Hazvisi zvekuregera, semuenzaniso, kana iwe uchigadzirisa zvinorambidza chirango kana kuti usapindirana nebasa rako. Kwete, vanongoda kukubvisai. Zvichida mwana wako muduku anorwara kazhinji? Kana kuti uri kudzidza mukusaziva here? Pane kuve nekugadzirisa zvakare mukambani here? Kana kuti angangodaro boss anoda kukuona kushushikana kwako mubasa rako? Hazvina basa kuti nei iwe waida kudzingwa. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti hazvisi pamutemo.
Zvinoratidzika, mvura inonaya
Nzira isingafadzi zvikuru yekudzingwa kubva mubasa nenzira ine rugare - saka kutaura, pasina kutongwa uye kushanda. Somuenzaniso, iwe unoenda kundodya masikati, uye shure kwehafu yeawa, unowana kuti kupfuura kwako hakushandi. Chero bhosi inoshuma "iwe unodzingwa" uye unoda kuti uende panzvimbo yacho. Zvinosuruvarisa, iwe hausi inshumo pamusoro pekudzingwa kwakadaro, kunyanya kana iwe ukashanda pasina kambani yebasa. Asi kana hutungamiri huri kuronga kukudzinga kubva panzvimbo yepamutemo, zvino ichaedza kuita zvose kukumanikidza kunyora chirevo "iwe pachako". Vane masimba vane nzira dzavo dzekubvisa vashandi vasina basa. Somuenzaniso, pfungwa dzepfungwa.
Funga nezvenguva yakareba sei iwe unogona kutsungirira kugara uchinyadziswa kubva kumubatiri pamberi pevamwe pamwe chete uye pachiitiko chiduku? Uye iwe unofarira sei kana akakukumbira kuti ushande maawa anodarika kwemwedzi usati wabhadhara mubhadharo kana kuti anokurumidza kukudana kubva muzororo? Mukombe wekushivirira unokwanisa kuzadza zviduku zviduku zvevashandi pamwe chete ne "nguva dzose" yekutsvaga kwemashoko. Uye mumakambani akawanda vanofarira kuunganidza "tsvina" kune vashandi, kana zviitiko zvekutya kubviswa kwebasa nenzira inorugare "maererano neshoko" - mvura yakachena yakashata! Hongu, vazhinji vedu mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, zvichida, tinonyora chirevo chekurega basa. Nenzira, maererano nezviverengero, vanenge 43% yevanhu vaifanira kuchinja mabasa nekuda kwekusava nemafungiro ekupfungwa.
Kubatsira kunobatsira
Saka, zviratidzo zvinotyisa zvawaona munguva pfupi yapfuura hazvina kufanana nemafungiro emafungiro mumukuru. Kutaura zvazviri, kurwisana mumamiriro ezvinhu aya hakuiti kunzwisisa: kwenguva yakareba iwe haugoni kumira, saka usatora nguva uye utange kutsvaka basa idzva. Asi isu tinofanirawo kubva pane zvakarurama. Iyezvino unoda nhubu dzesimbi uye zvishoma nezvinoonekwa sezorunyararo. Edza kuramba uchiita basa rako nenzira isina kunaka uye pasina mhaka nyora chirevo "iwe pachako", kunyange kana iwe wakakurudzirwa kuita kudaro.
Yeuka , pakarepo paunonyora izvi, hauoni zvikomborero izvo zvinorayirwa nemutemo. Semuenzaniso, iwe uchaiswa pareji reImployment Center mazuva 90 chete mushure mekushandiswa uye zvipo zvichabhadharwa panguva imwe chete. Chii chinogadziriswa? Semuenzaniso, kuregera nemutsara "nechibvumirano chemapato" (Chirevo 1, Chitsauko 36 cheBhuku reBabasa reUkraine). Kuti uite izvi, unofanirwa kuumba "Chibvumirano pamusoro pekugutswa kwebvumirano yebasa," apo iwe unogona kunyora pasi mamiriro ekubvumirana pamwe.
Kuparadzana kunobhadhara mutemo munyaya iyi hakubvumirwi, asi nenzira iyi yekuparadzanisa, vatungamiri vekambani vanogona kukubhadhara bhonasi yemari. Zvisinei, zvakakosha kuti tibvumirane. Ndapota cherechedza kuti rudzi urwu rwekudzingwa kubva mubasa nenzira ine runyararo runogona kubatsirawo vatungamiri, sezvo iwe unogona kubva pakarepo kubasa kunze kwekuita kwevhiki mbiri, uye usingaiti mhosva kune kambani. Uye iwe haufaniri kubhadhara chikwereti uye basa, semuenzaniso wevashandi vanochera. Muchiitiko ichi, zvisinei, parutivi rwako-saka zvizvidzivirire iwe, utsvake zvakanaka mazano, mari yekubhadhara. Zviremera zvakaramba kutsvaka kubvumirana uye kukusangana newe? Zvakanaka, ikozvino une mamwe maviri "nharo" nharo - sangano pamwe nedare.