Muchipa wemhudzi wakafanana nemukurumbira
Pakutanga inonzwisiswa sehokwe, uye ikozvino zvakaitika kuti iyi haisi kungoita rally, asi rudzi rutsva rwebhizimisi. Zvinowanzoitika kuti amai vanogona pane chimwe chikonzero kana imwe nzvimbo yekutengesa kune bhengi remari uye vachizvimirira vanoita chisarudzo pamusoro pekuonekwa kwevana remangwana. Uye sei kutsanangura zvaunofarira? Mumwe munhu anonyanya kutsvaga kutaridzika kwechinhu chako chaunofarira nyeredzi. Mushure mezvose, runako rwekunze runogona kuita basa rakanaka mune dzimwe nzira dzemabasa. Kune rumwe rutivi, kunewo mukana wekukakavadzana mumweya we "Ndakarayira Timberlake neni." Nzira iyo basa rinoshanda sei: mushanyi wepaiti inogona kusarudza kubva pakurongwa mazita anozivikanwa ezviratidzo zvake zvepabonde. Iyo kombiyuta inogadzirisa chikumbiro ichi uye inokonzera mibvunzo kune varume vanopa mari vanove nekunze kwakafanana kune nyeredzi (chiyero chekufananidza chinokera kubva 50 kusvika 100%). Mutsamba pane mazita akadai saEria Wood, Vin Diesel, Tom Hanke, David Beckham, Colin Farrell, Justin Timberlake. Mukufananidza, pane kutengeserana kwakanyanya mu "zvinhu" zvakadai se "mwana mufananidzo" kana kubvunzurudzwa kwezwi nemunhu anopa. Zvichida, izvi zvitsva hazvirevi kutengesa chete: shure kwezvose, vanhu vose ndevamwe vakasiyana, uye nyeredziwo. Uye zvakadini kutengesa kwekushambadzira kunofanirana nevabereki vanogona kubva pane zvakanakira maonero - tichaona.
Mazororo evana vakakurumbira haachazivikanwi
Kwenguva yakati yaive yakakurumbira kuchinja zuva rekuberekwa kwevana mukuratidzira kwezvingaitika zvehombodo yemubereki: vana "kutasva" pamakumbo ehelicopters, kukwereta kweawa yeawa-mini-zoo, kurayira kwekukoka kwekugadzirwa uye studio rekurekodha yehurukuro yemimhanzi. Zororo revana rakashandurwa rikava sangano rezvemagariro evanhu nekuda kwevabereki vanokosha makumi ezviuru zvemadhora. Yakazosvika pakurega kuti yakanga isingakoshi kupa zvipo pamazuva akadaro ekuberekwa. Iyi mafashoni yakakurumidza kupararira pasi rose, asi panguva yepasi rose dambudziko rezvemari yakatanga kutarisa isina kukodzera. Mukuwedzera, vabereki vakaziva kuti hovha yevana ndeyemasipireti, mabhora, zvipo nemitambo. Asi hurumende haisi kurega: mahofisi ezororo ari kutambura kuchengetedza fashoni inodhura ine chic "matinees". Vanotanga mapoka evanhu vasina kukodzera - uye vanozviparidzira. Semuenzaniso, munguva ichangopfuura, sangano reAustralia kuronga mazororo Mavonevents pamusana wekurira kwepamusoro pemafungiro e heroines e "Zvepabonde neGuta" ave akapa "chigadzirwa" chitsva chevasikana - zuva rezuva re spa. Iboka revasikana pamuchena uye pink rinousine inotorwa zuva rose kune spa inokosha yevana. Mudzimai mumwe nomumwe wechidiki anopiwa ruvara rwepiniki uye bvudzi rebvudzi. Mu "purogiramu" yezororo iyi inosanganisira lavender foot washing ne rose petals, masikisi ebiso necocoa uye makomkomera, kuputika kwemisumini, manicure, pedicure, mutsindo wevhudzi, kugadzira, cocktail neye strawberries. Mutungamiri wesangano reShivoyi Matthews anobvuma kuti: "Zvechokwadi, izvi hazvirevi kutarisira-spa. Vakadzi vaduku vanoda kuedza basa rakanaka remuenzaniso. Iyo yezororo inobatanidza uye inofadza nemitambo uye varaidzo. " Limousine - hongu, iri mune kate, kunakidza-zvakare, asi iye zvino chete mutsara. Uye izvi zvose zvinonyanya kuzvininipisa kudarika helicopter ride, pamwe nekukodha zoo. Sezviri pachena, kubvumirana kwakawanikwa.
Baba ndivo mubereki anoshingaira
Mubereki anoshingaira - mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, izwi rinoshandiswa kureva kuti ndiani anoshandura diapers, anomuka usiku kumwana, anomutungamirira kune vanachiremba uye kazhinji anotungamirira mhuri apo mubereki wechipiri anowana mari yekurarama. Iye zvino amai nababa vaigara vachitanga kushandura mabasa: kubva pane zvisati zvamboitika, nhau yababa "yekurera vana" inotanga kuva hukama hwevanhu. Chikonzero chekuchinja kwemasimbudziko ibha: muhutano huripo huripo, uyo akadzivirira kushungurudzwa kwematambudziko mabasa uye pane dzimwe nguva munhu uyu ari mumhuri anoshanduka kuva mukadzi. Hazvizivikanwi kuti tsika itsva ichakanganisa sei kugoverwa kwebasa repabonde mumhuri. Chinokosha ndeizvi: kwekutanga munguva yakareba mapapa ari kushingaira mukurera vana - uye vanowana mukana wekuva nehana yakadzama yekubatana navo.
Kuberekwa: nguva ndeyemari
Izvi hazvisi mafashoni, asi kuzviona kwemhuri yemubereki, kunyanya blogosphere. Pane imwe nguva yapfuura, kutevera nguva refu kwakataridzirwa sechinhu chakakosha kuti chibudiriro chakanaka checheche, uye nekuda kwehutano hwaamai kunyanya. Iye zvino tiri kutaura pamusoro pezvakawanda zvakanyanyisa nguva dzakatadza: vakadzi vazhinji vanosarudza hafu yegore yekuyamwisa sechinhu chisarudzo, kuvhiringidza ivo pachavo uye kuremekedza mwana. Zvikonzero zvechiitiko chacho zvinowanzoenderana nekuchinja mumusika wevashandi.
Helikopter-inofanotaura zvishoma munguva yakapfuura
"Helicopter parenting" musangano wemubereki, icho chinonyanya kukoshesa kutarisira kunoitwa mwana uye kushanda mune remangwana riri kure. Kazhinji, kutaura kwe helikopter kunonzi gujeri re rudo rwevabereki, rinorondedzerwa sechido chinonyanyisa chokugadzirisa hupenyu hwemwana. Mushure mezvose, mwana akanyoreji kuunivhesiti yekusarudzwa kunoitwa nevabereki vanofanira kufanana nechinangwa chevabereki nemisungo midiki. Asi chaizvoizvo ane kodzero yekusarudza, kupi uye kune ani kwaari kuti adzidze nekushanda mumakore makumi maviri. Saka, vabereki vane hanya nehutano hwemagariro ehutano hwevana vanobva vasiri fashoni.
Dzidzo geeks haisisiri yakakodzera
Kushingaira kwevabereki vemhuri pamusoro pekushanda kwekutanga kwevana, marudzi ese ekuvandudza maitiro uye vadzidzisi vecheche munyika yose akawira pasi zvinoshamisa. Sangano iri zvishoma nezvishoma rinodzokera kukutenda kuti mwana anogona kunyatsodzidziswa chete kana aibva nokuda kweizvi, mupfungwa uye mumuviri. Chimwe chinopesana pamusoro pekudzidza misha yepamusha. Zvichida zvikonzero zvekuti vose vawane mukurumbira wekudzidziswa - mukusava nekunetseka kwe "public institution". Chinonyanya kukosha cheEU ndechekuti mwana haafaniri kupfeka mahara, uye vabereki vanodzidza nezvekudiwa kwake kuenda kuchivanze pane kufamba kwemuviri, maziso uye zviratidzo zvekutaura. Panguva ino, zvechokwadi, zvakaoma kuti mhuri yemubereki isunge muitiro wakadaro muhupenyu hwavo chaihwo: maamai emazuva ano uyebaba vari kushingaira uye vasati vakagadzirira kunyadziswa kwevanhu. Asi kune iko kakatova nemaitiro akajeka ekugadzirisa matanho.
Kurambidzwa kwekudziviswa
Iyo mafashoni matsva mukugadzirisa vana "inobvumirwa". Icho chikonzero, somuenzaniso, usati waita dambudziko, kana mwana akakwira mumuhara, achiona purofirimu yepabonde, achipinda muchero wevabereki kana kupika kusvibiswa. Izvo zvinotyisa, asi vatsigiri varo vanoti: ngatiti tive nechokwadi, mwana anoita zvakafanana nevabereki vake, anotora unyanzvi hwekuita mumhuri yake uye nezvakatipoteredza. Ipa muenzaniso wakanaka - uye mwana achakopa zvakanaka. Icho chiito hachina kururama kune chimwe chikonzero. Mukufunga kwepfungwa, kune paradigm iyo inonzi neurosis inomira kudiwa. Kana mwana akaratidza kufarira kwakanyanya pane chimwe chinhu, chiitiko chinoshamisa kana chinorambidza vanhu vakuru chinogona kuita kuti chido ichi chive chechokwadi uye chinorwadza.
Kudzokera kune ramangwana: kudzokera kune tsika dzepamutemo
Chiitiko chacho chinosanganisira zvinhu zviviri: imba dzevanhu vakaroorana nevana zvakangoerekana dzarasikirwa nehanya uye rusununguko rwekusununguka. Izvo zvinofashisa zvino kuti vana vanoberekwa mushure me "tamputi mupasipoti" uye muchato. Sezviri pachena, mharaunda yevabereki vanochengetedza vana vavo kubva pangozi yenhamo. Uye mutemo wekare "Hatina hupfumi kutenga zvinhu zviduku" zvakadzokera kumashini, pamwe chete neukama hwepamutemo. Makore gumi apfuura, high-tech magurachair kwema1000 madhora aifungidzirwa sefumi yevapfumi. Nhasi, izvi zvinogadziriswa zvinonzwisiswa semhuri yemhuri, iyo inoisa kuberekwa kwevana vaduku uye kusikwa kwemhuri yakasimba. Nzira yechitatu yekuita ndeyechido chekupa vana dzidziso yakazara yechitendero, pasinei nekutenda kwega kana kutenda kwevabereki pachavo. Izvi zviri kuitika, zvichida nokuti vabereki vanoda mafungiro ekufananidzira uye efilosofi ekukurukurirana maitiro anokosha nekusimudzira vanhu mukati mevana. Mushure mezvose, fashoni inouya uye inoenda, uye zvakadai zvekusingaperi semutsa, rudo uye mutoro unoramba uripo.