Mazuva ano, vakadzi vazhinji vanosiya kuberekwa kwavo kwenguva ino chete yehupenyu hwavo. Masayendisiti akaratidza kuti kutora pamuviri munguva yekupera nekuberekwa kwekuberekwa kunogadzirisa muviri wemukadzi. Pakukurudzira kwokuti unoita zvakanaka sei kumudzimai pasinei nezera rake, mutambi wenhau Sophia Loren achangodana kubereka mwana pazera remakore makumi mana. Angelina Jolie naMadonna, nyeredzi dzenguva yedu, vakatorawo vana vavo vekutanga, vachiri kutarama muzera raBalzac.
Saka, kuberekwa muzera raBalzac kunosimudza muviri wemukadzi.
Mumwe purofesa weUnited States, John Mirowski, uyo akashanda paYunivhesiti yeTexas, kwenguva yakareba akaedza kupindura mubvunzo uyu - ndeipi zvakanakisisa kubereka mwana wekutanga? Akataura humwe uchapupu hunogutsa hwokuti nguva yakanyanya kufanana yemukadzi nokuda kwekudzivirira kwekutanga hakubvumirane zvachose nemafungiro aionekwa seakarurama kare. Iyi zera, maererano nemupurofesa, makore 34. Ndiyo munguva iyi yehupenyu iyo hutano hwehutano uye hupfumi hwemukadzi hunosvika kune imwe chiyero, izvo zvinoita kuti zvikwanise kutora danho rakadaro rinotarisirwa kusvika pamwero mukuru.
Zvechokwadi, munyika dzekuMadokero, uko kuberekwa kwepakutanga uye kwepachivande hakugamuchirwi nemunharaunda, vakadzi vane shungu kwazvo pamusoro pemashoko aya. Nokuti vakadzi vezana remakore rechi21 vave vakajaira kusavimba nehutano hwakasimba pane kuchengeteka kwavo, saka saka ivo vanotanga kufunga nezvebasa, imba yavo, uye, asi pakupedzisira, asi kwete, yemhuri. Kunewo zviitiko apo mukadzi mushure memakore makumi matatu chete anowana muwani akakodzera, nguva yakakodzera yekufunga nezvemwana. Uye naizvozvo hazvifadzi kuziva kuti nguva yakakodzera yekuva amai yasara shure. Saka, hazvina kunonoka kubereka.
Ichokwadi, iyi dzidziso ine vashori vazhinji. Asi kana iwe uchifunga pamusoro pazvo, kuronga kwekuzvarwa kwekuzvarwa kwevana vekutanga hakusati kwanyanya kudarika kuitika kwakangoerekana kwaitika kunobata chiitiko ichi. Nokudaro, chero kuverengwa kwekuti kubereka mwana wekutanga ndeyeiwo mazano evatsvakurudzi, panzvimbo yevhareji vagari vemo. Mhedziso, iyo inogona kuitwa nekuvimba: haina kumbobvira yakanyanyisa kubereka, kana pane izvi kune chido chomukadzi nemukana.
Kuongororwa kweRussia kwakaitwa uye 61% yevatumi vevarume vaireva kuti makore kubvira pamakore makumi mana nemaviri kusvika makumi maviri nemasere seakakwanisa kuberekwa kwekutanga. Icho chinonyanya kukosha chezera iri, varume vanofungawo nezvehutano hwakanaka uye hutano hwakanaka hwemukadzi. Vanopopotedzana neizvi sezvinotevera: "Vakuru vezera remakore, iyo inowedzera mikana yehutachiona hwose, mukana wekuwana zvirwere zvitsva, zvirwere zvekare zvinoshanduka kuva zvisingaperi, uye izvi zvinokanganisa zvakaipa pamucheche. Kunyange zvakadaro, zvinoratidzwa kuti vana venguva refu vanongwarira uye vane tarenda kupfuura vanawo zvavo. "
Vakadzi vanobvumirana navo - 49%, vanotenda kuti "iyi ndiyo nguva yakanakisisa-uye kwete yakakurumidza kana kuti yakanyanyisa, sezvo muviri wakanyatsogadzirwa uye wakagadzirira kuberekwa kwechecheche," "iwe unotanga kuberekwa, kana iwe unogona kuponesa vechidiki."
"Zvakakosha kubereka apo mukadzi ane mukana wekuronga hupenyu hwakakwana uye huzere hwemucheche," inotaura kuti 37% yevanhu vakabvunzurudzwa vanofunga kuti makore makumi maviri nemakumi maviri nematatu kusvika makumi maviri nemakumi matatu kusvika makumi maviri nemakumi maviri kusvika makumi matatu kusvika makumi maviri nemashanu kusvika pakukodzera kuberekwa kwekutanga. Izvo ndezvezera iri kuti kuziva kwebasa rose rekuberekwa nekurerwa kwemuviri chiratidzo. Sezvo mukadzi wacho atotanga kuitika munguva ino semunhu, akawana dzidzo yepamusoro, zvinoreva kuti anokwanisa kupa mwana mune ramangwana rakanaka.
Asi kusarudzwa nguva dzose kune mukadzi, nokuti mumuviri mukuru unoitika zvisingatauriki.
Julia Sobolevskaya , kunyanya kune nzvimbo