Shingairira tsika dzenyu dzakaipa, kurwisana nousimbe, dzidzai zvinhu zvitsva, fara zuva nezuva!
Wati wakambofunga here kuti vana vedu vane pfungwa yakananga igirazi redu? Iwe unogona kunyunyuta kwenguva refu nezvekuoma kana kutsamwa kwemwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako, asi kazhinji kazhinji iyo yakashata ine tsvina iyo ine zvisizvo zvishoma zvisingabvumirwi purogiramu yakadai yakakosha kana inoda kuti iwe umutungamirire mukufamba kusvika kune rimwe bhokisi rejecha riri "kurevekwa" kubva kwauri. Zvakanaka, iwe unogona kutora chokwadi ichi uchifunga uye unoramba uchirwisana nemitemo yakaipa yevana vako asi hazvisi nyore here kuzvivakira iwe kuitira kuti mirati yekutaridzika inoratidze mufananidzo wakaisvonaka? nce inoti: "Nokufamba kwenguva, mwana wako achava muenzaniso wenyu uye miitiro, kwete zano rako." Saka, tinopfuurira kurongwa uye kushanda nesimba pachedu!
Tarisa mutauro
Usashandise tsvina iwe pachako uye muganise mumashoko ekuti mwana akavapoteredza vanhu. Enda mberi - usaenda kunzira isina kunaka, yekare yekutaurirana. Kazhinji zviise pfungwa mupfungwa yemwana wako. Ungada here kudai munhu wepedyo anotsamwa achiti: "Ndakati kuna ani zvake: bvisa makateti uye ushambidze maoko ako - kudya kwemanheru patafura!" Tsika yekuchema zvisina kukodzera haina kuwedzera kumhepo. kukura munhu ane hanya uye ane njere munhu anozviremekedza iye uye nevamwe vanhu Taura "mashoko emashiripiti", kusanganisira apo iwe uchikumbira mwana kuti aite chimwe chinhu ("tauya, tapota, mukombe kubva muimba") kana kuonga nekuda kwekukumbira chikumbiro (" Ndingadai ndisina kukwanisa kunze kwako! "). Taurira vavakidzani vako, ivai neruremekedzo uye vanofungisisa munharaunda dzekutakura vanhu, kunyange kana iwe ukasangana nehutamende chaiyo. Vana havadi kuti vaone kuti unotsamwa sei.
Mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, chengetedza chiso chako uye ushande pane tsika dzako dzakaipa. Usapomera mwana kuti azive vanhu - kana zvakadaro, iva nechokwadi chokuti amai vako vamwene ndivo vachaziva zvaunofunga kuti iye akaoma kubva mupfungwa.
Idya zvakarurama
Kuonekwa kwomwana chiitiko chisingawanzoiti chese mhuri yose kutanga kudya kudya kwakanaka, kwakasiyana uye kwakaringana. Kana iwe usingadi kuti iwe usati wambova nenguva yakajeka kuve nehanya nemafuta mashoma mashekeri, bheri, chips, ma-noodles uye zvimwe zvokudya zvinokanganisa - usachengetedza chero chinhu chakadai mumba. Mwana wacho akagumburwa, kana asingabvumirwi kuedza chimwe chinhu icho vabereki vane ruzivo rwakajeka vanozvidya ivo pachavo. Kuti atsanangure kuti sei amai nababa vanogona kudya chips, uye Vanya haagoni, haazoshanda pasina nhema. Asi isu tinoyeuka girazi uye hatidi kuti chigumbuso chiwane muenzaniso wezvinyengeri kubva kune vanhu vaasina kutendeseka. Uye kana mwana achiona chiziviso chekudya zvakadyiwa zvakadyiwa, zvichava nyore kwaari kugamuchira kusakwanisa kudya chikafu chinonaka, kana iwe uchingoti: "Hatidyi." Iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe unoramba uchidzivisa.Kana uchida kunwa teki nekiki pabhedha muimba yekurarisana pamberi peTV, hazvina musoro kudzivisa kudonha zvokudya muimba, kukanganwa nezvemitiro uyu.Naizvozvo takurai mapeji enyu ekikishi, kana kuisa mapepa pamatepi.
Zvimwe iwe hauna tsika yekushandira tafura patafura yega yega yega. Tanga kuzviita nekuda kwomwana! Zvakare, pane kubatsirwa kwakapetwa kaviri: gorosi duku inowana chiitiko chekudya kwemasikati, uye iwe unodzidzisa kushanda nemicheka kuitira kuti urege kunzwa unomanikidzwa muresitorendi.
Nenzira yakawanda, tsika yekugara pamwe chete patafura pamwe chete uye kunakidzwa kwete chete nechingwa chakagadzirwa zvakanaka, asi kubva pakukurukurirana kune mumwe nomumwe, sechinhu chipi zvacho chinoita kuti mhuri yako ive chinhu chimwe chete. Mumwe munhu acharamba kuti nemwana muduku hachisi chimwe chinhu chokufukidzira patafura - dzimwe nguva vanononoka zuva risati rasvika jongwe rinobva mufiriji harigoneki. Zvechokwadi, pane nguva iyo vana vasingakubvumiri kuti uzorore kunyange kweminiti. Hazvirevi kuti chii chaunoda munguva shoma kuti uve mutevedzeri akanaka uye mangwanani oga oga kubika mabhisikiti matsva. Asi kunyatsoziva gumi, "kukurumidza" mapepa zvinogona kuitika kunyange kune vapi vemaoko asingadi, kunyanya kubva padzimba huru yemidziyo yemumba iri kushandiswa kubatsira amai vangu.Kuenzaniso, magetsi emagetsi ane timer anokubvumira kuronga nguva yekubika kuitira kuti kudya kwemasikati kuve kwakagadzirira chete panguva yekudzoka kubva kufamba.
Tarisa mamiriyoni
Zvinotendwa kuti mwana achangoberekwa haatarisi kuti amai vake vanoita sei. Kumwana uyu hausi kukosha, pasinei newe pane cellulitis, morshchinki kumeso emaziso uye kana iwe wakagadzira manicure. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti unyoro, shungu, mazwi ane tsitsi uye kunetseka. Asi pane imwe nguva iyo yakaoma inenge isingatongotanga kufarira mibvunzo yomuviri wekunaka. Chero zvavanotaura, kugadzirisa hazvirevi mari yakawanda uye nguva isina nguva, asi pane chido uye tsika. Kune musikana, kuti amai vane hanya nezvekuonekwa kwake kuchazove kambasi yekufamba kwake kuti ive "iyo inonakidza uye inoyevedza." Pamukomana uyu, mufananidzo weamai hauna kushamwaridzana nechomufananidzo wemukadzi chaiye, waanotarisira somumwe wake Zvichengete iwe pachako kuitira kuti mwana wako achizvikudza achiti: "Amai vangu ndivo vakanaka kwazvo!"
Tsika yakaipa
Chinyorwa chinodzokorora zvose zvaunoita. Kana iwe utsi, iwe uchakurumidza kuona iko nepeniki mumuromo mako uye chiedza chiri muruoko rwako. Mushure mezvose, mumaziso omwana zvose izvo Amai vanoita zvakanaka uye zvakanaka. Zvechokwadi, vanhu vari mumhuri isiri kusvuta ye teetotaler yakanyoreswa vanogona kukura nemitemo yakaipa. Asi iyi imwe nyaya. Uye ikozvino, nechitarisiko muimba yemukomana muduku, ane tsitsi uye akanyangadza yemhuri, une chikonzero chakakomba chokugumisa kuvimba nefodya inopisa.
Usasvike
Wakajairika kubva paudiki kuti uite chimwe chinhu mukugadzirisa nyaya dzezvehupfumi, iwe uchapa mudyi wenhaka yako nyasha huru. Mitiro wehutsanana nehutano hwakarongerwa kwemakore matatu, shandisa nguva ino kuti usangomanikidzira mwana kuti achenese matoyi avo, asi kuti avadzidzise kufara kugadziriswa kweimba. Kana iwe uri, chii chinonzi, chimiro chekusika neunyanzvi hwekugadzirira kuumba tsvina iwe pachako uye mhirizhonga, shanda iwe pachako! Zvinokwanisika kuti iwe udzidze zvinyorwa zveFeng Shui - chimiro chekare cheChinese chekugara sangano renzvimbo. Masters aFeng Shui anopokana kuti kana imba yacho yakasviba, ipapo mumusoro nemwoyo yeavo vanogara mairi, zvakare, zvinhu zvose hazvisi zvakarongeka. Pazera remakore ekutanga mwana anofanira kunzwisisa kuti zvakakosha kuti zvive zvakajeka uye zvinosungirwa mumabasa ake. Saka, musambovimbise zvausingazoiti, asi kana chimwe chinhu chisina kupera, ruregerero, tsanangai kumucheche kuti nei rakakundikana kuzadzika chivimbiso, uye edza kubhadhara zvakakwana iwe pachako kukanganisa kwako.
Kukura
Zvichida, vabereki vose vane hanya vanorota kuisa mari mucheche ruzivo rwepamusoro uye ruzivo, kuti azvimirire nemunhu akadzidziswa uye asina kuchena. Nyaya yekukura nekugadzirwa kwevana ndeimwe yeiyo inonyanya kushandiswa pakuberekera maforamu. Asi vanaamai vanoita chikanganiso chakakura pavanoshingairira uye vachishingaira kuita vana, vanovatungamira kumativi uye kumapoka mumutambo weMontessori, uye havaverengi chero chinhu kunze kwepurogiramu yeterevhizheni uye bhuku rinobika. Kana iwe usati waronga kuva amai veimba, tora zororo rekuberekwa kuti urambe uchikwanisa kusvika nehupfumi muhutano hwako. Nekutsigirwa kwemhuri, vazhinji vanogona kubatanidza kuberekwa kwevana uye kunyorwa kwechinyorwa. Kufamba nemwana anorara, teerera kumabhuku ehurukuro. Ngwarira mapurogiramu emunyori wevanhu vakakurumbira, umo vanogovera maitiro avo asina kufanana pamusoro pezvose zviri munyika. Usaita kuti nyika ive yechina muGerman "K": mutsa, kyuhe, kleide, kirche (vana, kicheni, mapfekete, chechi) .Uchava nezvinhu zvako pachako, zvauchazoziva munguva pfupi uye iwe mugari wenhaka!
Zvimwe zvakanaka
Unoshungurudzika nekushungurudzika kwevana uye kushungurudza here? Mwana wako anogara asingafadzi nezvinhu zvose here? Iwe unowanzoseka joke uye kuimba mimhanzi inonakidza here? Iwe hausi iwewo unogutsikana kuti unyore kuti hupenyu hwakakubata iwe zvisina kururama? Usapinda ne "chiso chisvini"? Tinovimba kuti izvi hazvisi pamusoro pako.
Zviri nyore uye vanotarisira vanhu zviri nyore kurarama munyika ino. Kana uine ruvara rutsvuku muhupenyu hwako uye maoko ako ari kutowa, kana iwe wakaneta uye iwe unongoda chete kupukunyuka kusvika kumugumo wenyika umo pasina munhu achakuwana iwe, enda kumiratiro, kunyemwerera paunofunga uye uzviudze iwe pachako: "Ndiri anofara zvikuru! Zvose zvinoitika kwandiri ndezvenguva pfupi. Mangwana zuva richasimuka, zuva idzva richauya, rinouya nemashoko akanaka chete. Ini zvechokwadi ndichava nerombo. "Uye zvose zvichava saizvozvo.