanya nemafambiro edu, hatina hanya nemafungiro eumwe munhu, isu hatiwanzofariri mumwe kunze kweumwe munhu, nekuda kwatinosimudzirwa. Uyezve, kune vanodikanwa uye vanhu vane rudo hapana mazwi akadaro saIye, anoratidza rudo rwavo rwongotaura chete - WE.
Rudzi rwechipiri rworudo pakati pevanhu vaviri rinogona kunzi rudo rwepabonde. Mariri, mumwe wemapato anogona kunyatsoda, sezvaanofarira uye asinganzwisisiki, achizununguka mumanzwiro ake, uye izvi zvichava rudo rwechokwadi kwaari, asi uyo wechipiri haazooni mukati maro kunze kwechinangwa chekuita zvepabonde nekunyaradzwa kwezvinodiwa zvepabonde.
Rudo rwakadaro rwechikwata chechipiri runogonawo kunzi chinhu chisiri chekunyengedza, kunyengedza kwehukama, asi pakutanga pakutanga zvakakosha kuziva zvakajeka rudo urwu kana kunyengedza kuitira kuti usakanganiswa. Muhukama hwakadaro, chimiro chechipiri hachina kushamwaridzana nemumwe wake, sekutonga, haana hanya, nekukura, uyo aneye. Nepo kune munhu ane rudo rwechokwadi, chiito ichi chehafu yake chichamuraya, nokuti haagoni kungoisa rudo, kana kuisa mukati make pachake iyo munhu uye kunzwisisa kwaro, ndiyo manzwiro ake, uye kwete nzira iyo inongorongedzwa nyore nyore nenzira yevamwe mbambo. Mukushamwaridzana kwakadaro, kupopotedzana kunowanzoitika, semugumisiro wekuti kune zvipingamupinyi zvisinganonoki kwenguva yakareba, sezvo zvakaoma kuti munhu aone mutsetse pakati pe rudo nekunyengera.
Muhukama pakati pevanhu, zvinogona kuve zvakajairika uye pakutanga kuona zvinyengeri, asi dzimwe nguva dzinopa imwe nzvimbo yekufungisisa. Nemhaka yeiyo pane unyengeri muhukama? Chikonzero chikuru cheizvi ndechekuti munhu anotya iwe, chimwe chinhu chaunofanira kutaura, izvi zvinogoneka, asi sei, nokuti iwe unomuda, uye iwe. Ari kungotya migumisiro yeizvi, asi kuenda kune chinhano chisingafungidzirwe, haatombofungi kuti nzira yakadai yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma inogona kutungamirira kune chimwe chinhu kunze kwetsika yekunyengedza munhu wake. Nhasi haana kumuudza kuti aifamba zvishoma neshamwari yake, mangwana somuenzaniso, zvaaiedza kuita, mumwe munhu kuti asangane uye saizvozvo mumazuva mashomanana aisazoti ainwa kofi muresitorendi ane shamwari itsva, ndokuenda kumba kwake. Hongu, zvose hazvina kuitika, asi zvakaguma zvaita kuti kuve nokunyengedzera uye sekupedzisa kuparara kwehukama. Zvechokwadi, sezvo zvichibvira kutaura pamusoro pevarume, unyengeri chimwe chinhu - nezvakakosha kurwisana pamatambo ekutanga ekuonekwa kwacho, tsvina ruvara rune tsvina kubva paukama hwako. Zviri nani kutaura chokwadi, hungu, iwe uchakakavadzana zvishoma, kupopotedzana, asi kunze kweizvi, uye hukama huri chinhu, vanhu vanokakavara, kana vachidanana, zvino vanoyananisa. Mune mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, munhu haafaniri kumbvunza shamwari kana shamwari, zvisinei kuti unoita sei, unofanira kuzvisarudzira iwe, uye uve nehanya nezvesarudzo yako, chero chii chinouya iwe unofanirwa iwe pachako. Ingoyeuka kuti iwe wakanyengedza kamwe - kunyengerwa zvakare, saka zvakakosha kuziva kuti kubiridzira uye rudo zvinhu zviviri zvisingawirirani.
Munhu wose anogona kurarama asina rudo, asi munhu akadaro haazoregi zvakawanda, acharasikirwa nezvinhu zvose. Haakwanisi kunzwa kuti anoda mumwe, kuti mumwe munhu ane hanya naye uye anomumirira; iyewo haazokwanisi kuzvinzwa iye pachake maererano neumwe munhu. Zvakafanana nemunhu asina kumboziva maruva muupenyu hwake, haana kuona kuti maruva anotsvaira anofarira sei mavara ayo; iye aisagona kunakidzwa nemimhanzi, haana kunzwa kuchema kwekuimba kweeshiri, aisagona kuona kunaka kose kwezvisikwa, akararama hupenyu hwake hwose hweguru pasina.