Sei chimiro chomunhu chakakosha?

Munhu wose anoziva kutaura kwevanhu vanoda nemeso avo. Kune ani zvake haisi chakavanzika. Asi, nei kuonekwa kwomunhu kuchikosha? Ichokwadi, kwete varume chete, asi vakadziwo vanoteerera kutanga kune unhu hwekunze hwemukatikati. Uye izvi zvakazara zvachose. Garai pazvipfeko, sezvamunoziva.

Asi, pano, ona nguva dzose mupfungwa.

Varume vose sevana, vanofarira kutarisa mifananidzo yakaisvonaka. Uye kana musikana uyo ainoteerera kune zvakanaka, saka zvinoshamisa. Musikana akanaka, akagadzirirwa zvakanaka achagara ari pakati pekutarisa kwemaonero evanhu.

Asi kupikisa kuti kuonekwa kwomurume ndicho chinhu chikuru muhupenyu hazvibvumirwi. Ichokwadi chokuti paunosangana nemunhu unoisa pfungwa pakutanga pakuonekwa kwomusikana - ichokwadi. Asi, kunze kwekutaridzika, kune murume zvakakosha zvikuru sei kuvimbiswa musikana wacho pachako kwekusagadzikana kwake. Kana musikana wacho ari nani kupfuura Naomi Kembel, uye akagara panguva imwechete iyo inoratidzika semunhu mukuru wehurukuro yakakurumbira yeTV "Usazvarwa wakanaka," ipapo musikana akadaro acharwirwa nemurume. Murume wacho haazoregi kutarisa kwaari, nokuti chete akaomeswa uye maziso ake haaverengi kuvimba kwaro kunaka uye simba. Asi, kazhinji iwe unofanirwa kucherechedza kuti musikana asina chimiro chakaisvonaka kana chiso chakanaka, anounganidza kumativi ose neuto revanoyemura. Uye nei? Uye zvose nokuti anonyatsoziva kuti haana kukodzera uye saiye wechipiri uye haagoni kuva. Kuzvidavirira ndeye chinhu chine simba chinoshanda sechisimba yenyukireya.

Chii kubva pano chinotevera? Kuti kuonekwa kwomurume hakusi chinhu chikuru, zvinowanzoitika. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuvapo kwekuvimba musikana uye kuonekwa kwake kwakanaka. Chero musikana anogona kuchinjwa kuva runako, pokoldovav shomanana pamusoro pechimiro chayo - chimiro chakanaka chakanaka, kugadzira zvishoma nekumwemwerera pachiso chake - ndicho chimbo chinonyanya kukosha chemukadzi mukurwisana nevarume.

Uye zvino ngationgororei mamiriro ezvinhu ose kubva uye. Nguva yenguva yekutanga musangano: murume anotanga kutarisa kutanga kwechitarisiko chemusikana. Anokwezva nenzira yaanobata nayo, maonero aanoita, chimiro chake, kusemwerera kwake, nezvimwe zvakadaro. Zvadaro, pakarepo paanounganidza simba rake rose muchikanda, ndokuuya kuzoziva, kukurukura kunotanga pakati pavo. Panguva ino, murume wacho achateerera zvakawanda pane zvaanoona nameso ake. Iye achabhadhara zvakanyanya kutenderera, mhedziso yezwi, kutarisa. Anoteerera musikana. Panguva ino, sezvaunonzwisisa, chitarisiko chako chichaenda kumashure. Pakutanga, kuzviremekedza kwako kuchabuda.

Uye chii chinotevera? Kana munhu akangobata pameso ako, asi nyika yako yepakati iwe hauna kumufarira nenzira ipi zvayo, saka usamirira hukama hurefu. Chimiro chakanaka hachibviri kuchengetedza murume ari kure naye.

Ichokwadi, kuonekwa kunokosha. Murume achave nemwi pasinei nokuti unoita saMu Universe kana kuti musikana akafanana ane chimiro chakanaka. Kana ukakwanisa kupindira mumoyo make uye uchimufarira, iwe unogona kuva nechokwadi chokuti achakubata zvakanyanya.

Kana munhu achida, anokuda chero ipi zvayo uye mune chero manzwiro. Anofarira kumuka newe mangwanani uye kutarisa chiso chako chehope. Iwe uchava akanaka kwaari, kunyange iwe ukasangana naye manheru manheru mushure mekushanda mumapfupa edzimba uye mashizha anonakidza.

Vasikana, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti chitarisiko chedu chimbo chakanaka chete kuitira kuti tive nehanya nemunhu. Asi, kunaka kwako hakusi nesimba kana munhu asina hanya nekugara newe iwe manheru pamberi peTV. Tiri kurarama munyika chaiyo, uko, kutenda Mwari, unhu hwevanhu chaihwo huchiri kukoshesa, uye kwete kuonekwa kwakanaka.