Kurwisana pamusoro pekuti kune ushamwari pakati pevakadzi, ndezvenguva refu. Pakati pezana remakore re XVII, vose vaitungamira mafirosofi eFrance vakatorwa nehurukuro ye "nyaya yevakadzi". Masayendisiti asvika pamhedziso yokuti vakadzi havasi vatorwa kune vanhu uye vanogona kuva shamwari. Zvisinei, mumaonero ezvo "nyanzvi", havasi vakadzi vose vanogona kuita izvi: mumwe munhu ane pfungwa, mumwe munhu ane dzidzo, mumwe munhu haagoni kuona munhu anokwikwidzana naye, uye mumwe munhu anofunga ushamwari hunofadza. Pamusoro peizvi, zvakangoitika, akanyora Laroshudzi: "Vakadzi havana hanya neshamwari, zvokuti zvinoita sevari kutsva mukuenzanisa nerudo." "Wuyi, ui," vakagunun'una varume veFrance vachibvumirana uye, vachifara nekunaka kwavo, vakaenda kunouraya shamwari dzakanakisisa mu duel, kunyora zvirevo pamusoro pavo uye kuvaisa mune zvikwereti zvikwereti.
VANHU VANOGONA KUITA
Nhema yehukama semhuri yeukomana chete yakaburukira mumazuva edu zvisingashanduki. Sezvo huchapupu hukuru hwe "zvisingaiti" ushamwari hwevakadzi, zvinonzi kusakwanisa kwevanasikana vasikana kuti varambe vachizvipira pamwe chete kana paine chitarisiko chemurume. Iti, ipapo hutano hwakanaka hunotanga kukwevera pahombodo, uye pamwe naye, uye hukodzwa mukona yemukomana wemukati wemukati. Uye zvino vanokanganwa pamusoro pematambudziko akabatana pamwechete, kutengesa pamwe chete, nezvimwewo.
Zvisinei, iyi nharo iri nyore kuramba. Chokutanga, kutenga, kuunganidza mukicheni nekukurukurirana nezvimwe zvaunosangana nazvo hazvirevi ushamwari. Vakadzi vanogona kuva neshamwari, shamwari, uye vanova shamwari shure kwekunge varemekedza muedzo pamwe nevateveri, mari, nezvimwewo. Chechipiri, varume vanowanzova vatwi uye kunyange vavengi, vachiwa murudo nemukadzi mumwe chete. Uye zvinoitika kuti zvikonzero izvozvi zvinotungamirira kune zvimwe zvinokonzerwa neprosaic, somuenzaniso, kukwikwidzana mumabhizimisi, nezvimwewo. Chechitatu, kurwa kwevakadzi kwemurume dzimwe nguva kunonetsa, nokuti hutano husina simba hwakaoma kudarika murume akasimba kuti awane shamwari yehupenyu. Kunyange zvakadaro, izvi hazvirevi kuti musikana wacho anobva atanga kuva vavengi, pakarepo panosvika murume uyu. Kune zviitiko zvakawanda zvekuda kuda, kufarira zvisina kufanira pakati pevamwe shamwari (tichataura pamusoro peizvi gare gare).
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinofunga kuti ushamwari hwevakadzi hunomirira muedzo, kana "nguva" dzevanhu dzinotanga kupfuura "zvepabonde". Asi ndizvo izvo vanhu vakanyatsotaura pamusoro pazvo, saka izvi ndezvokuti ushamwari hwevakadzi hwakasiyana nemurume.
SISTERS OF MERCY
Ushamwari hwevakadzikadzi pakati pevamiririri vehutano husina simba hunowanzoshandurwa kuva hukama hwepedyo. Shamwari yakanakisisa inokugadzirira tafura yemuchato, inosungirirwa muchipatara chekuberekwa, inogara nemwana wako (uye kazhinji inova "wechipiri amai", kunyanya kana isina vana vake), inotora mukati wako muzhizha. Zvichida, ukama hwakadaro hunokonzerwa nekuda kwezvakaitika kare. Kwemazana emakore akawanda vanhu vaigara mumhuri dzakakura, apo hafu yevakadzi pamwe chete vaiita basa rechikoro, vakwerera vana, nezvimwe. Sezvo akazviwana ari munzanga itsva, iyo "mhuri" inowanzoreva chete murume kana mai, mukadzi asingazivi anoedza kuwedzera denderedzwa rehama kubudikidza nevatorwa . Ukama hwakadaro hunoita kuti vakadzi vave nepfungwa inokosha yekubatana, kuchengeteka, uye mukana wekugoverana mumiriri wemafungiro avo, zvishuvo nezviito. Icho chinhu chimwe chete chakuti: "Ndinoda kugadzirisa mumba" - uye zvimwe zvakare: "Tinoda ...". Izvi zvinosanganisira "isu" zvinokurudzira kuvimba uye zvinogadzira pfungwa yekuzviruramisira.
Ichokwadi, ushamwari hwehanzvadzi dzine chimwe chinhu chinokonzera kukanganisa - chibayiro, icho chinowanzotarisa kuva chakanyanyisa. Vangani vakadzi vanoramba mukana wekuronga hupenyu hwehupenyu nekuda kweshamwari! "Handizoonana naye, nokuti Lenochka akafananawo naye ..." "Usaremedza musikana wako nematambudziko ako, iye anoda rubatsiro iye zvino ..." "Vera ndiyo nyeredzi, rega apfeke chipfeko ichi, uye Ini chaizvoizvo ndinogona kuenda mune chimwe chinhu chiri nyore ... "Uye zvino hapana mumwe ari oga nemunhu waunoda kana nemhuri. Tinofanira kukoka shamwari, nokuti iye ari oga iye zvino ...
Ushamwari hwakadaro hunofanana nekubatana, "chikwata chakavharwa", uko panopinda muchengeti wekunze. Ichi ndicho simba uye simba rake panguva imwe chete. Vasikana vevasikana vanova pedyo kune vamwe vanhu, asi kuonekwa kweumwe "nhengo yekambani" yezvavanoda uye zvinangwa zvinowanzoonekwa nevamwe sekutengesa. Saka, kana iwe uine hukama kune hukama hwepedyo, kubva pakutanga iwe unobvumirana kuti umwe neumwe wenyu ane rusununguko rwakati. Hazvisiko kuita zvose zvachose muupenyu huno pamwechete. Chimwe chinhu chinogona kuitwa kana chiri voga kana pamwe chete nevamwe vanhu. Uku hakusi kutengesa shamwari inodiwa.
KUSIYANA NEMWE SHAMWARI?
Dzimwe nguva vakadzi vanoungana pamwe chete nechinangwa chaicho - kuti zvive nyore kukurira matambudziko ose. Mune hukama hwakadaro kune chibayiro chiduku uye rudo rwehama, asi zvimwe zvinhu zvekugadzirisa zvekugadzirisa, izvo zvinoita kuti zvive zvakakosha kubatana. Hazvirevi kushamwaridzana kwepachivande kuitira kuti vapone kubva kune pamwe chete mushandi asingadiwi. Tiri kutaura pamusoro pezvibvumirano zvakanyanya kana zvishoma, zvinogona kugoverwa kuva zvitatu.
■ Runako uye Chikara. Mutsamba yakadaro, musikana mumwe ane chitarisiko chakanaka, uye chimwe chinonyatsosvibisa. Somugumisiro, wekutanga anotambira munhu akavimbika akadzoka mumunhu weshamwari yake uye kutarisirwa kwevanhu, uye wechipiri-mukana wekutora chikamu mumagariro evanhu. Mukuwedzera, "akawa" gentlemen, uyo shamwari yake yakaramba.
■ Smart uye Pretty-chii-benzi. Kana zvisingaiti nekuda kwekubatana, varume vekutanga vaizoonekwa sekutakura, uye wechipiri - benzi chete. Nokubatanidza miitiro yavo, vanove vakakodzera mukubatana kweuchenjeri uye ruzivo, vakadzi nevakadzi.
■ Shumba uye Mouse. Mumuviri uyu, mumwe mukadzi anobata nehasha uye ane utsinye, uye wechipiri - akanyarara uye asinganzwisisiki. Izvo shumbakadzi inovhima, uye Mouse inokurudzira kurwisa nzira, inopedza kukakavara kunomuka munzira.
Ushamwari pa "hutano" huri hutambudzike kupfuura hanzvadzi. Izvozvi, apo musikana ari kutungamirirwa nechinangwa chakafanana, vanomirirana kune rumwe rusvingo. Asi pakarepo kana matambudziko epfungwa emuumwe wavo anotanga kugadziriswa, muyero uri mukati maviri unoputsika, uye kubatana, sekutonga, kunopesana. Zvisinei, kana munhu anonzwisisa ushamwari pasi pehukama hwehukama munguva dzakaoma dzehupenyu, ipapo hukama hwakadaro hunovimbisa.
AKHILLESOV Pyat
Vakadzi vanogona kuva shamwari kwete kwemakore nemakumi chete, vanoramba vari shamwari dzepedyo uye mukukwegura. Uye vepfungwa dzepfungwa vakaona kuti ushamwari hunotora kwenguva yakareba kwazvo, iyo yakaberekerwa mumukomana werudo: mune chimwe chikoro, mune imwe sangano ... Asi vanhu vakwegura havawanzoshanduki nevamwe. Sezviri pachena, vanova vasina kuvimba uye vanozvidza. Zvisinei, pane zvimwe zvinhu zvinokonzera njodzi zvinogona kuparadza kunyange ushamwari hwakasimba. Iwe unoda kuziva pamusoro pavo kuitira kuti uzive njodzi munguva iyo kana ikasimuka pamugwagwa wako. Saka, chii chiri muhukama hwechikadzi chinodiwa kuti uchenjere?
Chokutanga, makwikwi. Kana iwe wakanyatsorayira musikana kuti achinje chifananidzo, uye paakazogadzirisa vhudziro, akafunga godo kana kufara: "Ndine mafashoni!", Pamusoro pehukama iyo haisi iyo nzira yakanakisisa. Mutambo woutano chete unofanana nekukwikwidzana kwemagariro evanhu haungagoneki, apo uyo anokunda anotora kugadzika kwechigamba, achifara kubudirira kwake. Asi chido chekurova murume weshamwari hachisi kukwikwidzana, asi chido chokuzvidzivirira nokunyadzisa shamwari. Izvi hazvina chokuita neshamwari.
Chechipiri, miedzo iyi "ruble". Haisi "chakavanzika chokuti mari inogona kuparadza kunyange hukama hwakatendeseka." Kana iwe uchikoshesa ushamwari, usambozvirumbidza neshamwari yako kuti iwe uwane zvakawanda (uye usashuva kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchingowedzera.) Yeuka: mari inokosha asi kwete chikamu chikuru chehupenyu hwedu Regai vasave magumo mavari, asi nzira yekuziva zvishuwo zvavo uye zvido zvevanhu vashoma, kusanganisira vasikana.
Chechitatu, kubvuma ku "kirabhu yevakadzi" yevatsva. Iwe unogona, zvirokwazvo, unoshanyira shamwari dzose patafura imwe chete, asi usaita shamwari yako yakanakisisa kuva shamwari yako yepamusoro uye yese. MaAmerica masayendisiti, nokutendeseka kudzidza chiitiko che "Zvepabonde uye Guta," zvakasvika pakuguma kusingatarisirwi - ushamwari hwevana vana neshatu huri kurarama kwenguva pfupi: quartet nokukurumidza inopinda muviri, uye vatatu vanopesana uye vanowana hukama. Ichi ndicho chinangwa che "shamwari" shamwari yevakadzi - nhema kana chokwadi ndechokuti mashoko akadaro anogona kungonzwisiswa nenzira dzinoshanda.