Chero mukadzi chero upi zvake anoda muupenyu hwake hwose kuti arambe ari oga, anodiwa uye achida kumurume wake, asi kwete munhu wose anobudirira. Hazvisi zvakaoma kukunda mwoyo wemurume, munhu wose ane ruzivo ane nzira dzakawanda dzekukwezva chimwe chinhu chaanoda mumaganho awo. Asi kuchengetedza waidiwa pedyo nekuva iye wepakati pezvose uye chinangwa chehupenyu hachisi munhu wose.
1. Murume muvhimi, mukadzi mukoko
Hazvishamisi kuti vanotaura kuti vakadzi nevarume vagari vemapuraneti akasiyana, pamwe chete, vane maonero akasiyana zvakasiyana nezvehukama hwepano. Mukadzi ari kutsvaga kuchengetedzwa, kugadzikana uye kuvimba mune iye akasarudzwa, asi kumudzimai wake, humwe hwepfungwa hunonyanya kukosha, husinganzwisisiki. Yeuka kuti manzwiro ako akaberekwa sei. Iwe waiziva mumwe nomumwe, kutsvaga kwetsva kwakakwezva, kufara uye kutsamwisa kufarira kusinganzwisisiki. Nokufamba kwenguva, akatanga kutadza. Sei? Murume wacho akazadzisa chinangwa chake uye akadzikama, iwe watova chikwata chake. Iwe hauna kukanganwa kuti murume uyu muvhimi?
Asi magamba anogonawo kuva nemaonero akasiyana. A pheasant yakasungirirwa inogona kupedza makore achiunganidza guruva mumakamuri, uye achazvirumbidza kune shamwari dzake nguva dzose nehwe rinotakura bere. Hauna kufunga here, nei izvi zvichiitika? Kuti awane pheasant, murume haafaniri kuisa zvizhinji, izvo zvisingagoni kutaurwa nezvekuvhima bheya. Ikoko akashamiswa kutenga shopu inodhura uye mapfumo chaiwo, enda kumatareji, teerera pasi chikara ugoenda oga uri naye muhondo yakafa. Iwe unonzwa mutsauko here? Nokudaro mhedziso inotevera inofananidzira: kuva chinhu chinokosha uye chinodiwa chomunhu, chaanoda kushandisa nguva yake nemari. Usambofa wakashevedza kutanga uye usatora foni mushure mekutanga bhepiti, kutumira misangano, kufara uye kufara, kutsvaka ukama hunokosha, usarasa zvipo uye zviratidzo zvekucherechedza. Mukuita kudaro, unofanira kuremekedza mumwe wako, kwete kunyadzisa chiremera chako. Muvhimi chaiye haangagoni kubatsira kubvambura nyama yakadaro yakaoma.
2. Murume mwana, mukadzi mudzidzisi akachenjera
Varume varume vakuru, izvi zvinofanira kugara zvichiyeukwa. Uye chii chakaitwa mudzidzisi ane ruzivo mukerekeji kana vana vachinetseka nebasa chero ripi zvaro? Zvakarurama, vanoisa pfungwa dzavo pane chimwe chinhu, saka, kuitira kuti vakwekwe murume uye varambe vachifarira iye mumunhu, mukadzi anofanira kunge ari munhu anozvigadzirira uye munhu chaiwo.
Yeuka, denderedzwa yezvaunofarira haigone uye haifaniri kukwaniswa chete kune wakasarudzwa. Urarame hupenyu hwakakwana, shanda, kusika, kuverenga, kufamba, kuwana nyika uye kugovana ruzivo rwako nemanzwiro neaunoda. Murume anofanira kuona uye kunzwisisa kuti haasi iye ari pakati pezvinhu zvose uye nekunaka kwake shamwari isati yakagadzirira kuchinja zvachose mararamiro ehupenyu ndokuisa paatari yehukama hwemhuri.
3. Munhu wose ane chigaro chake
Muhukama kune zvigaro zviviri - murume nemukadzi, zvakakosha kuti urangarire nguva dzose uye usazvifananidza kuva nzvimbo yeumwe munhu. Kubvira muTesitamende Yekare zvakatendwa kuti murume-muwani, mukadzi - muchengeti wemukati. Zvechokwadi, nguva yakagadzirisa zvayo, asi chinangwa chinoramba chichifanana. Nokudaro, usanamatira kumabasa evanhu, kunyange kana ari musimba rako. Zvakakosha kuve nekukwanisa kukurudzira munhu uye nekumukurudzira kumabasa evanhu nezviito. Ngatitore nguva, asi iwe uchaziva kuti pedo newe ndeyetenderera yakavimbika yakagadzirira kutora mutoro wemhuri yako.
Iwe unoda kugara uchimuyeuchidza kuti ndiye iye akakodzera uye haugoni kuita kunze kwake. Usaisa chimiro pamurumbidze uye utendedze wako waunoda, enzanisa nevamwe (mukufarira kwake, hongu), ngaaite kuti anzwe kukoshesa uye kusagadzikana. Nyatsocherechedza kuti varume vemweya havanganamati mune vanasikana vavo vaduku. Uye zvose nokuti vakadzi vechidiki ava vakatendeseka, pamwero wezvisikwa zvechisikigo vanoyemura madzitateguru avo, kunyatsozvifunga kuti ndivo vakanakisisa paPasi. Yeuka kuti hapana munhu mukuru angadai akabudirira kubudirira asina kuwanda kwevakadzi vakamufuridzira.
4. O, zvepabonde, iwe ndiwe Zvose!
Zvepabonde - chinonyanya kukosha chehukama pakati pevarume nevakadzi, naizvozvo nzvimbo ino yehupenyu inofanira kupiwa kukosha kukuru. Kuzvifadza zvenyama hazvina kuchinja, zvinodiwa kuita zvakawanda. Yeuka kuti waienda sei musi wekutanga kweukama hwako, kunyatsosarudzwa wakasarudzwa uye kunyatsorongedza kuratidzwa kwavo mugirazi. Tora mazano aya akajeka, asi anokosha:- inopfeka chimiro chakanaka uye chemasikati chete. Murume haafaniri kutarisa kutaridzika kwemazuva ose uye kushambidzwa, kusina usiku. Endai kumba mune nguo dzinotamba, makagadzirira chero nguva kuti muparadze muviri wenyu. Kunyora zviduku zviduku zvakare hazvizosiyi mumwe wako asingabatsiri, zvisinei kuti zvakaoma sei zuva rake. Kumbirai kuti aunze tirasi nemashiripiti muimba yekugezera uye usatombofungira kuti achakutora iwe kuti uvate mumakumbo ake uye amusiye ari oga.
- Ita muviri wako zvakarongeka. Kuderedza uremu, kupinda mune zvemitambo kana kutamba, kuunza kukwana ganda nemvere. Kunyange kana muviri wako usina mienzaniso yakaenzana, inofanira kuva yakachena, yakachena uye inonaka kunhuhwidza. Chii chingava chinonakidza kupfuura chikafu chinyoro chechikadzi chisina kuchena uye zvakawanda zvinonhuwira, zvichiri zvinyorova mushure mokugeza bvudzi!
- Usava vanyengeri uye usanonoka kuedza mubhedha. Tarisa pamwe chete mafirimu emadhora, ita mitambo yemitambo, uite zvepabonde munzvimbo dzakasiyana, kwete kungove kunze kwebhedha. Ita kuti mumwe wako ape mambakwedza haisi kurira kweshoko rinokuvadza reawa, asi rako rinotyisa rinonyadzisa. Nditende, acharangarira izvi zuva rose uye achakuripira zvakakwana manheru!
5.Pravilno kudya murume wako
Munhu wose anoziva tsumo pamusoro penzira inoenda pamwoyo wemurume kuburikidza nedumbu. Hazvina mhosva kuti zvishoma zvingaita sei, asi pane zvakadzama zvinoreva shure kwechimiro chechimiro chevanhu. Rega kudya kwechikafu kutendeuke kuti vaviri vako vave mune imwe tsika. Kana munhu paanotanga hukama hwehutano akauya nechingwa pamubhedha, usaramba iyo ropafadzo munguva yemberi. Murege azive kuti nokuda kweizvi iwe uchamutenda nekutsvoda kukuru, manzwiro akanaka uye kudya kwemanheru.
Kunyange kana iwe usina kubika chero chinhu chikuru, shandisa zvakanaka tafura, kupa waunodya zvokudya, upe peputi, munyu unogunzva, chingwa, kuwedzera. Iva nechokwadi chokuti ugare naye patafura, kunyange kana kudya kwekupedzisira kwave kwakanyarara uye panguva ino iwe hausisina kudya. Usatanga kukurukurirana kwakakomba kusvikira murume agutsa nzara yake.
Tinovimba kuti mazano aya ari nyore achakubatsira iwe kuva iwe unofarira iwe uye iwe chete mukadzi kumudiwa wako anodiwa.