Kazhinji kazhinji iwe unogona kusvika kune pfungwa yokuti kana murume ane tenzikadzi, chikonzero chikuru cheizvi chiri muchokwadi chokuti mudzimai wake haafaniri kumubata pabonde. Kazhinji pane chokwadi mune izvi, asi kwete chokwadi chose. Zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvinokonzera varume "kuenda kuruboshwe" zvakakura. Izvi zvinogona kunge kurasikirwa kwepabonde, uye chido chekusiyana kwehupenyu hwavo, uye chido. Munhu anokwanisa kusunungura pakutengeswa kwechido chokuratidza chimwe chinhu kune vamwe, somuenzaniso, kune shamwari dzake, avo vanodawo "kuenda kuruboshwe." Chikonzero chacho chingava kurera varombo kana nzira isina kururama yehutsika yakagara nhaka nemurume kubva kuna baba vakazvidza mai vake. Murume anogona kunge ari muchengeti womudzizeri, uyo anofamba seri kwejasi rimwe nerimwe, chikonzero icho zvakare chiripo mune dzidzo, zvakapoteredza nezvimwe zvakadaro. Kuchinja kunogona kukonzera doro rinowanzoitika pamberi pevhu rakanaka. Uyewo, simba rakaipa revanhu rakakosha, nokuti iye zvino huwandu hwemhosva huri kuwira, uye urongwa hwedyire uye hutsinye huri kuwedzera. Mukuwedzera, hatifaniri kukanganwa nezvimwe simba reterevhizheni, Indaneti, gloss nezvimwe zvemashoko.
Asi kune zvose izvozvo, chinhu chikuru chekutengesa iropi. Hazvinei kuti kuseka pamusoro pei izvo varume vanofunga muchokwadi, kutengesa kunowanikwa mumusoro, mupfungwa. Murume, kwatiri isu munhu, nemaune anoparadza zvipingamupinyi nemitemo uye anoenda kumanikidzi. Uye zvino anokanganisa mudzimai wake, doro, hupenyu nekudaro, zvinhu. Mune mamwe mazwi, inotsvaka chikonzero. Icho chinofanira kuyeukwa kuti munhu munhu anonzwisisa, uye naizvozvo, kana aine chikonzero chekutengesa, ndiye ane mhosva yechiito ichi.
Chii chinokonzera dambudziko racho? Sei varume vane maitiro asingagumi? Nharaunda yehupenyu hwemunhu yakasiyana zvachose nechechikadzi, saka zvakangodaro zviri munharaunda. Somuenzaniso, tinowanzonzwa zvinotevera: murume ndiye anopa zvokudya, varume havangachemi, murume anofanira kunge ari kutsigirwa uye kutsigira mhuri yake, murume anofanira kunge akasimba, anofanira kunge ari mubatsiri nezvimwe zvakawanda. Izvi ndizvo zvose, uye varume pachavo vanoziva izvi. Asi zvakakwana, vanonzwisisa mararamiro avo evanhu vanowanzotora muwanano. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti, kana apinda muukama hwemhuri, murume haafaniri kutarisira iye oga, asiwo kumudzimai wake nevana vake. Anofanirwa kunge ari mumwechete wezvokudya, mudziviriri, kutsigira, uye nevana - semudzidzisi, muenzaniso wekutevedzera. Murume akazara neboka remabasa matsva.
Nokudaro, vamwe varume vasinganzwisisiki vachinzwa mutoro webasa riri kuvamanikidza, uye pane imwe nguva vanotya zvose izvi, izvo, zvisingaiti, hazvivatsigiri.
Zvino imwe nguva inopfuura, murume wacho anosvika mukukura uye anonzwa asisina simba zvakanyanya, achiri muduku uye ane simba. Uye uku ndiko kushandura kwemuitiro muhupenyu hwepakati. Panzvimbo yevaduku vanononoka kuuya zvimwe, zvakanyanya zvakakura uye zvakakomba mitemo, zvinhu zvinokosha uye zvinokosha. Murume anowana chimwe chinhu - mhuri, zvinhu uye kugadzikana kwehutano, basa rakakomba, anowedzera hutano hwake, anowedzera simba mupfungwa, nezvimwe zvakadaro. Asi kana munhu, achitarisa kumashure, anoziva kuti haana chaanozvirumbidza pamusoro pake, kuti haana kuita chimwe chinhu, kuti anozvidemba zvakanyanya, saka zvakaoma kuti tipone parizvino. Kana munhu achiona mikana isina kukwana, nguva yakarasika, basa rinovengwa nemari shoma nezvimwe zvakadaro, ipapo pano zvinetso zvinogona kutanga. Murume anotanga kunzwa kuti haana kuitika semunhu kana semunhu, uye kuti chikamu chakanaka chehupenyu chave chava kumashure kwake. Pano uye pane zvinetso nezvinetso. Iyi inenge pakati pehupenyu hwemakore (makore 30-40), apo varume vanowanzozviisa maitiro ekugara. Mumwe mukomana, anoti, ane makore makumi maviri nemashanu, akada kutengesa, angangoda kushamwaridzana kwenguva pfupi.
Saka, kuti azviratidze iye pachedu uye sangano kuti iye murume "mumutambo wehupenyu hwake," uye kubhadhara kusashaiwa kana kusasha kwehumwe unhu uye humwe hunobudirira, munhu anogona kuzviita ishekadzi wekusingaperi. Uyezve murume asina kutendeka anonzwa achiri muduku uye achikurudzira, anofadza uye anonakidza, zvakadai sekunge achiri kuyaruka.
Uye, muduku muhosi, murume wechidiki anonzwa, kukwirira kwake kuzvikudza kunova.
Murume wacho anonzwa zvitsva, zvinonakidza uye zvinonakidza. Uye zvinonzwa zvose zvepabonde nemanzwiro. Kwaari, inova chiitiko, chibereko chinorambidzwa. Uyewo, munhu anozviratidza simba rake repabonde uye unyanzvi hwepabonde.
Mukuwedzera, mumunhu wekadzikadzi, murume anowanzowana anoteerera anoteerera. Anomutsigira, anogona kutaura pamusoro pemafungiro ake nemanzwiro, uye haazopomera.
Ndezvipi zvimwe zvinokurudzira varume kuti vawane madzimambo asingagumi? Pamba, hukama hunooma, hupenyu huripo, matambudziko ehupenyu anobata. Zvinoratidzika kune murume asina kutendeka kuti mudzimai wake anowanzochema, anowana mhosva, haanzwisisi, haatsigire. Akadzikadzi kumurume - rudzi rwezororo. Anogara achiterera uye anotsigira, ane rudo uye ane rudo.
Chimwe chikonzero-mudzimai akarega kuzvicherechedza, akazvitsvaga. Madzimai anosanganawo nemurume akanaka, sexy uye achiita. Kunyanya, mafungiro emunhu akapfuura pakati pevakaroorana akashandura ukama hukama hwakanyanyisa uye hukama, hwakawanda sehukama kupfuura rudo. Upenyu hwepabonde hwakavawo hudiki, hutsva uye hutsinye, kukokwe kwakaderera.
Kana kuti zvichida murume wangu achangobva kubva murudo, zvinosuruvarisa, zvinoitika. Asi mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, kazhinji chinhu chinonyanya kutendeseka kugovana, kunyange kana pane vana. Mwana wacho achakura zvakanyanyisa kana vabereki vachimuda, asi vararame vari voga kupfuura kana vachigara pamwe chete, asi vanyengane.
Kana kuti zvichida murume wake ndiye mukadzi wemukadzi! Asi pano ikozvino, sezvavanotaura, "guva rakaputsika richagadzirisa". Mudzimai akadaro anogona kuva akachenjera uye akanaka, asi zvose hazvina kukwana kwaari, ari kuzvisimbisa.
Kana mukadzi achida kuchengetedza mhuri inofara, anofanira kuedza kunzwisisa murume wake, funga nezvemaonero ake, zvaanoda, manzwiro. Zvakakosha kuramba uri munhu anofadza uye mukadzi akanaka. Upenyu hwepabonde hwakakwana uye hunofadza pamwe chete hunoitawo basa rinokosha.
Upenyu, chokwadi, chinhu chakaoma. Uye mamiriro acho akasiyana. Asi varume vanoshevedzwa zvepabonde zvakasimba, izvo zvinoreva kuti mufambiro wavo unofanirwa kuva wakashinga uye hwakasimba, zviito - kuyerwa. Kana pane matambudziko mumhuri - inoda kugadziriswa, kana matambudziko asingatongoperi - zvichida unoda kurambana. Izvi, zvisinei, kutendeseka, zvakasiyana nemafambiro anotenderera kubva kune mumwe mukadzi kusvika kune imwe uye kururamisira nguva dzose kwehupenyu hwake. Iye zvino unoziva kuti nei murume akaroora achiwana madzimadzi asingagumi.