Iyi nzira inobatsira kana iwe uchida kungotaura nemutumwa uye kuwana mazano akanaka. Inogonawo kubatsira kana iwe usina chokwadi pamusoro pengirozi ipi inokwanisa kubatsira mumamiriro ako ezvinhu, kana iwe unonzwa kuti ngirozi dzakawanda dzinodiwa kubatsira. Kutaura zvazviri, iyi inorudzi rwekuenzanisa, chinangwa chekutaurirana nevatumwa kuitira kuti uwane mazano kubva kwavari pane nyaya inokuda iwe.
Nzvimbo yekutanga. Tsanangudzo yengirozi inotungamirirwa naye.
Panguva iyi, unoda chikamu ichocho chechigamba chinowirirana nemutumwa makuru. Muchiitiko ichi, makadhi ose mairi anofanira kunge ari munzvimbo imwechete (kusiyana nemamwe magwaro, ayo acharondedzerwa muchikamu chechipiri). Zvakanaka kuvhara chikwata chako, uchifunga nezvechinetso chako, uye sarudza chero kadhi kubva pakati uye uise pamberi pako. Ngirozi huru, iyo inoratidzwa pamepu iyi, ichakwanisa kukubatsira kuona uye kukupa mazano aunoda.Nemuenzaniso, iwe wakabvisa kubva padhecheni kadhi rinofanana nemutumwa mukuru Zecharichil - mutumwa wezvakavanzika zvakavanzika zvenyika, mutakuri wemashoko anofadza.
Sezvo iri iyo ngirozi huru iyo "yakasarudza" kuburikidza nemakadhi okutaurirana newe, izvi zvinoratidza kuti chido chako chinogona kunge chichizadzika pasina basa guru mune ramangwana pane iwe. Zvinogona zvakare kuti watotora matanho ekuona kuzadzika kwechido chako, asi iwe zvechokwadi hauzive zvavakatungamirira kune kana kuti chii chakaitika kune vamwe vanhu.
Chikamu chechipiri. Kukurukurirana nemutumwa mukuru.
Panguva ino, iwe unoda chikamu chechipiri chebato, rinoenderana nemifananidzo yevatumwa, mweya nemadhimoni.Kubvunza mibvunzo kumutumwa mukuru uyo "akabuda newe", iwe unofanira kukwevera kadhi kubva pachigaro chengirozi (padhoro rinofanira kunge rakanyatsotsvaga shuffled kuitira kuti mamwe makadhi mairi aise nechinoreva "ngirozi yechiedza" uye vamwe nechinoreva "mutumwa wema rima" ). Makadhi amunotora uye kutakura mhinduro dzemutumwa mukuru kumibvunzo yako. Mushure memhinduro imwe neimwe kumubvunzo, mbambo inoda kuvharidzirwa, ichitarisa pamubvunzo unotevera. Usabvunza mibvunzo yakawanda panguva imwe chete. Ivo pachavo vanoedza kuumba mibvunzo zvakajeka uye zvakajeka. Chero bedzi munyaya iyi ngirozi huru yakadanwa kuti vataurire vanhu vanogona kukupai mazano anodikanwa uye akakodzera.
Muenzaniso:
- Mutumwa mukuru Zerachil, ndiudzei ndapota, chii chimwe chandingaita kuti ndizadzise chido changu?
- "Kezef" (ngirozi yekutsamwa).
Kuburikidza nekadhi rino, Archangel Zerachil akati: "Haufaniri kuita chimwe chinhu zvakare, sezvo waita zvakakwana kare, uye kuedza iwe kuti uwedzere kushanda kunogona kutungamirira kukuti kushanda kwechido chako kuchaendeswa nematambudziko akawanda. Vanhu, avo vanotarisira kutora matanho avo uye kuti kuzadzisa kwechido chenyu kuchienderana nei, vanogona kuona basa renyu rakawedzerwa kwete nenzira yakanakisisa yenyu. "
"Ndinofanira kuitei?" Ingomirira?
- "Jehoel" (mutumwa wekare, anobatsira kuzivisa zvikonzero zvezviitiko, zvinangwa zvekuita nezviito).
Nekubatsira kwekadhi rino, mutumwa mukuru Zerachil akati: "Dzimwe nguva zvinotora nguva kumirira-iwe unofanira kushivirira."
"Asi ini ndichakwanisa kuzadzisa chido changu here?"
- Avdiel (ngirozi yekuzvipira, kudzivirirwa kwezvinhu zvinokosha, anoisa shamwari dzechokwadi).
Achishandisa kadhi iri, mutumwa mukuru Zerachil akati: "Chido chako chichazadzika zvechokwadi. Pamwe, avo vanozviti ivo shamwari dzako vanozoita izvi. Mukuwedzera, havazoiti izvi bedzi nokuti vanokubata zvakanaka, asiwo nokuti vanotenda: iwe wakafanirwa kuva nezvose zvaunoda, uye nezvekushandiswa kwezvavanoda kutaura nemutumwa mukuru. "