Asi muhupenyu zvakadaro mhedzisiro yenyaya yacho haishamisi, kana muvambi wekurambana ndiye murume. Zvinoshungurudza, kuzvidemba pamusoro pekukundikana kwewanano, misodzi, kuora mwoyo, pano hausi iwe woga. Tichakuratidza kuti ungakunda sei dambudziko rinowanzoitika.
Mamiriro ezvinhu anogona kuoma nekuwanda kwevana pamwe chete, kana pane mwanasikana muduku, hazviiti kuti azonzwisisa kuti baba vake vanoenda kupi, uye kana mwanakomana kubva kumuchato wokutanga akashandisa baba vake vokurera uye atokwanisa kukwanisa kumuda, zvino zvakaoma kupa chero mazano.
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinofunga kuti kurambana semumwe wezvinonyanya kukosha zvinotarisirwa, tarisira kushaya tariro. Icho mubvunzo wekusaziva kwemweya, apo kubva pakuziva kwekusakosha kwayo uye kusuruvara, hakuna nzvimbo yekuenda. Asi kana iwe uine mwanakomana akapinda munguva yekushandura, iwe unomuda, uye mwana mukunda uyo asingakure asingatarisiri.
Hatisi kukusimbisa nemashoko mashoma akadaro "bvisa pfungwa dzako kune vana," "zvose zvichapfuura," kana "kuwana mumwe murume," kunyange pane chokwadi mune izvi. Upenyu hwakaoma? Apo zvinhu zvose zvinowanikwa mumasikati machena, asi hazvigumi ipapo.
Chii chandingakurudzira? Edza kutsungirira, kukunda, kutambura nguva yakaoma zvikuru mushure mekuparadzanisa, muzviitiko zvakawanda nguva iyi inotora mwedzi miviri. Saka mweya yedu yakarongeka kuti hatigone kuwira mugomba risina chigadziko chekuora mwoyo uye kugara tichichema, kunyange kana mimwe miedzo yakaoma inouya. Semuenzaniso, munzvimbo yekutanga mukudzvinyirira rufu rwemunoda, panzvimbo yechipiri kusungwa zviri pamutemo, uye munzvimbo yechitatu pasi pekunetseka kurambana. Uye kurambana, kana iwe uchigovana nemurume wako, haisi njodzi inotyisa.
Pashure pemwedzi miviri kana mitanhatu, mafungiro acho achadzoka zvishoma nezvishoma, uye panzvimbo yekuora mwoyo, uye kunyanya kana paine vana vaviri vari kutarisira kwako, chido chekutenda mune zvakanakisisa chichauya uye chido chokurarama chichauya. Izvo hazvina kusiyana, kuti iwe uchatora hukama kubva kune vamwe varume. Asi kana mushure mekunge mwedzi mitanhatu kushuva kwako kuchizorora, zvino zvinoreva kuti wakakunda danho iri rakaoma muupenyu hwako. Kana munhu wekare akaroorana ari munhu chaiye, saka haazosiyi asina mwana. Chiratidzo chekugarisa kwepfungwa uye rugare rwako rwepfungwa kunogona kushanda sebhizimisi uye izwi rakanaka mukukurukurirana naye.
Iwe haufaniri kutarisa kusingagumi kuburikidza nemifananidzo yakabatana, kubudisa zvinhu zvakapiwa nemurume wekare, kusvimha misodzi mumiromo yako, uye kunopisa mweya wako. Uye zvichida zviri nani kuzvitarisira iwe pachako? Uye pano iwe haufaniri kungoima pachitokisi masikati neusiku, asi kunyoresa mune imwe nhandare yemitambo, enda kunakisa salons, tarisa chiso chako nemuviri. Bhuku rekunyora kudzidziswa, kutarisana nevakadzi vakadaro vakawana kurambana, unogona kuwedzera denderedzwa rekukurukurirana, uye nyanzvi yezvepfungwa achakuudza kuti ungashandura sei nekukurumidza muupenyu hutsva.
1. Haugone kugara uri woga, usingazvivhari. Izvo zvinotambudza kugovana nevanhu vakawanda. Ipapo iwe uchanzwa kuti hazvisi zvakaoma pamweya. Iwe unogona kutendeukira kune musikana wako, kuchema, asi zviri nani kuti utaure nemunhu wepfungwa.
2. Kana iwe uri munhu akavharwa uye iwe usingadi kutaurira vamwe matambudziko ako, tanga diary. Iye achakubatsira iwe kupona kuparadzana, iwe unonyanya kuziva dambudziko apo iwe unonyora papepa. Aya manzwiro acharega kukumanikidza pamweya, uye ivo vachazobudiswa zvishoma nezvishoma. Iwe uchava wakasununguka uye zvakare unokwanisa kuzvidzora iwe pachako uye zvakaitika zvako.
3. Gara pamberi pegirazi uye uzviudze nezvekushungurudzika kwako. Kurapa kwakadaro kunobudirira kubvisa kushungurudzika, saka iwe unoda kuita zviso zviviri zvakanaka, izvi zvinowedzera mafungiro ako uye iwe uchazviratidza kuti hauna kunyanya kufunga nezvechinetso.
4. Zvinyongedze mubasa. Basa ibasa remashiripiti kune chero matambudziko, richabatsira kuponesa kuparadzana uye kuparadzanisa kubva mumatambudziko avo, uye ipapo basa rinobatsira, rinobhadharwa.
5. Zvakakosha kushanda zvakaoma kungoora. Inogona kuva kushatirwa kushambidza, kuputika muimba, aerobics, inomhanya. Zvakakosha kukuudza manzwiro ako, vanoda kusunungurwa kunze kuitira kuti varege kukuparadza kubva mukati.
6. Mitambo inobatsira kutsungirira kushushikana, enda kumitambo yekuzvidzivirira, ita basa. Uye chimiro chinoporesa, enda kudondo, kutora kufamba mupaki. Dzorera bhuku rako raunoda, tarisa vhidhiyo. Edza kupfeka zvakanaka, kunyange iwe uri woga kumba. Tinofanira kuva nechokwadi chokuti hupenyu hwako huzere nezviitiko.
7. Kudya kwakakodzera kunobatsira kupesana nekuzvidya mwoyo. Ipai masipi nemiti inonhuwira. Zvose zvaunoda zvakasiyana nemichero, miriwo, mineral water uye juices.
8. Tora kufungisisa. Iwe unofanirwa kuva mune imwe nzvimbo yezororo uye runyararo, panguva ino simba rekudzorera rinomhanya kaviri nekukurumidza sezvarinenge panguva yokurara.
9. Bvisa zvinhu zvinokuyeuchidza nezvazvo, iwe haufaniri kubata mabhii nemifananidzo, zviri nani kuti uzvitore uye uzvikanda vose. Unofanira kuisa chinangwa, dzokera kuhupenyu. Iye zvino une chirongwa chaicho chokuzviratidza. Uye zvakakwana kuchema. Iye zvino unogona kupfekedza chipfeko chako chebhuruu chaunofarira, chaaifunga kuti chinonyangadza, unogona kusangana neshamwari yako yechikoro, waaifunga kuti ibenzi, enda kune nightclub neshamwari. Upenyu hunoenderera mberi.
Kupfupisa, iwe wakadzidza kukunda kushungurudzika mushure mekuparadzanisa nemurume. Uye pane imwe nguva yekutanga uye pamusi wekurambana, zvombo zvako chikuru ndechivimbo uye unofungisisa nezvemangwana. Izvo hazvizovi pakarepo, pakutanga kuchava nekushungurudzika, asi mushure mekuora mwoyo, kurara usiku uye zvakaitika, zvichapfuura. Yeuka kuti zvakanyorwa pamusoro pekuyeuchidza kwekare "zvose zvichapfuura, uye izvi zvakare," uye pane zvombo zvako kutora mutsara uyu kubva mufirimu yakakurumbira "mumakore makumi mana, upenyu huri kutanga."