Mune arsenal of psychology, pane zvakasimba kusimbisa nzira dzakadai dzekurera vana pangozi, yakadai semutambo uye kurapwa kweukama. Aya maitiro "anoratidzwa" uye anotyisa, uye anokanganisa, uye vana vasina simba vane hanya nekushaya dambudziko. Kuenzanisa, kutamba, kutamba, kutora ndiyo inowanzove yemishonga inoshanda, inonyanya kushandiswa pakudzidzisa. Iwe hausi iwe unyanzvi hwepfungwa uye hauna maitiro aya here? Zvaunogona kuita zvakanyanya. Iwe unonzwisisa uye unonzwa mwana wako ari nani zvikuru kupfuura vadzidzisi vane ruzivo. Ndicho chikonzero iwe uchakwanisa kutsungirira matambudziko mazhinji kana iwe ukadzidza kuita nekushingaira uye nechinangwa kutamba nemwana wako.
The Case Case
Chinhu chekutanga chekuita ndechokugadzirira seti yematayiri anodiwa "yakadaro mitambo ine subtext." Usatye - hapana chakaoma mune izvi. Kunyangwe zvakakosha, zvakashongedzerwa nehurongwa, kupedza nguva yekuunganidza "props" uye vanhu vose. Iwe uchada:
• Mhuri yemapuranga - mwanakomana nemwanasikana, amai, baba, mwana, mbuya, sekuru, uyewo vanun'una uye vanamume;
• Shamwari dzekutamba "mwanasikana" kana shamwari "mwanakomana";
• vanhu vane chiso chinotyisa uye chakaipa uyo achaita semuvakidzani wakaoma uyo akatya kutya, kana basa romudzidzisi asingadi chaizvo;
• zvidhori zvine mutsa uye zvinofara zviso - nokuda kwebasa redzidzisi akanaka, mashiripiti kana muroyikoni akanaka, mutongi kana firipi;
• nheyo yemidziyo;
• Nhamba dzeHeramu: muchinda ane ushingi (nekuda kwevasikana), Hulk, Spiderman (kuvakomana);
• vanopesana nemhare - maitiro maviri akaipa, robots, vatorwa;
• kuvakomana - boka revarwi, matangi, motokari, mapfuti maviri, mavanga kana sabers;
• nekuda kwevasikana - mhuka dziduku dzinoshamisa, iyo, kana zvichifanira, inogona kuita chero ipi zvayo inorongwa;
• mabhesi kubva kwaunokwanisa kuvaka imba yekutamba uye nhare;
• mapepa ane mavara, plastiki, mabhesi, mapepa, markers, album yekutora.
Zvisinei, kunyange kana vabereki vakaunganidza hafu yezvose zvataurwa pamusoro apa, izvi zvichakwanisa kutanga.
Kana vana vasina maturo vachidya
Kazhinji, vana vanotya kubva muboka rekukuvadza vanopricious chero chikonzero chipi zvacho. Mwana wako muduku haakwanisi kudya, haibatsiri kukurudzira kupi zvako? Zvakanaka, regai mwana nhasi ave papa - mubiki kana amai, vanobata mhuri yavo. Tinowana chidimbu chemadhora kubva mu sutukesi yemashiripiti. Dzoserai madhora ose akapoteredza tafura yedoti, isa pikiti yakakodzera. Ita mamiriro ezvinhu emufaro, mhemberero uye mufaro. Nokuda kweizvi, inzwa inzwi rezvinoitika, nokuti mwana pachake haazive kuti sei. Asi iwe unofanira kuedza: "Tichaisa ndiro dzekunakisisa, tinokukoka vaenzi mumba medu, tinogadzirira zvose zvinonaka, zvisina kumira. Sezvo munhu wese achida cutlets, Baba vanokumbira zvizere! Uye hama, tarisai, nokuti matama acho maviri anosvitsa buckwheat gruel! Iwe uchamuponesa uye kufara kuti munhu wose anonaka kwazvo! Ambuya vako vanoda kumupa chimedu chehuku here? Sarudza kuti iye awedzere kufadza. Ndizvo zvaanoseka, kupwanya! Zvakanaka kuva nechikafu chinonaka! "
Nguva inotevera, kutamba nemwana mukugadzirira kwemanheru. Paunenge uchimupa kuti akudze makaroti akatsvuka, ndiudze kuti ndopora sei chidimbu chebheketi, zvibvise ugochera chidimbu che nyama. Ipa mhuri yemapuropiti uye mwana kuti araye jeri, maapule ane ruvara. Neyo mutambo iwe unogadzirisa mafungiro akanaka emwana, zvinotarisirwa zvakanaka. Uchaona, nokukurumidza mafungiro ake pamusoro pezvokudya achachinja.
Bvisa utsinye
Iwe unonetseka here nekuputika kwechisimba nekutsamwa kunowanzoitika kune vana vari pangozi? Mwana wacho anosundira chibhakera kuna mbuya vake, achiedza kumanikidza muvakidzani wake pajecha rejecha, iwe unopinda mubhokisi. Uye mudzidzisi anonyunyuta pamusoro pake. Iwe unonyadzisa murwi, uchitsanangura kuti iwe haugone kuita izvi, asi unhu hwake hauhudzi. Sezviri pachena, mwana ane zvikonzero zvekutsamwa nehasha, iwe haugone kunzwisisa, asi iwe kana kuti chii. Uye iye haanzwisisi nzira yekuratidza manzwiro ake kuitira kuti vanzwisiswe, uye musaita kuti munhu akuvadze. Panozve, nzira huru yekurera vana (uye kwete boka rekuisa pangozi) - mutambo - unogona kuuya kununura.
Wacherechedza here kuti mukomana ane hasha anotora pfuti uye anokukwevera iwe nokuti wakaramba chimwe chinhu kana wakatotongerwa? Ingotora zvombo, usandiudza kuti iwe uri kuisa marambidzwa pazviri, kuti vanhu havabvumirwi kupfura. Zvakanyanya zviri nani muzvidzidzo zvingabatsira kusanzwisisiki kuti mwana arambidzwa, asi mutsara wakajeka: "Iwe wakatsamwa." Kubvumirana, kubudiswa uku uye zvinokonzerwa nemanzwiro zviri nani kupfuura chiedza chekurova kana kuruma. Tamba nemwana muhondo, uye ipai chinangwa kumwana. Muchiitiko ichi, sutukesi yemashiripiti inobatsira. Wana mauto. Regai mwana wacho akandire kutsamwa kwake pavengi wepikicha: achiiputira nematangi, kupfura, achidonhera padenga, asi achingovhura nzeve dzake zvakanaka. Mabhosi akamanikidzwa kubva kumapepanhau ekare zvakare inzira inofadza yeku "chengetedza mweya."
Vana veboka rekutengesa vanogona kuwana mufaro mukuru kana iwe ukakonzera muvengi akaipa, uye "uchiparadza" iyo, yakawanda uye isina tsitsi inoratidzirwa nepepuru yakaita. Hazvingave zvakaipa kuti tive nechigunha kubva papurasitiki, uye pfuti yakagadzika, ichiputika, ichichibvisa muzvimedu zvakasiyana. Iwe pachako inzwi mumutambo uyu wakaparadzwa ne-scarecrow - iyi ndiyo mukana wako wekuona chakaita kuti mwana ave nehasha. Regai chikara chikumbire tsitsi, chengetedza uye mubvunze kuti nei vachimuranga saizvozvo. Nokumanikidzwa kuteerera uye kuteerera? Kana kuti ivo nguva dzose vanozvidza nekudzidzisa, matoyi ari kubviswa here? Mwana, mushure mekunge achinzwa "chirongwa chakarurama", achanyatsosimbisa iwo nemashoko kana kuti anoratidza manzwiro. Uye nokukurumidza unodzikama. Nokudaro, hauzovi kungodzidzisa mwana wako kuti aratidze manzwiro ake asina kunaka nenzira yakachengeteka, asi anogonawo kunzwisisa kuti amubatsire sei kutsungirira matambudziko.
Idzidziso mitemo yekurera vana pangozi
Kuti uratidze mitambo yako kubatsira mwana, vabereki vanofanira kutevedzera mitemo yakawanda:
- Nyatsoteerera uye ushamwari kune zvigadzirwa zvezvimedu, usazvidza mutambo wake.
- Fungidzira iwe pachako. Kushingairira kwako uye mufaro wako uchapfuudzwa kumwana.
- Zvimwe mutambo, kutora, kuenzanisira - uchaona rudzi rwekuzviratidza kwemanzwi ari pedyo nemwana wako.
- Usamanikidza karapuza kuti itambe. Kana iwe ukaona kuti haana kurashikirwa kana kuti haana kugutsikana nechimwe chinhu, shandura kune rimwe basa.
Uchitevera nzira dzakanaka mukurera vana pangozi, unogona kuvadzidzisa kupindura zvakakwana kumamiriro ezvinhu anotsamwisa uye kunyatsobudisa manzwiro avo. Kana iwe ukataurira nyaya yacho nguva dzose uye ukashandisa nzira dzekudzidzisa nguva dzose, mushure memakore mashomanana iwe uchakanganwa kuti mwana wako ari pangozi. Zvechokwadi achakura kuti ave munhu chaiye, kuzviremekedza iye nevamwe.