Mamiriro ezvinhu kana vakaroorana vachiita bhizimisi remhuri kana kuti vanoshandiswa mubhizimisi rimwe chete, kazhinji vanopesana. Kushumira rudo pakati pekushanda navo kubasa nguva dzose kwakaratidzwa zvisina kunaka, asi zvakadini kana murume nomudzimai vachishanda pamwechete? Imba yako ingasimbiswa here nokuti iwe hauna kuparadzaniswa zuva rose, kana zvimwewo, ichava muedzo wakakomba kwaari? Hapana mhinduro isina kukodzera, kunyange zvazvo zvakakosha kufunga zvese zvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka.
Zvimwe zvebasa nemumwe wako
Saka, munzvimbo ine kukwikwidzana kwevashandi vemahofisi emazuva ano, murume nemudzimai kubasa vachagara vaine chevimbiso yakasimba, vashandi avo vasingazoedzi kuponesa, kunyengera, asi zvinopesana zvichabatsigira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma uye hazvizobvisi chikamu chinotarisirwa kwenguva refu.
Mhuri inoshanda pamwe chete, sechinhu chimwe chete, iyo inonzwisisa nekubatsirana. Nokudaro, iwe uchanzwa uine chivimbo mukubatana kwebasa, kunyange iwe uri vatsva.
Sezvo mhuri iri boka rimwe chete, zvinowanzoitika muboka kuti igoverane ruzivo, kusanganisira ruzivo, uye kana rakanyatsorasikirwa, unogona kuwana zvakawanda zvekubatsira. Panguva yemasikati, haugoni kufara chete pamwe chete, asiwo shandura mashoko evamwe vaunoshanda navo kazhinji vasingagoverane. Izvi zvingava nhau dzegvumirano iri kugadzirirwa kana pamusoro pevashandi venguva yemberi. Asi kunyange iyo inowanzozivikanwa pamusoro penguva yekupa mubhadharo kana kuti mafungiro ezuva ranhasi masimba anogonawo kubatsira.
Matambudziko ekushanda pamwe chete uye nzira dzokugadzirisa nadzo
Dambudziko ringangodaro kuti vaviri vakaroora vanogara pamwe chete uye vanoshanda pamwe chete pamwe chete vanogona kuona sechinhu chimwe chete.Kana kubudirira kwomumwe wako kunotanga kunzi mavhiriki, saka ichi chinhu chimwe chete, asi chii chingaita nechakaipa kana murume kana mudzimai akaita chikanganiso chemhizha. Mushure mezvose, izvi zvose zvinotofanirawo kugoverwa nehafu. Uye kana shamwari yakabatana isingagoni kuva shamwari dzako, saka vashandi vake vanoedza kuedza kukutorera iwe. Mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro anovhiringidza mubasa uye anoona kuwirirana kwepfungwa. Kuti udzivise izvi, iwe unoda kuratidza timu kuti iwe, kunyange mhuri, asi zvakadaro huviri hwakasiyana hwakakwana hwakakwana. Zivhura mukati mako mushure mokutenderera wakasununguka, uye shandisa hukama nevanoshanda navo.
Zvinetso zvakawanda, kana vaviri vacho vakashanda pamwe chete, zvinogona kuunza tsika yevanhu kuzokurukura vashandi pamwe neuranda. Hazvina kufadza kuteerera nzeve pamusoro pemurume wake kubva mumitauro yakaipa kune kubasa uye kunyange kana mashoko acho asiri echokwadi, zvinogona vseravno kuva muedzo chaiwo wokuvimbana.
Asi kana iwe usingakwanisi kubhadhara makuhwa, ipapo kukanganisa kwemumwe wako, kunyange zviduku, mubasa rakaoma pamwe chete zvakanyanya kuoma kusazviteerera. Uye haisi kungova nemafungiro asina kuora. Mapeji ezvemapfungwa anoti vanhu vane hukama hwepabonde kune avo vanobudirira, uye pakarepo simba ravo rinowira mumaziso edu, chido chacho chinogona kupera. Tisinganyatsofungi, isu, tiri mune imwe nzvimbo yebasa, tinotanga kutevera kubudirira uye kukundwa kwehafu yedu yechipiri. Uye kana mumwe mukadzi ane basa rekuderera, rinogona kuderedza kukwezva kwake zvepabonde uye kutungamirira kune kusawirirana muupenyu hwehukama pakati pemurume nemudzimai. Kune rumwe rutivi, vakaroorana vanoita munharaunda imwe yevashandi vanogona kutakura zvakanyanya, vachibudirira uye ipapo kukwikwidza kunotyisa kuchaputika pakati pavo, izvo zvinogona kuisa upenyu hwehutano kumhuri imwe chete.
Kune rumwe rutivi, hupenyu hwemhuri pane zvinopesana hunogona kukanganisa hutano. Kana iwe uri pakurara nemumwe wako, ipapo kubasa kuvanza kutsamwa kwako uye kutsamwa kuchava kwakaoma zvikuru. Hazvibvumiri kuti iwe ucharamba uchijekesa hukama hwepabonde munzvimbo yebasa kana kuti kuipa, iwe uchagumbura shamwari. Izvozvo zvakasvibiswa tsvina hazvigoni kungoparadza mafungiro, asi kuderedza kushanda.
Kana murume nomudzimai vari kushanda pamwechete, vanoisa pangozi "kuunza basa kumusha", ndiko kuti, kudzokera kumusha, kuramba vachifunga uye kukurukura mumwe nomumwe nemashoko ari kushanda.
Kuti udzivise kukanganisa kwakadaro kwebasa mumhepo mumhuri yako, unofanirwa kusiyanisa zvakajeka pakati pehupenyu hwemusha uye hwehupfumi. Apo mahofisi ehofisi akavhara shure kwako, edza kusunungura "unyanzvi" mumusoro wako uye omira kutarira murume uyo, waunodzokera kumusha sewaishanda naye uyo asina kukupa rimwe ripoti kwauri. Taura naye pane zvisinganzwisisiki - mamiriro okunze, zvematongerwo enyika, kupisa kwepasi, kana zvisingabatsiri basa. Enda kuchitoro pamwe chete uye kurukurai zvirongwa zvekubatana manheru. Uye kunyange zviri nani - dzimwe nguva dzimwe nguva kuenda kumba. Rega iwe uve nenguva yako yekuzorora uye kukurukura neshamwari zvakasiyana. Kwete zvakaipa, kana panguva yezororo iwe kana mazuva mashomanana uchange uchinge wapera. Pashure pezvose, mushure mokupfupika kwenguva pfupi mukukurukurirana, kudzokera kumba pamwe chete, kaviri inofadza.