Pakutanga, vakanga vari vanhu vakadzidza zvikuru vaigona kutamba pamitambo yakasiyana-siyana yemimhanzi, uye uwandu hwekuvandudzwa kwavo uye erudition vakavabvumira kufara nekukurukurirana kwevarume vakaora mwoyo. Mushure mezvose, kunyange Aleksanda Mukuru aive nemufeve shamwari yake, Tais weAtene.
Kupedza kudzidza kwebasa ravo rakaoma kwaivewo muRoma. Pakanga pane zvakawanda zvezvikamu zvavo uye marudzi.
Saka vakanga vasina kusimba uye vane nzara.
Kunyengedza vaiva vakadzi vanyoro uye vakakomba, vaigona kuva vana vemhuri dzinokudzwa.
Rinozivikanwa - (kubva kune zita rakakurumbira rinozivikanwa) richizivikanwa, rakakudzwa uye rakaimbwa uye raiva pamitambo yevatongi.
Kunyange zvakaderera vaiva vapristakadzi vorudo rwe lupanari, vachidanidzira kune vashandi vavo nekuchema kukuru kwakafanana nekuchema kwemapumhi kubva kumativi.
Zvadaro pane mabhasikoro, ipapo vakaenda madhiyabhorosi, uye pedyo nevekuchera mahara nemapurisa aishanda gallinee, avo vakanga vasingaregi kutora poking. Paivawo navasariari vaifamba neshamwari pedyo nemigwagwa. Uye pamusara wepasi wakanga uine quadrants, iyo yaipinda mumakumbo emapeni, nokuti ndiyo yakanga iri yakaipa uye isina kunaka.
Sezvo munhu wese anoziva kuti nyaya yeupfambi yakanyatsokurudzirwa mumufananidzo weRenthrough. Nokuti mabasa mazhinji emazuva iwayo ane vakadzi vasina kupfeka, kupisa kunopisa pamubhedha, nezvimwewo.
Varume vose iyi nguva yekusava nemafungiro asina kunaka pakusarudzwa kwevakaroorana navo kubhadhara chirwere ichi, chavakapfuurira kuvadzimai vavo vanotenderwa.
Ndicho chikonzero chokuti mumakore ekuma1930 ekupedzisira kwekuratidzwa kwemashoko nemutauro wekutaura wakapfuura muUnited States: "Mugovera manheru ndicho shamwari yakanakisisa yechivifu". Nokudaro, muna 1941, vazhinji vekuNew York vasikana vekunaka kwakanaka vakatumirwa kumisasa yakasarudzwa, kuitira kudzivirira varwi veAmerica kubva kune zvirwere zvevaereal.
Asi, zvisinei, pasinei nemubvunzo uyu: "Sei munhu achienda kuchifeve? "Uye inogara yakazaruka. Nokuti vakaenda kwavari, vanoramba vachifamba.
Uye zvose nokuti varimi vanogara vaine chimwe chinhu chiripo.
Kune rumwe rutivi, runovapo nokuti pane yehuwandu hwevakadzi vanogona kurwisana nezvinhu zvepabonde zvepabonde. Mukuwedzera, mitoro iyi inogona kudiwa nemuviri pachake, iyo inogona kuonekwa panguva yekutonga kwaCatherine yechipiri, uyo aizivikanwa kuva bhebertine uye akachinja avo vaidiwa navo kusvika pakuguma kwehupenyu hwake.
Ukuwo, rumwe ruzivo rwemashumiro akadaro runomuka maererano nemitemo yebhaibheri yevanhu.
Nokudaro, nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinofunga kuti vanenge vanhu vose vanopata hupombwe kubva paawa kusvika awa. Uye kazhinji varume vane makore 45 kusvika ku55, kunyange zvazvo vanogona kutanga zvakawanda kare.
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Kunyange zvakadaro, varume vanoenda kune zvinodhura izvi, vachifunga kuti vakarurama kubva pakufunga kwepfungwa. Nokuti hukama hwakareba hunoda nguva yakawanda, uye kwete iyo iyo inoramba ichiitika. Nokuti "kunyengera mumubhedha" kushanda mukadzi wemazuva ano kwakaoma, uye kukurukurirana nehure rinopfuura nokukurumidza, uye pasina matambudziko.
Vanhu vazhinji vanodana mahure echipfambi. Uye, zvichida, ichi ndicho chikonzero chikuru nei varume vachienda kuchifeve.
Uye hazvina mhosva kuti rakaita sei, asi ndizvo. Ichokwadi ichocho ndechokuti anenge anenge ari mukomana wechidiki wese anotya kutanga hukama hwepabonde nemukadzi. Mune mhaka yehure rekufeve, haanzwi kunyadziswa, kunyange kana pane chimiro chechigadzirwa. Uyezve, hupombwe hahuzoseki kumunhu kana akangosarudzwa. Uyezve, achafara kuti achaita kuti basa iri rive nyore kwaari. Zvisinei, varume vakawanda havakwanisi kuvimba mumano avo uye ivo zviri nyore kubhadhara.
Uyewo, vamwe varume vanosarudza kurara nomuromo, hazvisi sekutyisa sechiito chechiitiko. Uye munyaya iyi hazvishamisi kana mukadzi akakodzera anogona kumubatsira munyaya iyi. Apo hufeve zvinongopedza nyore nyore chero fungiro inofanirwa naye kubva pafirimu mafirimu. Mukuwedzera, haazombokanganwi kumurumbidza uye kutaura kuti chii chiri chakanakisisa, chakasiyana uye chinonaka icho chichanyatsofadza murume uye kuti hazvishamisi, asi mushure mekunge munhu akadaro angava nechivimbo uye orega kuvabata, nokuti achava nechokwadi musimba rake pakuda kufambidzana. Ndicho chikonzero chifeve chimwe chechirwere chepfungwa dzepfungwa mumutauro chaiwo wezwi.
Vakadzi ava vanokwanisa kunzwisisa murume mune zvishuvo zvake zvepabonde, izvo zvisingakwanisi kutendeuka nevakadzi vavo nevanasikana. Ndiko kuti, chifeve munyaya iyi inoshanda sebhizimisi pamwe chete.
Mukuwedzera, munyika dzakawanda kune marudzi akasiyana ehupfambi, avo, kunze kwekuita basa ravo, vanoita mamwe mabasa akawanda. Nokudaro, hupfambi hweRomanian bhizinesi, iyo ichangobva kuva yakanaka kwazvo, iri kuedza kukwezva vatengi kwete chete zvakananga nepabonde, asiwo mamwe mabasa emhuri. Saka, pasina zvepabonde, vanopa kuchenesa imba, kubika zvokudya nezvimwe zvinhu zvinovhiringidza varume vasina kuroorwa.
Mukuwedzera, ivo pachavo vanoti: "Ivo (varume) vanobvuma zvikuru nzira iyi, nokuti vanogara vari voga uye vanofarira zvinhu zvitatu: zvepabonde, kuchenesa uye kudya, uye vasikana vedu vanofara kuita basa iri uye kuvabatsira kugadzirisa matambudziko avo."
Zvichida iyi ndiyo mhinduro kumubvunzo: "Sei varume vachienda kuchifeve? "Sei? Mushure mezvose, kazhinji, zvifeve zvinogona kugadzirisa zvinetso zvavo zvakawanda kana, zvechokwadi, zvakakwana zvakabhadharwa. Kugadzirisa matambudziko evanhu - uye kune mhinduro, nei varume vakapfambi vachiri kuenda, uye nokuda kwechikonzero chipi zvacho chavanodanwa.