1. Murume ane chokuita newe ane shungu dzakasimba dzepabonde.
Zvose zviri nyore, kana iwe uchida munhu, saka iwe une mikana yese yekuve iwe unofarira. Mushure mezvose, kukwezva zvepabonde ndicho chikonzero chekutanga chekugodzana kwevanhu vaviri, asi pasina mubvunzo pane chikamu chemusanangurwa wako chido chakasimba hachisi chivimbo chokuti anokuda. Zvinyorwa zvese, kuti zvepabonde kumunhu inzira yekuzvimirira uye kugutsa kushandiswa kwekuita. Kazhinji, kana murume achitsvaka zvepabonde kubva kumukadzi, anongorasikirwa nehanya naye.
2. Murume ari kutsvaga kushamwaridzana kwemweya.
Murume anonzwa kudiwa kwokukurukura newe, mumwe munhu achishandisa foni kana ICQ. Munhu chero upi zvawo achadana, nyora, teerera iwe uye utaure zvakawanda nezvake. Vanhu vose vacharatidza zviratidzo zvakasiyana zvekutarisa kwamuri, mumwe achati mazwi ane rudo, mumwe achaita chipo chinodhura. Kana munhu ane nyota yevanhu vako, kwete muviri wako chete, anoteerera mazwi ako, maonero, unogona kutaura kuti ane rudo newe.
3. Murume anokuendesa muupenyu hwake.
Vamiririri vesimba rakasimba rine dambudziko guru regai vakadzi vave munzvimbo yavo pachavo. Uye chiito chero chipi zvacho chinoonekwa sechiedza chekusununguka kwavo. Asi kana munhu akakubatanidza iwe munguva yake, saka, pasina mubvunzo, ichi chiratidzo chorudo. Ngwarira kana achikubvumira kubika uye kushambidza tsvina yakashambidzwa, usaitora sekuratidzwa kwe rudo kubva kumurume. Izvi zvinogona kungopupurira chete kuti murume ane usimbe kwazvo kushambidza uye kushumira pachake. Uye kana munhu asingatarisi nguva yake, asi anokukumbira kuti ugare naye kwenguva refu, anokukoka kuti ugare pamwe chete, zvino anokubvumira muupenyu hwake, uye ichi chiratidzo chorudo.
4. Iwe, murume akagadzirira kupa chibayiro.
Chero kubvumirana kunoda, zvose kubva kumukadzi, zvose, uye kubva pakugadzirira kwemurume kuchinanirana kune umwe, zvimwe kubvumirana. Kana munhu achikoshesa kuvapo kwako uye ari murudo, saka nokuda kwako anogona kukanganisa zvimwe zvidzidzo, uye kubva kune shamwari dzake. Murume ari murudo anogona kupa zvibayiro zvake, nzvimbo pamakombiyuta, asi usashandise.
5. Murume ane hanya newe.
Nezvo, zvinhu zvose zviri nyore. Kana munhu akashandura kune mafungiro ako, unofara apo iwe unogona kushamisika, kudzivirira, edza kufungidzira zvido zvako, zvino ugare wakadzikama, ichi chiratidzo chechokwadi che rudo. Kana zvinhu zvose zviri pamusoro apa zvisipo, iva nechokwadi chokuti murume haana hanya newe.
6. Murume haakukuvadzi.
Murume haazokukuvadza nechinangwa. Izvo hazvingawirirani nemafambiro evanhu vari murudo, haazokushandisi. Icho chiri chokuita nehutsinye, kugara uchinyadziswa, uye kushandiswa kwesimba remuviri. Vakadzi vakawanda vanosarudza kusafuratira pane zvose zvehutsinye, kana pane kutya kutya kurasikirwa nemurume. Kurwisana kwakadaro, pakuswedera pedyo kwepanyama kunoratidza hunyoro huzhinji uye nokuda kwemaminitsi aya vakadzi vakagadzirira kukanganwa kunyadziswa uye kurwadziwa. Iva nechokwadi, kana munhu akatarisa pamisodzi yako asina hanya, saka haakudi iwe zvachose.
Usakanganwa nezvehutano hwako , nokuti chete kuburikidza nekugadzirisa, iwe unogona kuona kana murume wako achikuda iwe nemwoyo wose, kunyange kana asina kugadzirira kutaura pamusoro pazvo, kana kuti haazivi nzira yokuratidza manzwiro ake. Vimba nehuwandu hwekudzidzira kwako. Tingaziva sei kana munhu ari murudo newe kana kuti kwete murudo, tinogona, tione nezvayo zviratidzo zvitanhatu, uye, zvichishandisa ruzivo urwu, tinogona kunzwisisa kana tichigara nemunhu uyu kana kwete.