Chiratidzo chekusachena
Saka, chikumbiro chacho chakaendeswa kuhofisi yebazi, uye takaudza hama inotevera nezvechiitiko chinotevera. Chii chakatanga pano ... Nzira yacho yafambira mberi kuitira kuti tisingakwanisi kuidzorera zvakare: zvirevo zvisingambofungidziki uye mafungiro akawira kubva kuhama dzavo. Kana tisati takurukura nekugadzirwa, iye zvino nekubatsirwa kwemasikana, vanababa, vanamainini, vanamunini, nezvimwe, vakaenda kune zviito zvakananga!
Muchato usingakanganwiki wemukadzi wemazuva ano wakatanga nekutsvaga mbatya. Chii chaunosarudza? Ndakagadzirisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu: kutanga, jasi harizove rakachena, cream kana champagne, uye rwechipiri, hapana chifukidziro: hachina kupfupika, kana ari pakati, kana hake - kwete, iniwo ndiri "chiratidzo chekusarurama"! Ndakasarudza chipfeko nemurume wangu (pasinei nekuti izvi ndezvakaipa). Takauya kumuchato wekutanga wekuroorana pamufambiro wedu, uye ndakasarudza jasi randakabva ndadanana naro: chaive chinyoro chendarama chaiye uye mavara akanaka pajasi uye chitima chechina. Zvadaro ndaive nechokwadi kuti ndiedze pane chifukidziro, ndakanga ndiri "zvishoma" ndakaputsika, asi ndakabvumirana - yakanga yakanaka kwazvo uye yakanyatsokodzera zvakapfekedzwa, uye ipapo zvishongo zvegadziro zvakatorwa. Saka, ndakanga ndakagadzirira kuenda kuhofisi yekunyora.
Uye saka, mune chiroto chemuchato ine bvudzi rakanaka uye chifukidziro pamusoro wangu ini ndiri kumirira bhetiro yangu. Tamada, asati amhanya kuzosangana nomukati uye "hama" dzake, akakwanisa kudanidzira achiti: "Hei, pindai pachigaro!" Mwari, chigaro chei, chii chinofanira kuva? Noa akateerera. Muwani wangu asina kuchena akavhiringidzika - akapinda mukamuri ndokumira pasuo pane kuuya kwandiri uye "achidzikinura", ndaifanira kutaura zvakananga kuti akanditora, mudzimai wake weramangwana, kubva pachigaro. Mushure mokumwa mambuka, isu takabva tabuda kunze kweimba, nokuti takanga tatotanga. Panguva yekupenda, ndakagumburwa uye ndisingakwanisi kuisa pfungwa, ndakaedza kuteerera izvo mushandi webazi rekunyora akanga achititaurira, asi pfungwa dzangu dzaigara dzichinyangarika pane imwe nzvimbo, zvakanaka kuti mubvunzo wakakosha "Unobvumirana here?" Aiva nenguva yekunzwa uye kupindura zvakanaka.
Apo patakaisayina uye tishandurudza zvindori, iyo nguva chaiyo apo "hama dzinochema" dzauya kuzokwazisa isu zvakauya. Ipapo ndakaona kuti izvi zvose zvinokakavara zvaisava pasina, panguva ino zvakange zvakafanira kuisa panguvo, yakafanana nekeke, chifukidziro, uyewo kukwanisa kuedzwa nehombodo dzakakwirira-heeled. Zvakanga zvichiitika zvakanga zvakafanana nekurota: kutamba-famba muguta, kutamba, kufadza, kukudzwa, maruva, zvipo - uye zvose zvakaguma nevana mangwanani.
Chiratidzo cherudo nemvumo
"Saka chii chakachinja mushure memuchato?" - shamwari dzangu dzakawanda dzakandibvunza. Ndinogona kupindura! Mubvunzo uyu ndewekutevera: hapana chinogona kuchinja kana vaviri vacho vasingadi kutongesa ukama hwavo. Tiri kurarama panguva apo vanhu vari kuedza kuita zvinhu zvishoma zvakakosha semhuri, hukama pakati pevakaroorana, munhu wese anokoshesa rusununguko, rusununguko, uye Mwari haarambidzi, kana mumwe munhu akapindira pane rusununguko. Ndakakurira maererano nemitemo "yekare": Ndinofanirwa kuva mudzimai, kwete musikana anosangana nemurume uye nguva yehupenyu uye zvino, uye, kana "tisingawirirane nevanhu", zvichida tinogona kugovana.
Ndinogona kutaura kuti zvinonakidza pavanokuidza iwe kwete "musikana wangu" asi mudzimai wangu, zvakanaka kuti uone pamin'i yako yorudyi ruoko rhete - "chiratidzo cherudo uye kubatana", zvakanaka kuti utakure zita romurume uye kazhinji zvakanaka kuti uone hama dzinofara dzaive vachitarisira chaizvo nguva ino uye vanofara nesu!
Muganhu mutsva
Mhemberero yemuchato inokosha zvikuru. Icho chimiro chemuganhu iwoyo chinoparadzanisa nyika yevasikana vasina hanya kubva mubasa rekukura. Munhu anoita kuda, kutarisira uye kuramba akatendeka kune uyo waanosunga naye zvaanoda. Nokuunza iyi mhiko kwaari uye kune avo varipo pamuchato kuhama dzake neshamwari, munhu anochinja mafungiro ake emukatikati, anotora mitsva mitsva pamberi pevanhu vanokosha kune avo vachatofanira kupindura kana pane kukanganisa kwemhiko iyi. Mushure mezvose, kuroorana inzvimbo yehupfumi, uye kukosha kwemuchato wemitambo nenzira dzakawanda kunotarisana nevanhu.
Maonero akafanana
Zvakakosha kugadzirira mhemberero yemuchato: kusona kana kutenga chipfeko kumwenga, kusarudza nzvimbo yekupemberera, kunyora urongwa hwevaenzi. Iyi inzira inotora nguva nekudzokorora zvakare chinangwa chayo.
Kukurukurirana nyaya dzezuva nezuva, chikomba nemwenga vanofananirana kune umwe neumwe, edza kuita maonero akafanana, mhinduro yakabatanidzwa yematambudziko, iyo inoratidziro yemasvingo ehupenyu hwemhuri.
Zvechokwadi, kuyeuka kwemhemberero yemuchato kunochengeterwa kwemakore mazhinji, uye apo vana vakaberekerwa mumuchato uyu vanokura, zvinokosha kwazvo kuti vazive kuti "iyo" yaiva sei nababa nababa.