Kazhinji vana vanoda mazano evabereki, asi havagoni kuzviwana nekuda kwebasa revakuru. Gare gare vanogona kutya kurangwa kana kuseka. Verenga zvakawanda pamusoro peizvi "zvisingaoneki" asi chinetso chakakomba chevanhu vemazuva ano pasi apa.
Chinangwa chekusurukirwa kwevana
Vana vanobva kunherera vanobva mucheche havachemi uye havachemi. Izvi ndechokuti hapana munhu anogarisana nekuchema kwavo nekuchema, uye havasati vashandiswa kupa chiratidzo pamusoro pekunetseka kwavo mumuviri kana mupfungwa. Mwana akadaro kubva mumazuva okutanga ehupenyu anoshandiswa kusurukirwa kwake, uye kunyange kana akazopinda mumhuri, hazvizovi nyore kurarama neizvi. Mwana akadaro haadikanwi uye mukuru - haanzwi sechidikanwi chekuda kweumwe munhu, sezvo asina kumbochigamuchira. Iye pachake haazive kuti sei, haadi uye anotya kuda uye kuva nehukama kune mumwe munhu.
Kana mwana wacho akakurira mumhuri, pakutanga iye haanzwi achinzwa kusurukirwa, sezvinoitwa naamai vachichema, vanomudyisa, vanomuchiva kuti amunyarare. Asi munhu muduku anodukura zvishoma nezvishoma, uye mwana anotanga kuterera kakawanda, kuti vabereki nguva dzose havasi kwaari, kuti kubva kwaari kazhinji vanodzingwa. Pakutanga inongoratidzira mwana, zvino anoedza kukwezva vabereki nekuzvikudza kana kuteerera, zvino, kana pasina chiitiko, mufambiro wakaipa.
Kana tichitaura nezveshure rekushanduka-shanduka, vana vanowanzova nemanzwiro okusurukirwa, kusava nehanya nekudanana, kunyanya kuoma pamakore mashanu kusvika ku6 (mushure mekuchikoro, chikoro, shamwari itsva, uye izvi zvingazobvisa kubatwa kwechinetso ichi). Mukuru uyu mwana anova, zvishoma paanotanga kuvimba nehama dzake, sezvaanoziva kuti kana vasingakudi kana kukuda zvakakwana, havangakupi mazano achazoenda zvakanaka. Izvi ndizvo zvikonzero zvikuru zvekusurukirwa kwevana vezera rino. Zvisinei, kunewo rutivi rwakanaka kune izvi, uye rinowanikwa mukuti mwana anotanga kuzvimirira uye kuzvimirira, anoedza kugadzirisa matambudziko ake pachedu (kunyange zvazvo kuzvimiririra kunogona kuwanikwa mune imwe nzira - kana mwana akazvirumbidza nekuvimbwa kwevabereki). Kuzvimiririra nekutadza kuzvidzora kunogona kukonzera kukanganisa kwakaipisisa kwekusurukirwa - kudhakwa kwezvinodhaka nekudhakwa. Kana munhu akangotarisa kumwana mumwe chete, anogona nyore nyore kuwira pasi pesimba romumwe munhu (zvakanaka, kana rakanaka) uye kunyange kutova nhapwa yekuora.
Isu tose tinodirana
Chido chekuva nevezera rako yekukurukurirana chinoumbwa nemakore 4-5 emakore. Vakuru vakuru havana chokwadi neushamwari hwevana: vanoti izvi hazvisi zvakakomba. Uye zvirokwazvo, kusvikira anenge makore gumi nemana vana vanowanzova nevezera ravo kubva kune chido chokutamba pamwechete, fara. Asi mukuyaruka, kune chido chekusimbisa huzivi hwavo, kunzwa hune simba ravo. Pana 12 nekure, shamwari inonyatsoziva kuti inoteerera sei, inonzwisisa, inopa mazano, inova yerudzi rwepfungwa yepfungwa. Iyo yakaenzana neshamwari iyo inokosha uye inodiwa kana ichikura. Invented kana kuonekwa mufirimu iyo yakanaka kune munhu mukuru isingakwanisiki, vanhu vakuru chaivo havanzwisisiki uye vanobatikana, kunze kwepo kune nzvimbo iri mukukurukurirana uye kazhinji zvinetso zvekuvimbana, uye shamwari uye kubudirira kwavo - pano vari. Somugumisiro, maonero evamwe vezera vanowana kukosha kukuru kwevechiri kuyaruka kudarika mwana wezuro. Zvinoreva zvakawanda kupfuura maonero evanhu vepedyo uye vane simba kune vabereki vanoyaruka.
Sei shamwari dzevechiri kuyaruka?
Mano ekuuya kununura (kutanga kwezvose), pfungwa yekuseka, ruzivo uye kushandiswa kwezvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana, pfungwa, kubudirira kwemitambo, vanhu vakuru uye kutaridzika kwechitarisiko, rusununguko, ushingi. Kana shamwari ikaratidza kusava nehanya, wechidiki angakurumidza kuwana mweya mutsva wakavhara kuitira kuti abvise kusurukirwa kwevana vake. Muchiitiko ichi, kuparara kwakakwana kwehukama ne "yekare" shamwari kana kuparadzana zvishoma nezvishoma kunogona. Izvo zvakakwirira kuzviremekedza kwevechiri kuyaruka, nokukurumidza acharamba kushivirira kusava nehanya uye kukanganisa kwe "shamwari" dzezuro dzejeri (sekutonga, mucheche iye pachake haacherecheri kuyaruka kwake). Asi mwana ane zvinetso anokwanisa kubvumira kunyange kunyomba kwechokwadi kwe "shamwari" nokuda kwekutya kuramba uri oga.
Kazhinji, varume vacho vanouya pamwe chete nechinowanzodiwa uye maonero ehupenyu, asi vari kuyaruka avo vakasiyana zvakasiyana nemunhu anogonawo kuva shamwari. Panguva imwecheteyo, vanogona kutsvaga mune humwe humwe unhu (hukama kana hukama nekutonga) izvo ivo pachavo havadi kuvakurudzira. Kushaya kwevamwe kwevamwe shamwari kunogona kutaura pamusoro pezvinetso zvakakomba zvepfungwa. Zvingangodaro, zvikonzero zvekusurukirwa hazvirevi kuti anoramba rutsva rwuri kurongwa rwekukurukurirana, asi kuti varume nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero kana zvimwe vanoramba mwana wechidiki. Kazhinji kazhinji havadi kuva shamwari nekukurukurirana nekusachengeteka, kuzvidzora, zvinorwadza kana kushaya vana. Uyewowo ane utsinye, anozvikudza kana asina hanya nezvakaitika zveboka racho. Mukomana akadaro, mushure mekunge vose vari mumasangano ega ega, vanonzwa vasina kuchengeteka uye vanoshayiwa rubatsiro, kunyanya apo vechidiki vanogona kuratidza utsinye uye kunyange utsinye kune "vakadzingwa" ivo vasiri chikamu chekambani yavo yakasiyana navo. Izvi zvinogona kukanganisa kuzviremekedza kwevechiri kuyaruka, unhu hwake uye hupenyu mune ramangwana, nokuti kukura kwehutano hwekukurukurirana uye kukwanisa kuwirirana nevanhu, uye zvakasiyana, pamwe nekukwanisa kudzivirira mafungiro evanhu zvakakosha kune vose vanogara pakati pevanhu.