A bit of history
Izvo zvatinodana kuti mat, nhasi, zvaive chinhu chakanga chiri chikonzero chekuita zvekuberekwa panguva yechihedheni uye yaive yakanzwisisika chaiyo. Kutendwa kweiyo ndiyo nhamba huru yemisha yakasiyana, misha, maguta uye nzizi, izvo zvichiripo kubva panguva iyoyo zvakagadzikana, nemitemo yedu, mazita. Zvisinei, nekupararira kwechiKristu muRussia, mazwi echihedheni echihedheni akapinda muchikwata chekunyadziswa uye zvishoma nezvishoma akatanga kushandiswa nechechi, sezvo vainzi "kusava nehanya." Asi kupikira mazwi kwenguva yakareba kwenguva refu hauna kurasikirwa mukurumbira pakati peChristu chekare chevanhu. Uye zvepamutemo vakarambidzwa muminyorwa yakanyorwa chete muzana remakore rechi18.
Kushandiswa kwekutaura zvisina kunaka
Uye nhasi, semakore mazhinji akapfuura, kutuka hakusi kungotaura mazwi. Masayendisiti anobatanidzwa mukudzidza mutauro, akaverenga kuti mashoko anonyadzisa anoita mabasa anopfuura 15 akasiyana. Saka, nerubatsiro rwekupikira, iwe unogona kusimudzira tsika kwete iwe pachako, asi zvakare kusimbisa zvinoitwa nevamwe. Dzimwe nguva mashoko anonyadzisa anobvumira munhu kubvisa kushushikana uye kuwana rudzi rwekudzivirira. Saka, kana chinhu chakaremara, chakadai sedare, pakarepo unowira patsoka dzako, zvino kana iwe ukangoti chimwe chinhu se "oh, zvinokuvadza chimwe chinhu se ...", iwe uchanzwa uchinetseka kwenguva refu, uye kana Iwe panguva ino unopika zvakanaka, iwe uchabva watanga kunzwa unhu hwakanaka.
Mashoko anonyadzisira anoshandawo sekuratidzira kutsamwa nekutsamwa kune vanhu vasingafadzi uye vanoshandiswa kutya uye kuvhundutsa muvengi. Kungofanana nemhuka, mhuka dzinogomera, dzinovaka grimaces dzinotyisa uye dzinoputika bvudzi ravo sezvo muvengi anosvika.
Imwe basa rekutaura kwakashata ndiko kukwanisa kutsungirira kutya nekutya pamwe nayo. Yakarondedzerwa se "mashoko akaipa", munhu sezvaanoita rudzi rwekudzivirira paari uye anonzwa akawedzerwa kuva nechivimbo.
Pasinei nokuti iko kutuka chinhu chinoratidzika sechisikigo uye chinobatsira, chinofanira kuonekwa kuti havasi vose vanovashandisa nenzira imwecheteyo. Kunyange panguva ino, apo hutsika hunozara nehuwandu (tinogona kunzwa mutauro unonyangadza mumavhidhiyo, kubva pane terevhizheni yeTV, kuverenga pamapeji emapepanhau), vamwe vanhu havana tsika yekuzviratidza ivo pachavo, asi kune avo vasina kungopika chete, asi zviri nyore kugara achitaura mumutauro unonyomba.
Izvo zvinotarisirwa, zvechokwadi, kutanga kune zvose pamusoro pezvedzidzo. Kana vabereki vakaisa tsika dzakanaka mumitambo muhuduku hwavo, saka, mushure mokukura, munhu anovatevera munguva yemberi. Izvo zvisinganyanyi kukosha nderudzi rwehutano uye hurongwa hwekutya hwevanhu. Vanhu vakashata - vanokurumidza-kutsamwa uye nyore nyore kugadzirisa, vanoshandisa mazwi anonyadzisa kazhinji kakawanda kupfuura vanongwarira varwere vephlegmatic. Zvisinei, zvinowanzoitikawo kuti munhu akakurira mumhuri yakangwara yemumitambo uye asingafananidzi nemufananidzo weiyo mamafucker resorts kumashoko ekutuka. Musikana ane mwero, anotapira, anonakidza, asina kupfeka akapfeka uye ane zvigadzirwa zvishoma pamusoro pechiso chake anobva abudisa zvakadai zvokuti nzeve dzake dzinopinda mukati mehutu. Hazvibviri kutenda kuti iye kazhinji anoziva mazwi akadaro! Asi zvinokwanisika kuti akadzidza ivo zvakananga, kuitira kuti vawedzere kunzwa vane chivimbo uye vakasununguka mune dzimwe mamiriro ezvinhu. Kana zvichiitika kuti mushandi wacho akashanda hupenyu hwake hwose muboka rakaoma, uko pasina mashoko akasimba, hapana basa kana chirongwa chichaitwa munguva. Dare rakashandura kupfuura kwenguva, uye tsika yekunyadzisira yakachengetedzwa.
Kuenzaniswa nevarume, vakadzi vanowanzoshandisa mutauro unonyadzisa kazhinji. Uye kwete chete nokuti mumuviri wevakadzi hormone ye testosterone haina kuderedzwa zvishoma, iyo inokonzera kushungurudza, asiwo nokuti inogamuchirwa mumakambani evanhu chete. Kana mukomana achiri kuyaruka asingazive kutuka kusina kunaka, ipapo zvicharamba zvakaoma kwaari kuti abatane nekambani. Murume akwegura asingakwanisi kuratidza chinangwa chekukurukurirana kose mumashoko mashomanana akasimba, zvichida haazokwanisi kuva mutungamiri. Pakati pese, zvechokwadi, sangano sevanhu vose rakaipa pamusoro pekushandiswa kwehondo. Uye kana kubuda kwemashoko anonyadzisa kunotungamirirwa nesu, zvinonzwisiswa zvisina kunaka uye zvinoremekedzwa sekusaremekedza kwakadzika.
Nzira yekubvisa maitiro akaipa
Pane imwe ngozi zvakare: inoratidzirwa kuti kutaura kwedu neyanyanzvi hwepfungwa zvinobatana zvikuru. Kana tine tsika yekutaura mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana nematauriri e template (uye masvomhu ndiwo chaiwo aya maitiro), saka izvi hazvibvumi kuti huropi hwedu hukure.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzeBritain dzakatsanangura kutaura kwevakadzi mazana matanhatu uye vakaona kuti ndiyo yakanyatsonaka iyo musikana anotaura, iye anonyanya kubudirira iye ari oga uye mumabasa ake. Kunyange mapoka chaiwo ekufambiswa kwekutaura akarongeka, apo maitiro akasiyana-siyana anopiwa kuti abvise kutaura kwemashoko anonyadzisa, kusanganisira asina kunyora. Nokudaro, panzvimbo yezwi "rakaipa" unofanirwa kutaurira vamwe kusingafungi, kwete nechekukurukurirana shoko, se "gypsumff", pane "e-klmn", "dhiyabhorosi" kana "pancake". Munhu, paanoita shanduro yakadaro, anonzwisisa kuti mazwi acho anonzwika asinganzwisisiki uye anoseka, sezvinongoita kutuka mumutauro wake hazvina kukodzera. Imwe nzira yekubvisa kubvisa chirevo chekunyora ndeyekunyarara. Mushure mokushandisa mutauro unonyadzisa, vanhu vanowanzovhara kusakwanisa kwavo kunyatsogadzira mutauro, nzvimbo dzekumhanya uye kumbomira. Mukuwedzera, sezvo wakadzidza kuramba wakanyarara, vanhu vanodzidza kuteerera mutauriri pamwe chete, izvo, iwe unobvumirana, ihwo hunokosha uye hunokosha hunhu.
Dzimwe humwe chokwadi pamusoro pezvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka zvekushungurudzwa.
Chinhu chakanaka
- Kushandiswa kwemashoko akasimba kunowedzera upenyu. Mhedziso yakadaro yakagadzirwa nevachiremba veAmerica uye vezvemagariro evanhu. Mushure mekudzidza mararamiro evanhu 230, vakawana: kutaura zvakajeka kunobatsira kune utano. Vaya vanoita, vane uwandu hwakanyanya hwe cortisol ("stress hormone") uye high endorphin ("hormone yemufaro").
- Kutaura kusina kujeka kunosimbisa mweya wekubatana. Nyanzvi dzeYunivhesiti yeEngland Anglia dzakaona kuti kusvibiswa kunobatsira vashandi kukurukurirana, kunogadzira nzvimbo yakanakira yekunzwisisa uye kuvimba. Uye hazvirevi kwete chete varume, asiwo maqembu akavhengana.
- Zvitubu zvinoderedza kukwezva kwomunhu. Nyanzvi dzezvemagariro evanhu dzakaratidza kuti kushungurudzwa mumatauriro ehutano hwakanaka hunovhiringidza kuongorora kwavo nevarume. Vose vakadzi vakagamuchira zvikwereti zvakakwirira pamusana pekupikisa vakawira mumaziso evanhu mushure mekunge varatidzira (mumavhidhiyo mavhidhiyo) kukwanisa kuzvidzora ivo pachavo.
- Kutuka kunoparadza mafungiro. Zvinotitorera isu katatu kuti tinzwe mashoko asina kunaka paTV, manzwiro aanowa - pane alarm, kunzwa "chimwe chinhu chakashata." Vanachiremba vepfungwa dzevana vanobva kuUnited States vanotenda kuti basa rekuisa mubereki. Isu tose takadzidza kubva pauduku kuti zvakashata kupika.