Zvinongofanira kutora matanho ekuti achakubatsira kuita zvidzidzo, kunyange kure, uyewo kuchengetedza ukama hwekuvimba nemwana wako. Iro zano rechiremba wepfungwa richakubatsira iwezvi.
Chokutanga, unofunga kufunga nezvekuita nevana musipo kwako kana usina nguva yakakwana. Vana, kunyanya vachiri kuyaruka, zvakaoma kushivirira kusurukirwa uye kusuruvara - saka pedyo nekambani yakaipa, zvinhu zvinotyisa. Mukusununguka kubva kuchikoro chechikoro kana kuchikoro uye kuita basa rechikoro, mwana anokwanisa kushanyira mugs kana zvikamu zvemitambo. Une nguva yekuenda naye ikoko here? Saka regai hama dzibatsire! Vanasekuru naambuya, vanamainini, vanamunini kana vana vakwegura havafanire kusiya vabereki vavo pasina rubatsiro rwakakodzera. Kana iwe uri pamba, asi mabasa epamba haakupi mukana wekutamba kana kutaura nemwana, zvingaita zvakanaka kukumbira rubatsiro. Regai aite basa rakakosha zvikuru-kunyanya kukosha, pedo newe. Hapana chinounza pamwe chete sebhizimusi rinobatana. Uyezve, zvakajeka zvikuru kutaura pamabasa.
Chechipiri, usaparadza mwana. Vabereki vakawanda vanonzwa vane mhosva nekupa nguva shoma yevana vanotanga, sekutaura, "kubhadhara" nezvipo zvinodhura. Ichi hachisi chinhu chinokuvadza-kunyange ngozi! Achinjairira mamiriro ezvinhu aya, mwana achawana kuzadzika kwezvose zvaanoshuva semabasa ako akajeka uye achazvitora zvishoma. Iye zvino fungidzira zvichazoitika kana kamwe kamwe iwe usingagoni kuzadzisa imwe nguva? Kutendeseka, kukosha kwejodzi kwakaoma kuongorora! Mukudzika kwemweya, mwana wese anonzwisisa: kwete zvose zvaanokumbira, anoda uye anobatsira. Kuwedzerwa zvinoda - kuedza kusingazivi kwevabereki nekuda kwekudzidzisa kushandiswa.
Chechitatu, usaita zvipikirwa zvisingaoneki. "Nhasi handigone kutamba hockey tafura newe, asi ini ndichazviita zvirokwazvo mangwana," kazhinji mazwi akadaro anobva kumitauro yavo. Asi pano inouya mangwana uye iwe wakanonoka kubasa, iwe une nguva shoma yevana, saka, mushure mokunge uchisvika kumusha, unowana zvinhu zvakawanda zvinokurumidza, uye zvakasimuka ... Uye zvino usiku hunouya runyararire. Uye mwana akamirira. Kana izvi zvichidzokorora kakawanda, mwana wako anongorasikirwa nerutendo kwete chete nevabereki, asiwo muchokwadi uye mukururamisira.
Chimwe chirevo: usanyanya kukosha kumashoko omwana akadai "Ndinokuvenga." Vana havasi kureva izvo zvinowanzoreva nemashoko aya. Vanongoda kukuita kuti uzvidemba zvaakaitwa.
Nguva dzose uwane nguva, nondo kana iwe uine zvishoma zvayo, uye ushingi hwokupindura mibvunzo yakajeka zvakare. Yeuka kuti kana ukaedza kudzivisa kukurukurirana kwakadaro, mwana achange achiri kuwana ruzivo rwaanoda, somuenzaniso, mumugwagwa kana paInternet. Hazvisi zvakaoma kufungidzira kuti maonero akatsauka ezvinhu zvakawanda zvakaoma zvinogona kuumba sei!
Usafunga kuti zvingava zvinonakidza zvikuru kuti mwana arambe ari pasi pekuchenjerera kwako. Anodawo kuzvimiririra. Simbisa kukosha kwounyanzvi mwana akawana pamusoro pekudiwa kwekugara pamba chete - zvirokwazvo, kukwanisa kushandisa microwave kana chefu yegasi nguva dzose inobatsira.
Chinhu chikuru hachirevi nguva yakashandiswa pamwana, asi nzira yaunopedza nayo. Chero imwe miniti imwechete pamwe, shandisa zvakanaka. Itai kuti ihurukuro yemoyo-ye-moyo kana mutsara mutsva wekubatana, kutarisa firimu inofadza kana kutora kufamba mune imwe nzvimbo yakatarisana. Yaiva zuva zuva here? Tanga kufamba! Nditende, zviratidzo zve mbatata yakabikwa kana shish kebab yakabikwa uye idyiwa mumamiriro ezvinhu pamwe chete nevabereki ichagara nokusingaperi mukuyeuka kwomwana, pamwechete nekuonga kwenguva yakareba yakapedzwa! Pazuva rechando, kuronga kuputika kana kuputika, kutamba machechi echando kana kutema shongwe yechando - uye inobatsira hutano, nekusimbisa ushamwari hwemhuri!
Uye, pakupedzisira, usazvizvidza iwe nekuda kwekusakwanisa kupedza nguva yakawanda nemwana wako. Ingoita kuti anzwe rudo rwako, ratidza rukudzo pamanzwiro ake uye zvakaitika. Caress, mutsa, ruramisiro, ushamwari hunoita, kukwanisa kuteerera uye kutsigira munguva yakaoma inofanira kuva shamwari dzako dzakatendeka munyaya yekurera munhu anokura.
Tinotarisira kuti iwe uchatora mazano echiremba wepfungwa kuvabereki vane nguva shoma yevana, asi vanoda kutsvaga mubato rekudzidzisa mwana wavo.