Dzidziso
Inobva pakudzidza kwehupenyu hwehupenyu hunoitika mumutumbi mukuratidza rudo.
Whom uye nokuda kwezvatinosarudza
Tinoda uyo kubva kune avo vane utano hwakanaka uye vakangwara vanogona kuberekwa. Uye patinosangana, tinoongorora munhu maererano nedhesi rake rekunze - ndiye akasimba zvakakwana kuti aite zvepabonde: chii chakaita kuti ave nemafudzi uye mupristi ane simba. Uye pamwero wakajeka tinotsanangura kunhuwira kwomuviri wake kuitira kuti tione kuti zvinhu zvake zvakadini nekudzivirirwa uye huwandu hwehutachiona hwepabonde, kuti iwe uri pedyo zvakadini. Izvo zvinowedzera mubhizimusi kubviswa kwauri nemutemo weDNA yake, zvishoma ndezvengozi yekuva nemwana ane chirwere chaanobva kwaari. Kana kunhuwidza kwemunhu kusingafadzi kwauri, hakungagoni kuva nerudo - uyu anenge akashandura haana kukodzera kubata pamuviri uye kuberekwa kwevana. Uye huchenjeri uye humweya hwemudzimai hunoongororwa munzvimbo yekupedzisira - maererano nekusara kwenheyo.
Rudo
Paunoona murume anoyemura, muviri wako unoti: "Ndinohuda, ndinogona kubereka!" Uri kutarisana nehupombwe uye uri kunetseka: "Uye ungaitora sei?" Hemononi inoshungurudza norepinephrine inopinda muropa. Manzwiro akawedzerwa, moyo unorova, maziso anobata. Pausiku, haikwanise kurara, masikati, kushungurudzika kunopedzwa, vamwe vanhu vanotadza kurasikirwa uye vanopa uremu. Asi iwe wakauya pamwe uye unoita zvepabonde. Kushungurudzika kunoderera, norepinephrine inowira. Asi kubatanidza kwehutachiona hwe ecstasy, mufaro uye mufaro - dopamine uye serotonin inowedzera. Dopamine ndiyo hormone inopindira, kuisa pfungwa pane imwe pfungwa, chinokurudzira chido uye unhu hukuru hwemasimba. Izvo zvinotungamirirwa nekubudiswa kwaro, hazvioni chinhu chakakomba kunze kwevakada vavo, uye nekuda kwazvo vanogona kushandura makomo. Maitiro aya anowedzera kubva "zvinoratidzika, zvinoda, ikozvino ndichasimudzira," kusvikira "zvinoratidzika, hazvidi - uye kwete kutengesa ini" ... Muzhinji, rudo runotangira pane dopamine uye rinoramba richienda kune zvakanyanya zve serotonin. Iye ndiye anokonzera kufara kwakanyatsofadza: iwe wakanaka, uye mudiwa wako zvinongova chishamiso, uye nyika yakaisvonaka. Uye usanyora nhetembo? Zvinokwanisika here kuunganidza mushumo wekota mumaawa maviri? Nharaunda ye ejection ye dopamine uye serotonin - ichi ndicho chinotyisa zvikuru chechigarire uye rudo rworudo, kuti tirarame chatinorota. Ichokwadi, kufanana kwezvinhu zvinokonzerwa nehupenyu hwepanyama - nekusawirirana mukurara nekuona kwechokwadi - kunobva kune avo vanotamba roulette, vanopfumbira uswa kana vakawira mune schizophrenic psychosis ... Uyai! Hormone-rudo rune simba mukati megore rose, kuitira kuti vanowanzoita zvepabonde uye vane pamuviri mwana. Ipapo hutano hwavo hunoderera - zvose, rudo rwakapera. Vamwe vakaroorana vanotarisana nemeso akajeka - ndokubva vatiza mukutya.
Rudo rukuru
Mamwe mapoka maviri e "hormones of love" anojowa mamwe makore maviri kusvika matatu. Mukadzi anotarisira kudya mwana nechepa, uye murume-kumutarisira. Uyezve, mukadzi anokwanisa kurarama pasina mumwe. Iye zvino rudo rwuri kupera. Nokudaro, chikwata chokurambana chinowira mugore rechishanu rowanano.
Rudo-rudo
Iwe uchiri pamwe chete here? Nokudaro, muviri wako unoda kurera mwana nemumwe wako. Iyo inowedzera yakawanda oxytocin - hormone yerudo uye mutsa, uye vasopressin - hormone inodzivirira pfuma uye negodo: "Yangu - usabata!" Rudo rworudo rwakaita kuti munhu ave nemanzwiro uye kunyange munyoro. Mushure memakore gumi, mahomoni anowanikwa mashoma, nokuti mwana akakura. Uye rudo rwakaderera, sezvo zvarinoreva ndiko kubereka nemurume uyu. Ichokwadi, kune vakaroorana avo kunyange mugore rechigumi nemashanu rowanano huwandu hwemhomoni hunoenderana nematanho ekutanga ehukama. Yakawanikwa nevasayendisiti veItaly. Uye zvino akashamiswa kushamisika kuti izvi zvinogona sei.
Chii chiri muchiyero
Zvichida hauna kumbobvira uchida rudo nokuti iwe unowanzoperera mune zvinyorwa zve dopamine uye serotonin? Kukwezva muviri ndiko. Pa rudo rwakasimba, ine oxytocin uye vazoiresin, iwe unokwanisa. Uye "musoro" wakaparadza "chikamu - kwete. Uyewo hazvizovi. Kwete zvakarongeka. Uye hapana chakakamirira.
Chikonzero uye zvinobudirira
- Karmic Theory
Inobva paukama huri pakati pechikonzero nemigumisiro. Mweya hauna kufa, hauna zvepabonde, uye haurangariri chinhu chehupenyu hwekare. Kana iwe wakaita chimwe chinhu chakaipa, uchidzoka iwe uchawana matambudziko uye kutambura-kwete muhupenyu huno, saka mune imwe inotevera. Akaita zvakanaka - chikomborero chinokumirira iwe, kwete ikozvino-saka, asi zvinosungirwa. Uye kune rudo rwemhando mbiri.
- Rudo "karmic"
Haasi iyo inofanirwa muine lottery yerudo, asi dambudziko rako risina kugadziriswa rinobva mumakore ekutanga. Uye inopiwa nokuda kwekushandira karma yakaipa - kururamisa zvikanganiso zvekare. Zvakanyanyisa kuritumidza kuti "karma yakaipa".
Whom uye nokuda kwezvatinosarudza
Rudo runotarisana neveimbova vakaroorana kana hama dzepedyo dzakakanganiswa zvikuru muupenyu hwekare. Pane imwe nguva ivo vakavhiringidzika uye vakadzika. Uye zvino taive nemukana wokugadzirisa zvinhu zvose. Hazvibviri kuzvidzivirira - idombo.
Maitiro anoita sei
Icho chinomuka kubva pakuona kwekutanga: iwe wakazviona - kushamisika, musoro mumhepo inopenya. Uye kuchema kunobva mukati-kati memweya: "Ichi ndicho!" Rudo rune nguva dzose rune simba uye ruchiva, murazvo wakadaro wekunzwa unokanganisa vaviri pamwe chete panguva inodiwa kugadzirisa dambudziko rinowanzoitika. Dzimwe nguva - kwemakore anoverengeka, uye mumwe munhu uye hupenyu hwose hazvina kukwana. Uye vanorarama zvakaipa, asi havagoni kugovana. Kazhinji - asina vana, nokuti vana vanogona kuvhiringidza vabereki vavo kubva pamabasa e karmic. Ngatitii mukadzi akaroorwa, akabereka uye akanga achirwara zvakanyanya. Murume wacho haana kupa mudzimai wake nevana, asi neushingi akatizira kune mumwe - akasimba uye ane utano. Mudzimai wake akatuka, asi haana kurega kuenda naMwari, sevanhu vasina simba uye vasina simba. Vakagadzirisa karma: iye-asina hanya, iye-kusakanganwira. Kuti usunungure iyi karmic knot, vakaroorana vanofanira kugadzirisa kukanganisa. Muchiitiko ichi chazvino, vanosangana murudo rwekutsvaga pavanotanga kuona nekukaroorana nokukurumidza. Makore mashanu gare gare zvinosvika pakuti murume wake anorwara zvikuru. Zvadaro zviitiko zvinogona kukura nekuguma nenzira dzakasiyana.
Mugumo wakanaka
Murume wake anorima mabasa matatu uye anopa mhuri, kubva muupenyu hwakaoma, mudzimai wake anochinja. Mudzimai wake anokanganwira uye achiri kumuonga iye. Hurray! Ivhu racho rinosunungura. Uye zvino manzwiro acho akazara pasina - iyi inowanzopfuma yekuzadzikisa rudo rwekarmic. Mudzimai ari kuve nani. Murume anosangana nerudo rutsva. Vakaroorana vakarambana. Mushure mechinguva, wekare-mudzimai anoroora zvakare. Iye uye anonzwa kuti vakashandura kuti vave nani, mweya wakatsvuka, hupenyu huri nani.
Kupera kwakaipa
Murume anonwa nekusuwa kana kutsvaga kuti ashandise, shure kwejasi rimwe nerimwe, mudzimai anotambudzika, anopika uye anogunun'una. Havagoni kugara pamwe chete uye haagoni kupararira. Pakupedzisira, murwere anoshaya anofa, uye murume anonyengedza musoro wake achipikisa chivako chebhokisi uye anonzwa ane mhosva. Uye mune chimiro chinotevera vachasangana zvakare uye vachaparadzwa ne "karmic" rudo-kusvikira vaine pfungwa yakakwana yekuzvibata nekuremekedzwa mumisungo.
Rudo "rwechokwadi"
Zvinoreva kune avo vane zvose zvakarongeka ne karma, uye haisi nguva dzose yakabatana nezviito zvedu mumatambo akare.
Whom uye nokuda kwezvatinosarudza
Rudo rwechokwadi runomuka mumamiriro maviri. Yokutanga: mweya iyo yakabatanidzwa mumakore akapfuura nemabasa akanaka-shamwari, imwe yadzo yakaitwa mumuviri wemurume, kana mukoma nehanzvadzi, kana seni nemwana, vanosangana uye vanobvumirana. Zvechokwadi, ndiwo mubairo wemafambiro akanaka uye mabasa akanaka mumazuva akapfuura. Chechipiri: rudo runoberekwa pakati pevanhu vasina kufambidzana muzviitiko zvakapfuura, asi vanogona kufamba pamwe chete kune rumwe rutivi rwekufambira mberi - kupinda mune imwe sangano kana kuwana tarenda mutsva iwe pachako. Kazhinji rudo rwe "mweya" mutsva hunobva pakuverenga uye hunouya kubva mupfungwa kusvika kumanzwiro. Iye uye anoshanda nguva dzese manheru oga oga purojekiti imwe uye anosarudza kuroora, kuitira kuti pane shoko kune uyo angataura, uye kune hupenyu hune hunoga uye hunoisa pabasa.
Maitiro anoita sei
Rudo runokura zvinyoro uye zvishoma nezvishoma. Meso ake haafaniri kufukidza uye musoro wake hausi kupota. Pakutanga inoratidzika seine mwero, isina mishonga yemoto, asi sekudya kwakanaka: zvinowedzera - zvakanyanya uye zvinonakidza. Inogona kupera makumi emakore.
Chii chiri muchiyero
"Karmic" rudo harusi chirango, asi basa rinoda mhinduro. Kana yasvika pamagumo nemhinduro yechinetso, inguva yekutsvaka rudo rwechokwadi. "Chokwadi" rudo chinhu chakanaka. Uye kuzviwana hazvisi zvakaoma. Kusarudzwa kwevadikanwa kwakanaka: kumativi ose kune varume vazhinji, avo mweya yavo mumararamiro edu akare akaita hukama hwakanaka. Kana avo avo vakakodzera kwatiri munguva ino, kuitira kuti vakure uye vakura pamwe chete.
Chinangwa
- Mystical theory
Mukusiyana kwakasiyana-siyana uye zvirongwa, anotenderera kuburikidza nemabasa evanyori vanoratidzira, mazuva ano zvinyorwa zvinonyora pamusoro pake nekudedera.
- Whom uye nokuda kwezvatinosarudza
Tinoda iye watinogona kuzviziva isu pachedu, nokuda kwekuti iye anokugamuchira uye anokubatsira iwe kufanana newe iwe unogamuchirwa naMwari kana Cosmos - kwete kwete mutumwa ane mutsa, zvichida kunyange unyanzvi hwevanhukadzi. Munhu wako oga ane hukama newe mumhepo-nzvimbo yekuziva nehurongwa hweDenga. Chigumo chako chinokusundira iwe kumusangano, uye nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare uchasangana nayo. Zvinodaro, haugoni kubva muimba yacho: muimba iyo wiring inopenya - uye munhu anodzivirira moto anouya achikurumidza kukuponesai, kana pombi ichaparara - uye plumber inonyengera ichaigadzirisa. Izvo hazvisi kunyatsojekesa kuti zviitei kana denga rako remudiwa uyu rinotakura njodzi kana chirwere. Tori achazofanira kuva asina iye, kana kuti achazosimbiswa nomumwewo mubvunzo kubva "mumutsara wechipiri" - nokuti mukadzi wese akaiswa kune munhu anouraya.
- Maitiro anoita sei
Hazvibviri kusingafungidzire kuti uyu "murume wako": iwe pamwe naye kubva kumusangano wekutanga unoshamisika zvakanaka uye wakasununguka, sekunge iwe wakambozivana kwenguva yakareba. Une unhu hwakanaka. Upenyu huri pamwe chete haisi basa rakaoma kuumba mhuri, asi iyo nzira ndeyezvakasikwa, kufema kufema, izvo zvisingadi zvishamiso zvekushivirira nekunyengera. Iwe unopopotedzana, asi hauna kuzotambudzwa uye kutambudzirana. Mukuda, unowana mufaro mukuru. Asi humwe humwe hupenyu hwose hunogona kuoma: Bon haasati aonana naKlyde, uye ivo vakaenda kunobata mabhanga, mukuru maneja Masha akazoda murwi wechirwere Yura ndokubva aenda murenje, uko pasina tsika kana kunyaradza. Asi hatisi nguva dzose tinoda kupamba bhenji kana kugara mumasango, kunyange nekuda kwekuda kukuru. Nokudaro, tinoramba chidikanwi chaidiwa uye tinosarudza marudzi ese emufaro kune mufaro we rudo-kunaka kwevana, kuchengeteka, basa rakagadziriswa, hukama hwakanaka.
- Chii chiri muchiyero
Zvino zvakadini kana mukadzi akaroora akauya kwauri panguva yegore remakore rezana remakore? Zvingava kuchenjera kusamirira, asi zvichiri kufara - kunyange kana zvisati zvichitarisirwa rudo, asi kurara, hukama hwakanaka uye hune hukama nevamwe varume. Musangano uchasangana - iwe wakamirira inova huru. Kubva pane rudo rwakatemerwa, haufaniri kuramba kunze kwekunge wakaravira. Saka kazhinji isu tinonyatsoda chimwe chinhu-chaizvoizvo, nemusoro wedu, musana wemutsitsi, moyo nenyama ... Uye zvino-sezvaunosarudza, zvichava saizvozvo. Kana ukarasikirwa uye iwe usingaedzi, iwe uchaneta uye utambudzike.
Whom uye nokuda kwezvatinosarudza
Mukadzi anowira murudo nemunhu anoita sebaba. Kana pasina baba - mumutambo ndiyo mufananidzo wemurume uyo akamutarisira - munin'ina, sekuru, sekuru. Mariri zvinhu zvose zvinofanira kunge zviri mumunhu zvinoratidzwa kwaari. Zvose, kunyange zviri nani, iye kazhinji haagamuchiri varume. Uye dzimwe nguva haazvioni. Mukomana anowira murudo nemukadzi uyo anotarisa saamai vake. Izvo zvinouya kusina musoro. Shamwari yangu yemakore makumi matatu nematatu inonyunyuta kuti yave ichiwedzera kuita saamai vomwene wake munguva ichangopfuura. Uye zvinotyisa kwazvo iye - amai vamwene vake, haagoni kumira. Asi haana chaanotya: anonyatsofanana naamai vamwene vake uye chiso chake uye unhu hwake, iyo murume wake akawira murudo. Uye havafambidzani naamai vamwene vavo nokuti ivo vakafanana chaizvo uye vane godo kune mumwe nemumwe murume nemwanakomana.
Maitiro anoita sei
Nzira yeruzivo rwedu inobva pakuita ukama nemubereki wevasikana vakasiyana. Chinhu chokutanga chakanga chiri kutarisira uye nguva dzose aida mwanasikana - musikana anonzwa kune vakasanangurwa manzwiro akaenzana uye anowirirana, nechishuvo chepabonde nekubatana kwepfungwa.
Pamwe Chechitatu
Baba vakanga vasingadi mwanasikana wavo zvikuru, kana kuti havana kana zvachose-akanyangarika mushure mekurambana uye kunyange vasina kutumira chero kukwazisa. Musikana uyu achakanganiswa kuwira madenga pakutanga kuona uye kunyange kutinhira: akanzwa inzwi rakanaka kana kuona ruoko rwemurume akanaka neminwe yakareba-sababa-uye yakanyangarika! Izvi zvinoda zvepabonde kupfuura zvepfungwa. Uye rudo urwu rwepabonde rwepabonde rwakarurama zvakakwana, sezvo rwunobvumira mukadzi kuti asvetumire pamusoro pemugariro wekusanzwisisa kwevarume uye kuvhunduka kwavo. Apo chidimbu chinopisa chichapfuura-tarisa, uye unzwisise unhu hwake. Uye iye achashamwaridzana naye. Hazviiti nguva dzose zvichiitika nenzira iyo, asi kazhinji zvakakwana.
Nzira Ichina
Kana baba vomusikana wacho asiri, anoda rudo uye anosarudza murume akwegura-baba. Zvepabonde zviduku, asi dzakawanda zvekutendeseka.
Chii chiri muchiyero
Maererano nedzidziso iyi, rudo nguva dzose rudo uye kutendeseka. Paunorasikirwa nepasi pasi petsoka dzako - unodiwa achakubudisa iwe kunze. Kana iwe uchinzwa wakaipa, iwe uchanzwa nekukurumidza, iwe uri "pa-line" naye. Mamiriro ako ehutano uye mafungiro anobva kune vanodiwa: zvinorwadza-uye iwewo, ari kusuruvara-uye iwe uri kusuruvara. Uye kana mumwe munhu anoramba chibvumirano - ikozvino chiri chimiro - uye unotaura kuti murudo iwe unoda kuva "wakasununguka uye wakasununguka", kubva kune wakadaro wakasununguka-anoda murume, unofanira kumhanyira nekukurumidza. Nokuti anoda kukushandisa iwe purogiramu yakazara - zvose zvepabonde, zvepfungwa, uye zvemari, asi haazopi zvaanopa-kana zvepabonde nguva dzose, kana kunzwira tsitsi, kana ushamwari hwakanaka. Mumweya wemukadzi wese kune pfungwa yemhando yemurume waanoda kuva kunze uye mumunhu. Ichi chifananidzo chinonzi "animus". Mumweya wemunhu wose kune chimiro chakafanana chemukadzi waanoda kuva, anonzi "anime".
Whom uye nokuda kwezvatinosarudza
Mukadzi anoda mumwe munhu ane zvisikwa zvake zvemhuka, kuti azviwanire iye chikamu chenyika yevarume chaanoda. Murume ndiye anotaridzika saanime yake, nokuti anoda imwe nyika inofadza yevakadzi. Uye munyaya iyi, rudo rwavo rwakasimba uye rwakareba - tinonzwisisa zvakanaka kuti ndeupi unhu hwedu. Rudo urwu runogona kuunza pamwe chete zvisingatarisirwi, pakutanga pakuona, vaviri. Semuenzaniso, inenge chidiki chechipatara chevana, kuponesa upenyu hwevana vachangoberekwa, uye mumusangano weMoscow munyori wezvinyorwa zvinoshungurudza munyaya dzevanhu vanopikisa vanozivikanwa vachicheka kana kuti vakadhakwa muutsi, uye anobhadharwa: magazini - pamifananidzo, nyeredzi - nekuda kwekudhinda. Anomuda, nokuti anotsika pamusoro pezvimwe zvinorambidzwa uye haana hanya nemitemo yevanhu. Uye akazvitaura - nekuda kwekubatsira nekusafarira kwevana. Munewo, zvakare, kune kusava nehanya uye kusanyara, chido chokupfira mate netsika, asi iye haaratidze manzwiro aya. Ivo vari mumurume waro, hafu yakanyarara. Uye aizova mukadzi akazvininipisa uye asina udyire uye aizodaro vana. Vanodanana asi kwete nokuti kupesana kunokwezva, asi nokuti vane zvakawanda zvakafanana. Apo ini ndakatanga kuverenga pamusoro peshoko iri uye ndakasarudza kuzvizivisa semurume, ndakazova mufananidzo wemurume wangu, neine chete misiyano. Uye pakarepo ndakave nekuremekedza kukuru kune munyori.
Iyo inotarisa sei kubva kurutivi
Zviito zvemurume uyu zvinoratidzika kwatiri isu zvinonzwisisika uye zvinonzwisisika - isu munzvimbo yake takazvibata nenzira imwecheteyo. Mukadzi anokanganwira murume zvakanyanya-sezvaaizozviregerera. Uye anozvinzwisisa zvakanaka. Anokwanisa kumurega achienda rwendo rurefu ndokumirira kudzoka kwake kwemakore. Anowanzogara noupenyu hwomudiwa wake, achikanganwa pamusoro pake - semadzimai mazhinji evaranda vasingafungi nezvebasa ravo, asi bedzi - pamusoro pekusimudzira murume wake. Uyewo, pane dzimwe nguva isinganzwisisiki uye ane rupo, munhu anozvipira-anobvuma mukadzi mushure mekunge achidzoka zvakare. Dzimwe nguva anoisa mubasa rake uye kubudirira kwevanoda vake vose ruvara uye rufaro rwemweya. Rudo urwu runogona kurarama hupenyu hwose. Uye iye haazovhenekeri pakarepo - anoda nguva yezvokwadi, imwe yerudzi rwekunze kwekunze, kuitira kuti vanhu vagone kuzarura, kutendeuka pasina kutarisira uye kuona mumwe nomumwe. Rudo urwu runoberekerwa mukufamba, pamutambo wedombo, manheru, mukukurukurirana kwakavanzika, muhofisi yakareba yakasara.
Chii chiri muchiyero
Icho chishamiso chakajeka: kana mukadzi asina kumbobvira aida kuva, kunyange kweawa imwe murume uye haakwanisi kuzvifungidzira mumufananidzo wemurume uye kufara mutambo wakadai, zvichava zvakaoma zvikuru, zvisingabviri kuti ade mumwe munhu. Izvo zvinoshanda kune varume. Pamwe, mumweya wakadaro hapana nzvimbo yeumwe munhu wechipiri. Uye hakuna chido chekuyemura, kunzwisisa uye kugamuchira mumwe ... Hapana chikonzero chei?