Uye mutsetse uyu haugoni kunzi kusakarurama: zvechokwadi, kugara uchigara mune rimwe boka, uko pasina mamiriro ekuratidzira kwegodo, uye zvikonzero zvekuitika kwayo - mashoma, hazvisi nyore kune umwe neumwe wevatori vechikamu. Uye, zvisinei, chiitiko chekufungidzira kwehutano hwehukama pakati pemurume nemudzimai huri kuramba husina hanya: munenge kese kambani kune mienzaniso yakawanda yerudo rwakasimuka pakati pevashandi veimwe dhipatimendi.
Ndezvipi zvinetso zvingavepo?
Dambudziko guru muhukama hwakadaro harifaniri kukanganisa nekuongororwa kweumwe wevamwe vashandi kune imwe. Uye kana mukadzi ari muhofisi achigona kuzvibata pachivande, asina kupa chero ruregerero kune uyo agere akagara, zviito zveanoda muhofisi zvinogona kuonekwa nemeso asina kujeka. Chii chinosiyanisa murume kubva kune vamwe vashandi, achingova netsitsi kune mushandi anofadza?
Chokutanga pane zvose, kuziva kuti murume kune waanoshanda naye ari murudo nyore, kana iwe ukanyatsocherechedza nguva yaanoenda naye. Pamasangano akasungirirwa emakambani, iye achanyatsogadziriswa kuti aone nyaya yekugomera kwake, kana zvakananga pedyo nayo. Panguva imwe chete iye achaedza nenzira dzose dzisingakwanisi kuratidza manzwiro ake pachena: haanoiti kumukoka kuti atambe, asi iye ndiye achava iye wokutanga kuzadza gentlemanly cup. Kuti aone mukadzi wake anodikanwa kumba, zvakare, kazhinji haazonzi, asi achanyatsoongorora kuti anouya kumba asingabvumirwi. Kana iye akazoziva kuti mhepo inopisa mwoyo yemoyo wake haisi kuenda kumba mushure mekupedzisira kwekabatanidzwa kwevamwe vezvematongerwo enyika, uye zuva rinotevera iye achaonekwa mukunetseka kwakanyanya muhofisi. Kunze kwekuti hazviitiki nguva dzose munightclub imwechete sezvaiye, iyo yakatozadzwa nemashiripiti emufaro wakafara, ichakwanisa kuratidzira kune waanoshanda naye kuti unofadza sei maonero ake kwaari.
Uyezve, kunyange mushure mekunge kazhinji katsvoda kutsvoda kana kutaura kwechokwadi, murume ane rudo muhofisi anotya kuratidza pachena manzwiro ake kubasa. Iyi hukama hwemurume kakawanda kazhinji yakakonzera kunonoka pakutanga kwehukama hwakakomba uye hurefu kwenguva refu. Dambudziko harisi kuti usiku mubhukadhi murume anongoratidzira mumwe wake. Zviitiko zvake zvakanyanya kukosha: kuva nguva dzose pasi pekutarisa kwemajeri evanhu vose vane nzara yezviitiko zvinofadza, anongoda kuchengetedza nzvimbo yake yega, izvo zvinoita kuti rudo kunyanya ruve nyore. Izvo zvinhu zvose zvinoenderana nemukadzi pachake: kana akacherechedza paari pachake maonero anoteerera aanoshanda naye, kunyatsoteerera kwezvaanoita uye chido chenguva dzose chekuve pane imwe nzvimbo pedyo naye, zvino nokuda kwekuvandudzwa kwehukama hunofanira kuita chinhu chimwe bedzi: kutaura naye, kutanga pachake tsitsi kana kusatenda kwaari.
Ndezvipi zvimwe zvekusiyanisa murume akadaro mukambani kubva kune vamwe vashandi?
Zviri nyore: anogara achifarira zvinhu zviduku zvese, zvakabatana noupenyu hweakasarudzwa pamwoyo wake. Maitiro evanhu murudo nehofisi inowanzotarisirwa nezvinhu izvo iye pachake asina kumbofungidzira. Saka, hazvigoneki kuti achakwanisa kuvanza manzwiro ake kubva kuvanhu vose. Chimwe chezviratidzo zvinotyisa zvekuda munhu akadaro ndeyekuda kwake: iye acharamba achibvunza shamwari imwechete kuti zuva rake raenda sei, bvunza chii chinotevera purojekiti yake. Uye, sezvo uine shungu, uyo waunoshanda naye achaziva zvose zvirongwa zvebasa zvemu mushandi uyo akamufadza uye anoedza kumudzivirira zvakanyanya sezvinobvira kubva pakuora mwoyo. Kwaari, anokwanisa kushinga asingatauri chete mazano anodiwa, asiwo rubatsiro rwakakomba. Murume ari murudo hausi chinhu chinonakidza kunze kwekubatana naye pane imwe purojekiti, hazvirevi iye pachake. Asi pano inonyengera dambudziko: kana chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka panguva yebasa, chigumisiro chinogona kunge chisingazivikanwi - kubva pakurasikirwa kwakakwana kwechido chake, kune kuchinjwa kwe rudo ruduku kusvika mumoto unopisa, kuvenga zvikuru.
Zvimwe zviito zvinowanzoitwa.
Izvo zviito zve murume murudo muhofisi zvakanyanyiswa nekucherechedza kwete chete kune vaanoda. Achiedza kuvanza manzwiro ake, ayo aanofunga kuti haasati aitwa nekutadza, acharatidza kufarira kwakanyanya mune zvehupenyu hweumwe neumwe wevamwe vake. Kungoenzanisa nhamba yekutaridzirwa kwakaratidzwa. Ichokwadi kuti hazvizogoni kuitika zvakakwana, asi zvinonyatsovhiringidza vashandi maererano neshoko rekuziva kuti ndiani wavanoshandira naye ari murudo. Kunyangwe zvisiri zvakaoma kuongorora sezvazvinoratidzika: nekuona. Murume ane rudo anofarira kutarisa nyaya yekugomera kwake. Kunyanya kana achifunga kuti hakuna munhu ari kumuona. Nokudaro, kana achisarudza nzvimbo itsva yebasa, iye achanyatsosarudza tafura iri seri kwechinzvimbo chaaanoda, uye pazororo neshamwari iye achasarudza nzvimbo kubva panzvimbo yekuti kusvuta kana kuti kunwa kwechikadzi chikamu chehofisi kunonyatsoonekwa.
Maitiro evanhu murudo anowanzobatanidzwa nekutya, pasinei nokuti shamwari yake yaanoda kana mutorwa, anoona muhwindo rebhazi rinopfuura, richava rake. Icho chiri muhofisi kuti kutya uku kuchave kwakajeka uye kune ngozi kune vanoyemura zvikuru maererano nehutariro hwemabasa. Uye hazvirevi kuparidzirwa kwekuvandudzwa kwehukama kana kuti kutyisidzira kubudiswa mumaziso omunhu anodiwa nomumwe munhu anobva kune vamwe, uye kwete pachedu. Dambudziko nderokufambisa nguva dzose kusava nechokwadi. Kuona mukadzi anochiva zuva rega rega, kuziva uyo waanoda uye asingaiti, kuti aongorore unyanzvi hwake uye hukama hwakanaka, uye kuchengetedza kusava nemaonero kwemaonero hakusi nyore-zvinenge zvisingaiti. Uye kusiyana nemukadzi, murume anonzwisisa izvi zvakakwana. Ndokusaka achitya. Munhu anovhunduka kazhinji anogara asina kuzviziva. Iyo inoratidzirwa nekupenya kwakatsamwa kwehasha. Kana zvinopesana - kunyemwerera kusingabvi pachiso, kufanana ne-grin kana mufaro wemwana kubva pakutenga chigamba chitsva. Asi kazhinji kacho murume anodikanwa nehofisi anoita nenzira yakanyatsodzivirirwa, kunyanya achiedza kuchengetedza pasi maitiro akawedzerwa manzwiro.