Mental acupuncture.
Funga nezvemajokesti anokutorera iwe. Zvichida, iwe unopindura zvakanyanyisa nokuti majee aya anowira munyaya inorwadza zvikuru. Kubvuma - une dambudziko rakavanzika iro rinoshungurudza nguva dzose nguva yaunenge uchikuvadza. Semuenzaniso, unonyatsova nechokwadi pamusoro pechitarisiko chako. Iwe ungatora joke risina mhosva pamusoro pechiso chako, chaizvoizvo sehose kana iwe uchaona kunyombwa kwakananga mune izvi? Dzimwe nguva vanhu vane kumwemwemwerera vanongotaura chete: "Iwe unongova mamayi!", Uye unonzwa: "maziso maduku, masaya matema, makwinya pedyo nemeso." Zviitiko zvakadaro zvakasiyana nevevechiri kuyaruka, asi kana uchinge wakatanga kuberekera kwenguva yakareba, zvakakosha kufunga kuti kana maitiro ako akajairika.
Edza kugadzirisa dambudziko rekadhiineni kune stylist. Rega akushandure zvachose - kubva kune vhudzi uye mazamu kuvharobe uye nzira yekufamba. Kazhinji zvichida, itsva iwe unofarira iwe pachako. Usatya kutora zviso zvinonakidza kune shamwari, kuseka majee navo uye usagumburwa pa bullshit.
Kana izvi zvose zvisingabatsiri, kurumidza kudzokera kumudzidzi wepfungwa, zvisinei iwe unogona kuisa mukana wekugara nematambudziko ako kusvikira wachembera, uye chaizvoizvo nezera hatisati tanyatsogadzirira. Kusapindirana kwemakakatanwa uye zvimwe zvinoshandiswa munguva yemberi zvinogona kuparadza upenyu, kana zvisingaiti dambudziko iri pamudzi.
Zvikamu zvemasimba.
Tiri kurarama, tinokurukura, tinozviwanira isu pachedu shamwari, shamwari, vashandi pamwe navo. Ava ndivo vanhu vatinofunga navo zvishoma kana zvishoma, avo vanoita zvingafanotaurwa. Tine chivimbo, tinogona kutaura kuti nevakawanda vavo tine mhepo yakafanana uye tinonzwisisana zvakakwana, pasinei nharo duku.
Asi zvinoitika kuti mumwe munhu ari muchecheche uyu, anogara achiita sedenderedzwa akasiyana zvachose newe. Rudzi rwe nzou mune imwe chitoro china. Inogona kunge iri shamwari isingazivikanwe yemunhu waunoziva, munhu asina kumboziva mumugwagwa, mutyairi mune motokari, mutumwa muhofisi. Anozvibvumira pachake kushamwaridzana majee, ayo ari mudenderedzwa yako anotorwa sechinhu chisina kunaka.
Nzira chete yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu aya haisi kuteerera. Mutorwa uyo haana kufanana newe. Anogona kunge asina kuipa zvachose, asi anongorwara chete, aine benzi zvishoma, kana kuti nehana inosemesa. Vanhu vakadaro vachaita imwe nzira kana imwe kuonekwa muhupenyu hwenyu, asi ava ndivo vanhu vasina kukwana avo havafaniri kunge vane simba rakawanda pamusoro penyika yenyu yepakati.
Kuti urege kutaridzika sehodzi chena pakati pekuseka uye nguva dzose uchirega kuseka shamwari, tadzidzisa manzwiro ako ekuseka. Verenga anecdotes inokuita kuti unyemwe, tarisa kuti vamwe vanhu vaite sei majee mukufamba kwavo. Iwe uchaona kuti havasi vose vakagumburwa uye, zvichida, kuti vanzwe joke mundima yavo - hazvina kunaka here? Kana ukacherechedza kuti vari kuseka pamusoro pako nokuda kwechikonzero chimwe chete, usakurumidza kuora mwoyo. Ingoshandura denderedzwa rekukurukurirana, ona kuti vanhu vakasiyana zvakasiyana sei vachaita kwauri. Kana zvakadaro, izvo vashandi vaseka vakaseka, shamwari dzisingacherechedzi, zvinoreva kuti dambudziko racho haringaiti.
Dzimwe nguva vanhu vanosarudza chimwe chinhu kuti vaseke, kubva kumajoke hapasisina zvakawanda zvakasara, kunyatsotsvaga kunotanga. Usave wakabatwa. Mhinduro yakanakisisa ndeyokusiya kambani yakadaro. Kana nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero izvi hazvigoneki, kupai zvakakodzera kudzof. Iva nenyengeri mumakero avo, asi usaburuka kunyoreswa. Nzwisiso yako yekunakidza ichinyanya kukunda chero miedzo yekukuisa muchinzvimbo chisina kunaka.
Unhu huri mutsetse wakaisvonaka pakati pekose nemisodzi. Imwe nhove imwe chete inogona kukonzera vanhu vakasiyana kuchema kubva kuseka kana kushungurudzika. Edza kudzidza kuti usatora majee pamwoyo, dzidza kuseka iwe pachako. Kana kuseka mumuromo wemunhu kunonzwika semuedzo wokugumbura, kungosiya munhu uyu kana kupindura zvachose zvakanyanya. Chero zvakadaro, nekunakidza upenyu hwedu hunofadza zvikuru uye hunofadza kudarika pasina.