Kurumbidza murume, unogona kumugumbura

Zvishoma kududzirwa kusinganzwisisiki kwemamiriro ezvinhu, asi ndizvo. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzeAmerica dzinonyevera hafu yakanaka yevanhu kuti mamwe mazwi akataurwa achiita seine moyo wakachena, nechishuvo chekuti zvinonakidza kumunhu wavo, zvinogona kukonzera kusagadzikana kwevakaipa pakati pevasanangurwa vavo. Semuenzaniso, funga nezvemamwe chete aya "mazano":


1. "Ndinokutendai, vadiwa, kuti munoda kundibatsira kuti ndichenese, asi ini ndichazviita nokukurumidza kupfuura iwe ..."

Mukadzi anoshandiswa mufekitari kana sangano rinonetsa kuchenesa imba pachake. Iri ibhizinesi rinotambudza, kuedza kuita zvose zvese nokukurumidza, hazvina kuchenjera kushandisa simba rayo. Hazvifaniri kukanganisa rubatsiro rwemurume kana achida kuita chimwe chinhu kuti akubvisei, uye kunyanya musakahadzika kukwanisa kwake kuzviita nekukurumidza Dr. Casey anotaura kuti zuva racho raive rakareba kwenguva dzose. Asi munhu anogona kufunga kuti haakufananidzi mune imwe nzira, uye kuramba kwako hakumuudze izvozvo. Zviri nani kumubata nechimwe chinhu kubva pamapiro ako akabatikana, usamira pamweya wake, uye shandisa nguva yekusununguka yekugadzirira kudya. Asi iva nechokwadi chekutenda murume wako nokuda kwechido ichi chokukubatsira.

2. "Ndiri nyore, kuti iwe wakakwanisa kugadzirisa faucet inoputika."

Nenzira imwe chete inoratidza kuratidzika kwako paaikwanisa kuita chimwe chinhu cheimba pasina rubatsiro rwemumiririri akakokwa.Christy Casey anoti kushamisika kwako kucharova dambudziko rinokonzerwa nekuzvida kwake. Varume havatsvaki madzimai avo kusava nechokwadi nevanhurume vavo "kuvhiringidzika." Vachafara kufara: "Iwe une unhu uye wakangwara, uye jack yezvinhu zvose. Ndinoona kuti ini ndakanyatsoroorana. "Kukurumbidza kwako kwehukama hwake hwakanyanyisa hucharatidza kuti haasi kungovata pamubhedha iwe.

3. "Iwe ndiwe chete munhu wandinogona kutaura naye."

Murume haadi kuve mumunhu mumwe shamwari yako, amai vangu istra. Usamuremedza iye nemitoro yakasimba kwazvo yepfungwa: "Kuva iwe chete rubatsiro rwekuita iwe kumanikidzira kukuru kwaari," anodaro chiremba wekuroorana ane chiremba uye chiremba wemhuri KarinGoldstein. Kuti uwane simba rakasimba, hazvina kukwana kutaura kuti ndiye munhu waunofarira. Edza kumuvimbisa kuti kunyange iwe uine mukana wekutaura naamai vako neshamwari panguva ipi zvayo, ndiye muterete wakanakisisa. Zvinonakidza kutaura naye. Chido chake chekubatsira kutamba pamwe nemashoko ako, kuti iwe unonyatsokoshesa maonero ake.

4. "Chipo ichi hachisi mukuravira kwangu, asi ini ndichawana kushandiswa kwayo."

Murumbidze iye nokuda kwekutarisira. Asi usatomboedza kumuudza iye kunyange kuna amai vake chipo chake chokupedzisira - mutsara waakasarudza kuDyusyasvyatogo Valentine. Mumwe murume achangobva kuputika uye anoti haazivi kuti angaita sei. "Ichava kurohwa muchiso," anodaro Goldstein. "Haazoedza kukupa chero nguva inotevera." Bvuma rupo rwemurume wako uye dzimwe nguva kupfeka chipo chake. Pamberi penyaya inotevera inotevera, unobtrusively uudze dare zvaunoda kugamuchira.

5. "Ndinoda your flabby stomach uye vyalyemuskuly."

Asi kana murume iwe zuro akanzwa kushingaira kwako kwemakumbo emutsara weRyan Gosling, anongosangana mumanzwiro uye asingazivi, kuti ave nechokwadi. Dr. Brochet anokukoka iwe kuti uudze mumwe wako kuti ndiye mudiwa akakodzera iwe uye baba vane hanya vane vana, uye kuti pamwe naye hapana kuenzanisa kwe "kupinza" nemasumbu makuru, akaisa pfungwa dzake pachake. Izvi zvichamubvumira kuti anzwisise izvo zvinonyanya kukosha kwauri, kuti zvinowirirana nezvinodiwa zvako.

6. "Iwe ndiwe wakanakisisa ..."

Murume akanaka newe ari pamubhedha, asi haadi kuziva nezveawakamboshanda naye. Iwe unorangarira kamwe kamwe varume ava uye tanga kuenzanisa. Kuti uzviratidze pachena pamubhedha, fambidzana nehutano hwepabonde, uchitora pamwe naye. Dr. Broch anokurudzira kutaura kuti iwe unofara apo anonzwa zvakanaka. Kusimbiswa muhukama hunoitwa kune wawakaroorana navo, kwete paenzaniso dzakawanda.