Zvechokwadi iwe nemurume wako ndizvo zvinotungamirira basa idzva revabereki uye ndapedza chikoro chekuchikoro kuchikoro chaamai nevanamangwana. Basa rakadaro hazvibvumirwi kuti rinokosha, nokuti iwe haunzwisisi chete munyaya (maitiro ekutarisira mwana achangoberekwa, kudya mai), asiwo chengetedza (nzira yekufema, kufara kurapa). Inobatsira zvikuru pakuberekwa! Zvisinei, nhasi, kuwedzera kune ruzivo uye unyanzvi, unogona kuva navatsiri vechokwadi chaivo. Kwete, hazvisi zvevanhu vanodikanwa (hazvigoneki kuti munhu achashamisika nekuvapo kwake paanenge aberekwa), asi nezvemunhu anonzi muzzle (kubva kuChirungu doula).
Oda Odena
Muna 1956, mune imwe chipatara yakawanda kwazvo muFrance, kwaive nemumwe asingakanganisi mukuru wechiremba anonzi Michel Auden, ane unyanzvi hwaisanganisira kushandiswa kwebasa. Vakakudzawo chiremba. Zvino Auden inozivikanwa kunyika yose! Akanyora mabhuku ane gumi namaviri ("Kuberekwa achifara", "Kuberekwa patsva", "Utano hwepakutanga" nevamwe), iyo yakabudiswa mumitauro 21! Asi kwete izvi chete zvakakosha zveMichel Auden. Munyika dzakasiyana, mutauro wechiFrench anozivikanwa semurume uyo, mumakore makumi manomwe, akaunza dzimba dzekushambira, makamuri ane midziyo yeimba uye ... zvidzidzo zvemukati, vakadzi, vakadanwa kuti vabatsire pakuberekwa, munguva yekuita mikukutu.
Chii chinonzi chirongo ichi?
Izwi rokuti "dula" rinoreva shamwari yepamhizha pakuberekwa, iyo yakamboberekwa, asi ikozvino inoziva nzira yekugadzirisa nzira iyi kune amai vari mberi. Uye mukadzi uyu haafaniri kuva nedzidzo yezvokurapa. Chinhu chikuru ndicho chiitiko chake chemunhu uye chido chake chekubatsira. Uye sezvo Dula anonzwisisa zvakananga chinangwa chezvose zviri kuitika, ndiye iye uyo, achibvumirana neyanyanzvi (chiremba, vanaesthesiologist, muchembere), achakuzivisa zvakanaka, "shandura" mazwi asinganzwisisiki emishonga, kutsanangura, kuchenesa. Neine mubatsiri akadaro, haungatyi kuti kana iwe uchida chinhu, vanamukoti vachange vakabatikana nomumwe mukadzi mukuberekwa. Basa remuzimbe nderokupa rutsigiro rwemweya, rwepanyama uye ruzivo kumukadzi ari kubereka. Kutaura zvazviri, muzimbe unoita basa rakanyatsobatana pakuberekwa mukadzi uye vanhu vatsva uye ... inobatsira kurwisana, kuedza kwemangwana mummai. Sei? Nekubatsirwa kweunyanzvi hwavo. Dula anoziva nzira dzekuzorora, anoziva nzira yekushandisa acupressure massage (zvose zvekuzorora uye kukurudzira kwebasa), inoratidza kuti chipi chemuviri wemuviri chinonyatsotorwa pane imwe nguva yekuberekwa kupedza marwadzo, anoyeuka nzira yekufema ... Kunyange iyo inofadza Kuchengetedza mimhanzi kunotarisira!
Chechitatu hachisi chakanaka!
Iwe unofunga kuti kana iwe uchienda pakuberekwa kwebhari, murume wako haafaniri kuvapo here? Ndinotenda, kuvapo kwe "mumwe" unhu hazviregi kuvapo kweumwe. Uye kana iwe nemudiwa wako mune zvepfungwa makagadzirira kugadzirisa kubatsirana, hapana chinokudzivisa kutora chisarudzo uye ... kutora mureza ane ruzivo, ane ruzivo kune kambani. Icho hachizove chechitatu chekuwedzera! Aiwa, mukadzi wacho haazozvitoreri, achisiya murume wako achicherechedza. Dula ichamuudza zvaanogona kukuitira pane imwe nguva kana imwe, kubvumira, kutsigira. Izvi zvinokosha zvakare, nokuti baba vekupedzisira vane hanya zvikuru! Uye nokuda kwako, uye nokuda kwechecheche yako. Chimbofunga nezvazvo uye usatsvaga zvakawanda kubva kwaari! Ndinokutendai, murume, dula, chiremba uye mhumbu, kubatwa kwakanaka kwakaratidzwa? Congratulations! Uye tinokurumidza kukuzivisai kuti kwemaawa mashomanana akawanda iwe uchava pasi pekuchengetedza kuvimbika. Dula ichabatsira kubatanidza vana vaduku kuenda kuchipfuva (uye panguva imwechete ichakuudza kuti ungazviita sei munguva yemberi), ichacherechedza maitiro ekurapa uye ... siya kusiya kudzokera kune yako yekutanga kudana, nokuti kuwirirana nomunhu uyu kuchapedza hupenyu hwose.