Ichokwadi kuti isu tose tinobvumirana kuti hazvishamisi kusangana nevanhu vasingateereri vose vanonwisa zvepabonde zvakasimba, asi zvakadaro, musati munoti, asi izvo zvisingadikanwi zvisingaoneki zvinowanikwa. Uye kana wakakwanisa kuwana "kopi" yakadaro yemunhu, iwe, hongu, pamwe nehuwandu, kazhinji unoona hupenyu mukubwinya kwahwo hwose, pasina mahedheni uye mazano evakadzi, anofunga pamusoro pekuti kune chimwe chinhu chisingazivikanwi mumunhu asinganwi. Asi vashomanana vanhu vakafunga pamusoro pekuti mafungiro asinganzwisisiki uye asina kunaka evanhu kunwa nepamusoro-soro ndeyekuwanda kwezvinhu zviviri, zvepanyama, uye zvepfungwa. Asi ndezvipi zvikonzero izvi zve "mutemo wakaomeswa", tichaedza kutsvaga zvino. Nokudaro, izvo zvinowanzoitika zvinotsanangura chitendero chemunhu chisingazikamwi mudhakwa. Zvizivikanise navo uye uzvigadzirise mahedheni anotevera maererano nehupenzi hwakapiwa neshamwari yako kana guy anodiwa.
Kubva kuzvizvarwa nezvizvarwa .
"Kutya kutya" ndeimwe yezvikonzero zvekusaziva kwekusava nekumwa gentlemen. Izvozvi: murume mumhuri anonwa zvakanyanya, somuenzaniso, sekuru, baba, baba kana mumwe munhu kubva pahafu yevakadzi. Uye sezvamunoziva, hakuna munhu ane simba kubva kune mazita ekugadzirisa. Ndicho chikonzero munhu anoramba kunwa doro, nokuti anongotya kudzokorora mugumo weumwe wehama dzake. Kunyanya zvinonzwa zvakajeka kana baba vomurume vakanwa zvikuru mumhuri, iyo amai uye ivo pachavo vakatambura. Heuno mwanakomana uye akaona zvakakwana zvekudhakwa kwemazuva ose ababa vake, misodzi yaamai vake, uye akazvipupurira kuti "Handimbofi ndakafanana naye! ". Mune mamwe mazwi, murume uyu achingovenga kudhakwa nezvose zvakabatana nazvo. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, kunyange kutaura pamusoro pezvinodhaka kunomutsamwisa. Saka kushamisa kwake ndeyekuti anotya "kurarama hupenyu" hwababa vake. Nenzira, uye iwewo unofunga nezvekuguma kwakashata kwemamiriro ezvinhu kuti mumwe wehama dzomunhu akaenda kunyika inotevera kuburikidza nedambudziko rewaini. Muchidimbu, munhu ane zvikonzero zvose zvekusawa zvinwiwa izvi. Mafungiro epfungwa pamusana pekusaziva-iyi ndiyo "skeleton muimba yepamusoro", nekuda kweivo vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba vanoita nenzira iyi.
Zvinetso zveutano .
Chimwe chikonzero chinoita kuti zvisingazivikanwi mumaonero evanhu pane zvose zvakasungwa mugirazi ndiyo yehutano hwake. Aiwa, isu takagadzikana kubva kumurume akadaro, asi hatingaregi kuti akatambura chirwere chakakomba kana kuti anorwara uye haagoni kunwa doro. Saka, kana shamwari yako isiri kubva kune vanonwa, haisi kutarisirwa kuti ane chirwere chemwe rudzi kana kuti kupesana kunwa doro. Nenzira, pano inogona kuisa uye iyo pfungwa, se "zvinokonzera doro". Mune rimwe shoko, usati wamupa mhosva mumunhu mukusaziva kwake, tora kufarira hutano hwake!
Iye zvino handimwi !
Uye iwe unofarira sei sarudzo iyi, iyo munhu aimbova mudiwa ane simba kuti anwe imwe yegirazi yegorosi doro uye, zvakare zvakare, yakayambuka mativi ose nemitemo. Mune mamwe mazwi, haazotyi shoko iri, ainge aine doro munguva yakapfuura. Uye zvino chishamiso chakaitika, uye akadzoka ndokutora nzira yakarurama. Saka, kana munhu akadhakwa kubva kunwa doro, akawana nzira yekurapa kwakanaka uye yekuvandudza, uye nezvimwe zvakadaro, saka rudzi rwe doro runogona kuvapo zvachose? Munhu chete anotya kuputsa uye kuwira zvakare mu "gomba risina chigadziko" kwaaimbova. Mushure mezvose, sezvamunoziva, munhu akadaro anogona kutora iyo yekare kunyange mushure mekunwa imwe isina kunwa doro.
Nokutenda mumwe .
Tsanangudzo pfupi uye iri nyore yekuti munhu haanwi doro ndeyekuti mutendi. Nenzira, munguva yedu ikoko kwakaonekwa nhamba yakawanda yemapoka akasiyana-siyana uye kuvimbiswa, apo vanhu vanopinda uye pavanonyatsopindirana nehuwandu hwezviedzo zvehupenyu (doro pano rinopinda uye rinotora rimwe danho rinotungamirira mubhuku "iwe haugoni"). Saka kana mukomana asinganwi, anogona kunge ari mumiririri wekutenda kumwe. Zvingava zvakakodzera kutaura kuti kuwedzera pakuramba kwemunhu kubva kunwa doro, munyaya iyi, shure kwake, unogona kuona zvimwe zvisingadikanwi zvichanyatsosiyanisa iye kubva kune zvepabonde zvakasimba.
Anodhakwa pane imwe sip .
Imwe chokwadi muvarume vasinganwi, izvo zvavanoita, ndeyokutora doro rewaini, vanokurumidza kunyura kudhakwa nekudhakwa nekurasikirwa. Ndiudze kuti iyi ndiyo parafia yevakadzi chete! "Kwete!" ", - tichapindura, - varume vanogonawo kuita zvakadaro mushure mokunge vatorwa. Nenzira, inogonawo kuonekwa kuneyekuti mumiriri wekunwa kwakanyanya kwepabonde, asingagoni kutarisirwa nezviito zvavo: anogona kusimudzira kunzwa kwechisimba, tsitsi, anokwanisa kukanganisa zvachose chiso chake chevanhu. Ndiko kusaka ndakasarudza kurega kunwa doro mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, kuitira kuti ndisazvicherechedza ini nevamwe.
Doro - iyi ndiyo muck !
Uye yekupedzisira kwezvikonzero zvakanyanya kune varume vakadai ndeyekuti havakwanisi kumira tambo kana kunhuwa kwezvinwiwa nepamusoro-soro, sekunge, semuenzaniso, mhombwe yakawanda pamukaka. Heino mhedzisiro yekuti shamwari yako iite sei zvinoshamisa. Saka usamutonga zvakasimba!
Uye pakupedzisira, ndinoda kutaura kuti mufambiro unoshamisa kune vasiri vamiririri vanodhakwa zvepabonde zvakasimba - izvi hazviri chiratidzo chekuti havana kufanana nevamwe vose, nokuti zvakakosha kuziva kuti mumwe nomumwe wedu ane zvisinganzwisisiki zvake zvokuti vamwe vanoita sevanoshamisa. Nenzira, zvachose kwete munhu anonwa - izvi hazvina kukwana uye kana ukasangana zvakadaro, ikozvino mava munzira yayo inoshamisa. Handizvo here?