Nemashoko api ari nani kutanga kutaurirana, kutamba?

Iko kukwanisa kuita zvepabonde kunowanikwa matiri nemasikirwo. Asi izvi zvisingagumi zvekushushikana zvepabonde kune mumwe nemumwe zvinogonawo kudzidzwa! Vasikana vanotanga kuisa vhudzi ravo shure kwe nzeve dzavo kana kuti vachidzikanda zvakare nechitsiko chakasununguka, kuti vinyemwere pamusikana ari pedyo naye muhofisi yechikoro? Usakanganwa! Uye zvakarurama. Mushure mezvose, isu kubva pauduku hwepakutanga tinonzwa kushushikana kusingagoneki kwevakomana vakasiyana. Uye kutamba, kutamba nemakore mashanu, kunyange pasina kuzviziva. Kutamba kunotarisa, kunobata, kunoseka ... Pasinei nokuti uri kumba kana kubasa, pasina kutamba, hapana zuva rimwe chete muupenyu hwomunhu chero upi zvake. Madziro emadzitateguru edu nekunyengedzera, maitiro azvo nhasi, uyewo zviduku zvishoma, maitiro nemaitiro-takasarudza kuongorora zvose zvakavanzika zvebasa iri rakaoma asi rinokosha. Nemashoko api ari nani zviri nani kutanga kukurukurirana, rudzii rwenyoro runogona kuva?

Nhoroondo ye genre

Hongu, shoko rokuti "kufanana" pakutanga raireva chaizvo kukwanisa kupa maruva. Izvo zvakaonekwa pakati pevarume voruzhinji muFrance pakati pezana remakore rechi17 ne18. Kunyangwe nhoroondo yekutamba nayo pachayo inopinda kusvika mumazana emakore, zvakasikwa, kune yakakurumbira seductress yenyika yekare, Cleopatra. Ndiyo mambokadzi wekupedzisira weEgipita kubva kumhuri yePtolemaic iyo yakaunza zvinonhuwira, mafuta, uye zvinonhuwira zvine pheromones, izvo zvaaiwanzoita kuti ataure nezvevasikana vakasiyana. Muchirevo chemazuva ano, shoko rokuti "kutamba" rakatorwa nemunyori weChirungu Chesterfield. Akatsanangura imwe yenzira dzakanaka dzaDan Francis Francis, kwaakashandisa nounyanzvi maitiro ekudanana nemubatsiri wefenzi: akaizarura, ndokuivhara, ndokuvanza chiso chose, ipapo chete maziso ake. Akazviita zvakajeka kuti murume uyo aitaura naye achiseka akataura mashoko ekunyomba, akataura kuti akanga achingozviputira, uye izvi, zvakare, zvainzi kudanana. Kubvira panguva iyo, rudzi urwu rwekugadzirira rwakave rwakawanda.

Kunyengera kworudo

Uyezve zvipfeko, shangu, maziso, mafuta, zvinonhuwira - zvose zvakava izvo zvisingagoni kuwanikwa zveunyanzvi hwekuedzwa uye kubata.

Zvichitenderera kuti ndiani ari kushandisa zvekuita zvepabonde, murume kana mukadzi, akaparadzaniswa muedzo kana kuti kubatanidzwa.

Nzira yekuedza

Varume vari muzhinji vanoramba vachishandisa unyanzvi hwekuedza, varume chaivo havafariri mutambo nekuda kwemuti pachawo, kusiyana nevakadzi. Dhizha rakakurumbira raDon Juan neCasanova raive nerinoshamisa, rinongogumira simba kune vakadzi. Ndechipi chikonzero? Izvo zvose nezvemaitiro.

1) Kudzidza, kudzidza kunotarisa ndiro chimbo chikuru chemunhu mukuratidza rudo, anofanira kunge achitsungirira uye asingatyi, anofadza. Nekutarisa kwakadaro murume anokuratidza iwe kufarira uye kugadzirirwa kune iye akasarudzwa.

2) Kushushikana kwemavara, kukodzera mapepa, kunyura-saka murume anoratidza simba rake, chivimbo uye zvakakosha. Mukadzi, kana achida kana kwete, acharamba achigovera kubva kune mazana emamwe.

3) Kushorwa - zvombo nhamba nhamba 1 muchikwata chemuedzo muvakadzi nevarume. Ndiko kunyemwerera kwomurume hakusi kunyengedza, asi, pane kudaro, kubvuma, zvinoratidza kuti zvakanaka kuti titarise iwe.

4) Kushamwaridzana kunowanzoita hukama hwevarume panguva yekurovana. Vanozviita zvisingaiti, zvinhu zvose zvinoitika pachedu: kubata nyore nyore padama rako, sekuti kana uchitarisa kuvapo kwepakutengesa, tsvina iwe pachako pachigunha kana kugadzirisa tambo - kana murume wacho achiita zvose, iva nechokwadi, iwe unomuda zvikuru - uye izvi hazviiti iyo imwe, seinoita ruchiva.

5) Rubatsiro - ipa jekete rako kana jasi kana umburera, uzarure musuo - haisi mitemo yekunakirwa kwakanaka kana chiratidzo chokuti munhu ane hanya nehutano hwako - izviwo ndezvekuita zvepabonde zvinowanikwa mumumiririri evanhukadzi vane simba. Zvinyorwa zvinyanzvi zvevanhu vaimhanya vachiimba serenades kune vadiwa vavo pasi pemahwindo kana kutumira maruva nemanzwi akavanzika. Nenzira iyo, mukurumbira wainzi Casanova akashandisa zvinhu izvi zvakafanana zvekutamba, kunze kwekugadzirira chero maitiro akafukidzirwa. Chimbo chake chikuru chaive chivimbo uye rudo rwechokwadi kune vakadzi.

Maitiro ekudanana

Mukadzi kuramba flirting yakaoma zvikuru, unyanzvi, unoonda. Vakadzi vanoita zvepabonde vasingabatsiri uye zvakananga, nekuda kwekubata, kuitira kuti vaite zvinangwa zvavo. Ndivo vamiririri vehutano hwakanaka ivo ndivo vanotanga kuratidzira rudo, avo vokutanga kusarudza munhu, kumudhonza mumutambo wake.

1) Maonero emukadzi haasi omunhu akazaruka uye anofambidzana naye, asi zvinopesana - une nhamo, isina kugadzikana. Zvinyorwa zvemajeri - kutaridzika kwenguva pfupi, kunyara kunonyadzisa kutarisa, kupenya kweeyelashes uye kutarisa pasi, kudzokororwa, kutarisa kushandiswa kweeyelashes muminiti. Iyi maonero haazosiyi asina hanya nemunhu chero upi zvake.

2) Smile-kwete kwete miromo, nokuti chiedza, chinonakidza chiso mumeso zvakare chimiro chemwesemwe, uye iye achamuponesa.

3) Mutauro wemasaini - zviri nyore kudzikamisa vhudzi, sokunge zvisinganyanyi kuvhara mutsipa, zviri nyore kubvambura shangu, kutema kunoshamisa kune rimwe mimwe - murume wacho, angave achida kana kwete, achava mubatsiri wekuzvipira mumutambo wako.

4) Inzwi-yakanyarara, yakanyorova. Varume vanozvitsaura pakarepo kubva kumazana evamwe, uye kuseka kunopararira, kufara, zvose izvi zvinopesana nazvo. Zvinonyanya kukosha ndezvaunotaura: misoro isinganzwisisiki, mitauro isinganzwisisiki - uye kufanana kuchawana chinhu chinonakidza.

5) Kushanda ndiro chimbo chekupedzisira uye chakasimba pane imwe arsenal, iyo inosarudza chinangwa chezviito zvako. Nechiedza chekuona, vanyori vepfungwa vanokurudzira kuderedza kugunzva kusvika zero, zvisinei kuti mutambo unogona kupfuura zvinangwa zvako. Yeuka: "nzvimbo dzekugara" - 1.2 m, "munhu" - 70 cm uye "yepedyo" - 45 cm. Sarudza pane chinangwa uye uyambuke miganhu inobvumirwa maererano navo. Kuita ruchiva chirabwe chisingaperi chevakadzi vaviri, chakavanzika chavo uye kufarira pamwe. Kushandisa zvakanaka, uchiita hupenyu hupfumi uye hunofadza. Chii chichabatsira kuva akanaka, utano, hunofadza uye usina makwinya zuva nezuva? Chakavanzika chiri mukuratidzwa kwezuva nezuva rwe rudo! Zvitsva zvemashure makumi maviri nemakumi maviri mangwanani, zvinogona kugadzirisa mafungiro akanaka zvezuva racho - kugumisa kwakaitwa nevepfungwa dzepfungwa paYunivhesiti yeBerlin, inotungamirirwa naLars Hagen. Nguva yenguva yakanaka yekutsvoda inofungidzirwa kuva maminitsi matatu, masayendisiti anoti, ndiani akacherechedza mazana maviri maviri emakore akasiyana. Mukuwedzera, vose avo vakabvunzurudzwa mushure mekunge nzira iyi inofadza yakatarisa hupenyu hwavo chete nenzira yakanaka. Kusveta kwenguva refu kunogona kukanganisa kurwisa kwevirative dystonia nekuda kwekusimudzira kwehutachiona hwevanhu.