Sei uchibhabhatidza mwana?
Kubva pamaonero echiKristu, pane chikonzero chimwe chete chekugamuchirwa kweSakaramende yekubhabhatidzwa - kutenda kwechokwadi. Zvimwe zvinangwa izvi pano zvinogona, kana zvakanakisisa, zvichienda, asi kwete kuzvitsiva. Somuenzaniso, hazvibvumirwi kubhabhatidza mwana nekuda kwefashoni kana kushivirira kwehama, kana vabereki ivo pachavo vasati vagadzirira kuita danho iri.
Kusarudza zita rekubhabhatidzwa
Chechi yeRussian Orthodox inopa avo vachangobva kubhabhatidzwa mazita evatsvene vasati varemekedzwa. Izvi zvakaitwa kuitira kuti muKristu muduku ave nebhuku rake romunamato uye munyengeteri ari pamberi paMwari. Kazhinji kunyange musati wabhabhatidzwa, zita rechecheche rinosarudzwa uye kuwanikwa kwayo kunoongororwa nevatsvene veOrthodox.
Asi dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti vabereki vari kudzingirira shure kwekutanga uye vanosarudza zita remwana asiri uye harina kumbove mukereke yekereke. Pano ikozvino zvakakosha kuti tibvunze munhu anopupura uye kutora zita reOrthodox, rakakodzera maererano nekushandira pamwe uye mune zvinoreva. Zvinowanzosarudzwa ndeyeiye munhu wekudenga uyo anoyeuka kupembererwa nguva pfupi mushure mekuberekwa kwemuKristu wechidiki.
Zuva iri rinopembererwa nenzira inokosha. Inonzi "Zita Zuva". Vabereki vanofanira kureurura uye kutora chidyano pazuva rino, kuti vaone kubatana kwavo neChechi.
Kusarudza Mwariparents
Iwe haugoni kusarudza kutora chero chinhu, maererano nekupa kwavo, hukama hwevanhu kana hunofadza panguva yemabiko. Yeuka kuti basa guru revanamwarikadzi vachave vachinyengeterera mwana, vachiedza kumumutsa mukutenda kweOrthodox. Iyo godfather pachayo inofanirwa kunge yakanyanyisa zvechitendero uye yevanhu vanotarisirwa nekuda kweizvi.
Nokuda kwekuita kwakakodzera kana kusakodzera kwemabasa avo, ivo vachaita, maererano neBhaibheri, vanopindura kuna Mwari zvisati zviri pasi pevana vavo. Kana vanamwarikadzi kana vabereki kana vasina ruzivo mudzidzo yeOrthodox yemwana, vanofanira kunge vachida kukurukura nemupristi.
Muitiro wekuparidzira kukurukurirana kwave kwenguva refu uri chikamu cheChechi yeOrthodox uye yava kuda kuita chikamu chekugadzirira kwegore rekubhabhatidzwa. Nokudaro, munhu anofanira kunge akagadzirira kuti vanamwarikadzi kana vabereki vanozvarwa vachakoka kakawanda kukereke kuti vataure pamusoro penheyo dzekutenda kweOrthodox.
Kubva pane izvi zvinotevera kuti hazvibviri kusarudza vasina kubhabhatidzwa, vasingatendi Mwari, vateveri veimwe chitendero nekureurura kwechiKristu. Haisi tsika yekubhabhatidza mwana mumwechete nevakaroorana. Zvisinei, iyi inguva inonakidza.
Kazhinji basa revanamwari vanosarudzwa nehama dzepedyo dzinogara kune imwe mugumo wenyika. Vanowanzoshanyira mwana, kunyange christening dzimwe nguva inogona kuuya kwezuva rimwe chete. Kuita sarudzo yakadai, funga: vabereki vakadaro vanogona sei kumutsa mwana wenyu?
Pano panewo mashura akawanda pamusoro pedzimwe sarudzo dzekambani, dzakawanda dzadzo dzisingabvi pane chero chinhu. Chechi hairambidzi musikana asina kuroora kubhabhatidza musikana wacho kutanga. Hapana zvachose chakaipa kuburikidza nekubhabhatidza vana vehama dzepedyo ivo vana vamwari vemwana wenyu. Panguva imwe chete, hapana "kuparadzana". Iwe unogona kuva mwarikadzi kune imwe yehama dzomwana, kunze kwevabereki vake.
Ingofanirwa kuchengeta mupfungwa kuti musikana anobvumirwa kuva mwarikadzi kubva 13, uye mukomana - kubva pamakore gumi nemashanu. Asi, maererano nemitemo yenyika, zviri nani kusarudza godfather wezera rakadai kuti aikwanisa kufanana nemamiriro emubereki. Izvi zvichaita basa rechokwadi rokudzidzisa godson.
Chii chingaunza kuchechi
Zvichienderana nezera rechecheche, ndiani achabhabhatidzwa, auye nebhapati yebhapatidzo kana yezhonku, diaper kana tauro. Vanoda, hongu, uye muchinjikwa. Kana iwe usati waronga kuutenga mutemberi, saka panguva yekubhabhatidzwa kwekubhabhatidzwa kunofanira kucheneswa. Zvakakosha kuve nechokwadi chokuti muchinjikwa unogadzirwa maererano nemitemo yeChechi. Kana muchinjikwa wakatengwa muchitoro chechechi, hapana chakafanira kuitwa nacho.
Mipiro
Mipiro ipi zvayo, kusanganisira temberi, yakapiwa mukushanda kweSakramente, inonyatsozvidira. Uye mari yacho, yakadanwa muchitoro chechechi, inofananidzira. Saka, kana mari iyi isingagoni kumira, ingoenda kuna abbot, uye zvichida iye anobvumirana kuita yeSaramendi pasina mari.
Asi, tisati taita izvi, zvakakosha kuti tifunge kuti zvipo zvakakumbirwa zvinopfuura kudhura kwetafura yemutambo. Yeuka kuti kakawanda tinopa sei kutemberi muupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Zvadaro sarudza, unoona here kuti zvakakodzera kuramba uchivapo kwechechi ino. Icho chinobva pamipiro yako yokuzvidira iyo hupenyu huno hunoenderana.
Pakuguma, chiitiko chakadaro sekubhabhatidzwa chinoitika kamwe chete muhupenyu hwevana vedu. Uye mumatambudziko ayo, hama dzose, kusanganisira cronies, dzinotora chikamu chinoshanda.
Nguva yekubhabhatidzwa
Sekutonga, tsika dzakadaro dzechechi dzinoitwa musi weMugovera neSvondo. Uyewo pane imwe kereke mazororo. Kana iwe uchida kubhabhatidza mwana pane imwe zuva, iwe unofanirwa kutaurirana nemupristi kana mushandi wepembere mberi. Izvi zvinogonawo kuitwa pafoni yechechi umo iwe unoda kubhabhatidza mwana. Kune temberi mune maSaramende ebhabhatidzo anoitwa zuva rega rega.
Nguva yekutanga kwechiristening inotsanangurwa nguva pfupi panguva yekushanda. Zviri nani kuuya nguva isati yasvika kuti uwane nguva yekunyora chiremba, nyora kubhadharekodhi rerekisi, sarudza muchinjikwa, nezvimwewo. Zuva reSadamente harigamuchirwi! Saka iwe hauzomiririra zvakanyanya muprista, vangani vanokutevera vanoda kubhabhatidzwa. Uye zvino pangava nevana vaduku zvikuru.
Zvaunofanira kuita mushure mokunge wabhabhatidzwa
Kufanana nemitambo yose, rubhabhatidzo ine mitemo yake pachayo. Semuenzaniso, shure kwake, munguva yemberi iri pedyo, unoda kugamuchira iwe uye kugamuchira kuyanana kwechecheche. Vana vane makore pasi pemakore manomwe vanogamuchira kudya kunze kwekugadzirira. Uye vamwe vakuru vanoda kutaurira vanamwarikadzi nezvekugadzirira Kugadzirira. Izvi zvichabatsira nguva dzose vashandi vetemberi.
Yeuka kuti rubhabhatidzo ndeye kutanga kwoupenyu hwechiKristu. Kubva panguva iyo, mukana wakanga wakasununguka kuti uende kune mamwe magwaro eSaving saKereke. Shandisa iyo kuchengetedza mweya yenyu.