Zvinotendwa kuti iyo nguva iyo munhu anotanga kuratidza neukama hukama hwakakomba uye kuroora, iyi iyi yemakore makumi matatu-35-37. Izvi hazvirevi kuti vari kutoroorana, kunyanya panguva ino. Izvi zvinongoreva chete kuti pashure pezera rino vanotanga kusika mararamiro akasimba zvakanyanya.
Mhinduro dzisingabviri uye dzepasi pose kumubvunzo wevakadzi vakadzi vanosarudza hukama hwakakomba, kwete. Mukufunga kwepfungwa kune pfungwa yokuti murume wese nemudzimai wese pasi pano ane pechipiri chehafu. Zvinonzwika rudo, asi kunewo maitiro ekunyengera: mamwe emakumi mana ayo Mwari akafanirwa kwatiri, zvichida kupfuura imwe. Izvi zvinoreva kuti kana mumwe munhu achifunga kuti akarasikirwa nerudo rwehupenyu hwake, izvi ndezvenguva pfupi. Kazhinji varume nemadzimai vane mumusoro mavo mufananidzo wakajeka wehupenyu hwomunguva yemberi, iyo, mumaonero avo, yakanaka kune hukama hwakakomba. Ichi chifananidzo chakanyorwa kubva achiri muduku nehama yepedyo yevasikana vakasiyana, uye muzera remakore ekuyaruka rakaputirwa nekudhura zvifananidzo pakati pevimhanzi, vateereri, nyeredzi dzerevhizheni. Uye huwandu, kana kunyange mazana ezviuru zvevanhu vechirume, vakanyatsokodzera mumufananidzo uyu.
Muchiitiko chakajairika, mufananidzo wenguva yemberi mudzimai akanaka wemunhu inonyorwa kubva kuna amai vake. Asi iyi haisi muenzaniso wakaoma. Mwana mumwe nomumwe, kutanga nemakore 4-5, ane "munhu mukuru". Uyu munhu kazhinji akasiyana nevepabonde, iyo ndiyo tsika, maonero epfungwa, maonero ehupenyu hwemunguva yemberi. Kana mukomana wacho asina kunyatsogutsikana nehukama naamai, achitya kwaari, kana kuti akasiyiwa naye nokuda kwebasa mune mamwe madiki, anogona kuita mumwe mukadzi kuti ave mwana wake chaiye. Inogona kuva nanny, mudzidzisi, tete kana mbuya. Kana iwe uchida kudzidza zvido zveumwe munhu, edza kutsvaga kuti ndiani aiva mudzimai mukuru kubva paudiki hwake, uye uyo waaifunga nezvekuroorwa kana aive mwana wepachikoro. Mibvunzo pamusoro pemhando ipi yemasikirini nemafambiro kana vaimbi vaanoda, ichavawo asina kunaka. Cherechedza kuti maitiro eamai nevakuru vakuru vanopa pfungwa yemafambiro aunofarira uye unhu hwemadzimai, uye zviitiko zvevhidhiyo inodikanwa terevhizheni kakawanda zvinoratidza zvaunofarira mumunda wechitarisiko chako.
Mukutaura, vanhu vangani, zvishuvo zvakawanda zvemudzimai zviripo. Kunyange zvakadaro, pane vachiri kuedza kuumba chimiro chevakadzi, izvo varume vanosarudza kuroorwa. Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa kuti ndudzii yevarume varume vanosarudza hukama hwakasimba, vachitarisa maitiro avo.
Romantic
Munhu akadaro anotenda kuti mumhuri inofanira kunge iri mberi kwehutano, manzwiro. Vanokoshesa manzwiro akasimba, rugare rwepfungwa uye kuenzanisa. Vanobatana nekutya zvimwe zviito mumubhedha, kana vasina kushandiswa zvakanaka, zvakanakisisa, zvakanaka uye zvorudo. Zviitiko zvinokanganisa kwavari - munzvimbo yegumi. Saka kana uine tsika dzakagadzirira kuroora murume akadaro, iwe uchafanira kushivirira antics yake, paanokupa bhakesi re roses, akatenga mubhadharo wose.
Mhuri-mubereki
Pasinei nekuregererwa kwose, kune vamwe vashoma varume vanofunga nezvechikonzero che rudo - kuchengetedzwa. Varume vanosarudza rudzi urwu rwemadzimai evanhukadzi, vana vechidiki, avo vanowanzotarisana nehuwandu hwevanhu huri pasi. Mudzimai wemubereki-murume anofanira kuva muduku kudarika iye, asina kudzidziswa, asingakwanisi kubudirira, kubva kune imwe nyika inoshayiwa. Varume vakadaro nyore nyore kuroora vashanyi kubva kune dzimwe nyika dzakapoteredza kana kubva kune imwe nzvimbo iri kure. Vanoda kudzidzisa vose varipo, uye mudzimai anofanira kuteerera kumudzimai, nekushivirira kuita iye kunyange mirayiridzo inonyadzisa, teerera dzidziso dzetsika.
Murume "mwana"
Uyu murume akanaka uyo anokwanisa kuita hupenyu hwemumwe wako achifara, achifara, pakarepo. Kuzaruka kwake uye kufambidzana kunokunda munhu wose, iye anowanzova nzvimbo yekutarisa mune imwe kambani. Dzimwe nguva inopa pfungwa yekudzivirira, yakagadzirira kupfeka mudzimai mumaoko ake uye kuita zvose zvayo mirairo inokosha. Iyi ikunyepera kunonyengera, nokuti simba mune unhu hwemunhu akadaro kunewo. Akangofukidzirwa ne vagaries, mufananidzo wekusabatsirwa uye kusabatsirana kunoita kuti mukadzi atore mamwe mabasa emhuri. Mumurume akadaro, kuda kwechitarisiko kunowanzotsanangurwa zvakajeka - vanofarira madzimai akazara, makuru. Kazhinji vanoroora vakadzi vakuru kudarika ivo, uye vana kubva kumhuri yavo yekutanga. Uye ivo vanova mumba mune mumwe munhu mukuru.
Rationalist
Kuti akunde munhu akadaro, munhu anofanira kunge ane chironga chesimbi, kunyatsogadzirisa manzwiro uye nechokuita kusakwana kwese kwekunzwa kwepfungwa. Kazhinji murume akadaro haanwi zvachose, haasvuti, kazhinji haatambudzi nemafuta nenzira yekubhejera kana kushingaira nemakambani ane ushamwari. Zvose zvinotakura mumba, asiwo kubva kumudzimai zvinoda zvakafanana. Pamberi pake, mukadzi wacho anonzwa seche seri kwemasvingo emabwe. Iko kungofungidzira, mazwi pamusoro porudo, uye kungotaura moyo nemoyo nemunhu akadaro haufaniri kumirira.
Independent egoist
Rudzi rwakakosha rwevarume avo vanofananidza zvakanakira kwazvo uye vanobudirira mubasa revakadzi. Anoziva kuti haafaniri kumanikidzira mudzimai wake, kwete kumubvunza kubva pachigaro pamba, kazhinji haashushi kubudirira kwake, haasi godo kune avo vashandi. Asi anodawo maonero akadaro kwaari. Murume akadaro anosarudza kuramba ari kure nevanhu vose varipo, uye chero upi zvake huri panzvimbo yake pachako hunomutyisa.
Anoda kuenzana
Vakadzi pachavo vave vachitambura kwenguva yakareba kuti vawane kodzero dzakakwana nevarume. Iye zvino tinofanira kujekesa. Vanhu vakawanda vari kutsvaga muenzani akaenzana. Vanoda kuti mudzimai wake ashande zvakawanda sezvaanoita, asi vakagadzirira kubatsira kumativi eimba, mukicheni. Varume vakadaro havadi kutora mari yekuchengeteka kwemhuri. Kazhinji vanoedza kuisa mazano ega ega kumudzimai nemurume, uye kumhuri imwe neimwe inoumbwa mune zvimwe zviyero. Hazvina musoro kuedza kumanikidzira munhu akadaro kuti akupe zvipo zvinokosha uye kuzadzisa zvaunofunga. Kwenguva yakati acharamba achitsungirira, ipapo achaenda kundotarisa mukadzi uyo anomuda. Nenzira yakanaka, munguva yedu zvinetso neizvi muvarume hazvisimuke.