Mhuri yeAmerica inotsvene. Hapana kugoverana kuita basa revarume nevakadzi: Vanababa veAmerica panzvimbo iyi ndeyezvakanaka, kwete kwevhiki chete: varume vakaronga zuva rekushanda kuitira kuti nguva yakawanda inokwanisa kupiwa kumhuri.
Uye mamiriro apo amai vangu vanoshanda, uye baba vangu vane vana, vanosanganawo kakawanda kupfuura isu. Vana nguva dzose inhau yekuyemura, nzvimbo yepasi rose. Mhuri yose inofanirwa kuenda kune zororo dzose dzekuchikoro uye yebindu.
Kuberekwa kwevana munyika dzakasiyana kunoonekwa nenzira inokosha. Mwana ari nhengo yakakwana yemhuri, ane kodzero yakadaro yokuvhota mairi, kufanana nevamwe, pane zvose. Anofanira kuremekedzwa, ane kodzero yekuti inviolability. Vanomurayira, vanotsanangurira zvinhu zvose kwaari kubva pamavambo okutanga, pakutanga vanopa rusununguko rwakakwana rwekuita, nokudaro vachivadzidzisa kuti vatsigire. Yakanyarara semhando, amai veAmerica havafungi zvachose pamusoro pekuti mwana anokambaira mumatope, akasununguka, achizununguka kunze mumugwagwa muna December oga muhombodo (nokuti aida kudaro) ... Paakafunga kuti aigona kuita izvozvo, regai aite. Ane kodzero yekuita zvikanganiso uye kune zvakaitika kwaari. Regai aone kuti ivhu rinosviba!
The reverse side
Asi mitemo iyi yakanaka kwazvo pakurera vana munyika dzakasiyana ine rutivi rwakasiyana. Saka, zvichienderera kubva pokuti munhu wese ane kodzero yehupenyu hwake pachake uye zvido zvake, veAmerica vanoda kuti chigadzirwa ichi chiremekedzwe uye kubva kune vacheche vasingagoni kutsanangura izvi. Hungu, apo mwana akadzidza kunyatsojekesa zvaanoda, achamuteerera nenzira dzose, asi zvisati zvaitika, mukurwisana kwezvido, vabereki vanozozvipa ivo masimba makuru. Amai nababa vane kodzero yepamutemo yekurara usiku, uye kunyange iwe ukasimuka mumucheka wako, hakuna munhu achauya kwauri. Amai nababa vanoda kuramba vari nenzira imwechete yehupenyu yavanotungamirira vasati vaberekwa mwana, uye mwana-akakomberedzwa kubva kumusha wekuberekwa anokwevera kune rimwe runyanga rune ruzha apo anopa mwana kuti atore mumwe nomumwe wevakasvikwa makumi mana, uye haateereri kutarisana naye. "Usanetseka!" - zvinoratidzika kuti iyi ndiyo nheyo huru yemishonga yeAmerica, apo kuongorora kwomwana neonatatologist mushure mekuberekwa kunogona kuisa kungoyera uye kugadzirisa: "Anoshamisa mwana." Kuwedzera kwekucherechedza kwezvokurapa kuchave kwakangofanana "zvakakwana". Chirongwa chikuru chehutano hwemucheche chichave chimiro chake: "Anotarisa zvakanakisisa, hazviiti kuti akanga achirwara!"
Uye ambuya vari kupi?
Tinofanira kubvuma kuti kukakavara nekurerwa kwevana munyika dzakasiyana-siyana mumatambudziko aya kunowanzotarisirwa: zvakanaka, shure kwezvose, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare (vakabvisa chidimbu, vakadzidza kuverenga) ... Muzviitiko zvizhinji, nekuda kweizvi, vabereki vemuAmerica vakanyarara, kufanana neBuddha, uye vanovhiringidza tariro. Haasi kukanda zvakanyanyisa muhumai uye kwete kuita mabasa ezuva nezuva, uye kupa nguva zvakanaka kune zvavanoda uye zvido (kunyange dzimwe nguva kune zvinokuvadza vana), vanaamai vanochengetedza simba ravo kune wechipiri, wechitatu, wechina mwana ... Mucheche uyu amai, zvechokwadi, anokosha, inogona kunge iri pakutanga, asi zvinhu zvose hazvipinduri, sezvakaita muRussia.
Chokwadi
Zvisiri izvo chaizvo muAmerica, ndiko kusabatanidzwa kwekurukuru mumakore ekurera vana munyika dzakasiyana. Amakuru veAmerica vari vazhinji - vane simba vanoshanda madzimai avo vanofara nomwoyo wose kutarisana nemwana pane chinangwa, asi kwete kupfuura izvozvo
Mhuri muItaly mhuri. Holy concept. Hazvina mhosva kuti munhu angava nehukama hwakadini nehama dzake, zvisinei kuti haabatsiri sei, kana ari nhengo yemhuri, munhu haagoni kuhadzika: haazomusiyi. Kuberekwa kwemwana mumhuri yakadaro chiitiko chisati chiri chehama dzake dzepedyo chete, asi kune vamwe vose vanofamba neboka "mvura yechinomwe pane kissel". Mwana wechechi chipo chinobva kudenga, mwari muduku, avo vose vari mheremhere uye vanoshingaira, vanongororwa panzvimbo iyo, vakapererwa nematayipi nemasipi. Vana vanokura mumamiriro ezvinhu ekubvumira uye kusagadzikana kwehurongwa, asi pasi pekutonga kwakakwana, semugumisiro wavanokura kuti vave sekuwedzera, akaoma, asina hanya, asingazivikanwi sevabereki vavo. Kuongororwa kwemasangano ekushanyirana kunoratidza kuti vana vokuItaly ndivo vatasvi vanorwara zvikuru muEurope: kazhinji havaiti zororo kune vamwe vatashanyi, vanoita ruzha, vasingateereri vakuru, vasinganzwisisi kudya mumaresitorendi, vanoita chete zvavanofunga kuti zvakakodzera, kwete maererano nemaonero evamwe.
Munowanzo, mhuri yeItaly, vana kunyanya, inofanirwa kubvumirwa kupinda mumba nekuchenjerera. Kana amai nababa vakakavadzana, zvichida havazoputi ndiro ndiro mumba mako ... Asi zviputi zvinokanganisa zvinokurumidza kupwanya mapepa ako evanhu. Mushure mokushanya kwavo, inoramba ichifunga kuti Mamai akafamba-famba mumba.
Nguva yakaoma
Apo vana vanokura uye vanopinda "dambudziko rakaoma", vabereki vakangwara vanovapa rusununguko, kana kuti pane kudaro, kunyengera kwake. Panguva imwecheteyo, mitemo yakasimba uye zvigaro zvinoramba zviripo, kudzivirira vana veFrance zvakawanda kupfuura vezera ravo muAmerica. Zvinotoshamisa kuti vaFrance munyika yose vanoonekwa sevanhu vakanyanyisa kuchena kunze kwePuritan Americans.
Mazuva ano mhuri yeRussia inowanzova vaviri, kunyanya kunetseka nehupfumi uye nenyaya yeimba. Baba vari mumhuri yeRussia vane tsika yekugadzirisa zvinhu, vanogadzirisa zvokudya, vakangoerekana varega kubatana mumabasa epamba uye kuchengetwa kwevana. Maitiro, amai vanochengetedza kubasa kusvikira mwana asvika pazera remakore matatu, asi pakuita vanaamai vanowanzoenda kushanda kare kare-mumatambudziko akawanda ekubhadhara, asi kazhinji, pamwe chete neWestern "vashandi vavo", nokuda kwezvikonzero zvekuzvitsvaga, kuchengeta pfungwa dzavo hupenyu hwakanaka. MuRussia yemazuva ano, zvigadzirwa zvekuvaka dzimba-dzimba (inonyanya kugadzirisa-chirango) uye Dhictor Spock dzidziso dzinoramba dzichibatsira, pamwe nevakawanda vemazuva ano vanodzidzisa vanodzidzisa zvisiri izvo zvisingashamisi zvemaonero eSoviet: kubatana kurara, kunwisa kusvika makore matatu, mafungiro kumwana sekuenzana ...
Chokwadi
Nhamba dzevanhu vakawanda dzinoramba dzisingawanikidziki, uye vegorogi havatengesi vabereki nguva dzose, uye kazhinji nzira yekubuda mumamiriro acho ezvinhu ikurukuru.
Mhuri yeFrance yakasimba kwazvo zvokuti vana nevabereki vavo havasi kukurumidza kugovana uye vanogara vachifara pamwe kusvika makumi matatu (kana kunyanya!) Makore. Nokudaro, maonero ekuti ivo vana, bezynitsiativny uye vasina hanya, kwete pasina chikonzero. Izvi hazvirevi kuti vanaamai vanogara pamba navo kubva mangwanani kusvikira usiku - amai vokuFrance vanopa zvipo zvinoparadzanisa nguva pakati pebasa, zvido zvavo, murume nemwana. Kune mukadzikadzi wechiFrench wemazuva ano, kuzviziva uye basa rake hazvina kukosha pane kune vamwe vakadzi vemuAfrica vakasununguka. Mwana anotanga kuenda kuchikoro chechikoro, amai vangu vanodzokera kubasa. Mumwe mwana wechiFrench haawanzozviwani ari pakati pekufunga kwemhuri yake, pakutanga anotanga kuzvifadza, kukura kuzvimiririra, nokukurumidza kukura.
Chokwadi Chimiro cheFrench chinowanzotaurirana zvakakwana, kusiyana neAmerica, vanogona kudanidzira pamucheche, asi kurohwa hakunakwanisi. Vana vanowanzokurira mumamiriro ehukama, asi kubva pazera remakore vanoudzwa kuti vatevere mitemo yakasimba: teererai amai venyu, kwete kuva capricious, musarwisana. Vongai izvi vanobatana nyore nyore neboka
Chenjerera utsi hwako!
Vabereki vechiRussia vanonyanya kutya, kuona zvipingamupinyi zvakawanda zvemwana munyika dzakapoteredza (uye kwete pasina chikonzero), funganya nezveramangwana rake, edza kutanga uye kumudzidzisa nokukurumidza sezvinobvira, achitarisira kuti mwana achaenda kune imwe nzvimbo yakanaka (usakanganwa kuti vazhinji vevabereki vevakomana vanoda kudzivisa mauto), musavimba navanachiremba zvikuru, ivo vanojairika kuvimba nemaitiro emagariro avo mumhuri dzavo kana kutsvaka chokwadi nenzira yavo, mumabhuku uye Internet.
Zvimwe zvikamu zveChinese, semhuri ipi neipi yekuEastern yeEast, ndiyo simba revakuru, kubatana, uye basa rakaderera revakadzi. Zvinonyanya kukosha nokuda kwechiitiko chiripo nekuwedzererwa nemutemo, mhuri yeChitina inogona kunge isina mwana mumwe chete. Nokudaro, vana vanowanzokura zvakaparadzwa uye zvisingakwanisi.
Chido, kushingaira uye kurangwa kwevaChinese zvinoratidzwa munyaya dzekurera vana munyika dzakasiyana. Vana kubva mudiki vachienda kuchikoro chechikoro chechikoro (dzimwe nguva kunyange kubva pamwedzi mitatu), kwavanogara maererano nemitemo yeboka pamwe chete maererano nemitemo yakagamuchirwa. Nzira yakaoma inopa uye zvibereko zvayo zvakanaka: vana vanotanga kufamba mberi kwehari, vanorara uye vanodya zvakajeka maererano nesheti, vanokura vanoteerera, mukati megadziriro yakaoma kamwechete uye yese mitemo yakasimbiswa. Mumwe mwana wechiChinese anorwisa vatorwa pazororo nekusava nechokwadi achitevera mirairo yaamai, haasi kutyisa, vanogona kugara kwemaawa pakarepo, nepo vana vevamwe vatashanyi vanopwanya muresitorendi. Chakavanzika ndechekuti mwana kubva pamubhedha anodzidziswa kuteerera uye achimuchengetedza zvakasimba.
Ichokwadi kuti Kuita chibereko, maererano netsika dzeChinese, kunofanira kumira kana mwana achikwanisa kuunza ruoko rwake kumuromo - kubva panguva ino mwana, maererano neChina, anogona kutodzidza kudya nekapu.
Kubvira achiri muduku, vadzidzisi nevabereki vari kushingaira mukurudzirwa kwechecheche, uye mune izvi vaChina vari pedyo neRussians nemabasa edu ekufambisa kwepolutoratok, cubes Zaitseva nedzimwe nzira.
VaChinese havasi kurega masimba uye zvigadziro zvekuvandudzwa kwakakwana kwomwana uye kutsvaga tarenda yake, uye kana pane imwe, ipapo mwana ane unyanzvi hwakagadzirirwa kuita basa rega rega anobudirira migumisiro yakawanda.
Mubereki wechiJapan haazombotauri inzwi rake kune mwana wake, uye kunyanya zvakadaro, haazombomurova. Vanoramba vakanamatira kuhuchenjeri hwekare: kusvika kumakore mashanu mwana ari mwari, kubva pa5 kusvika kune gumi nevaviri - muranda, uye shure kwegumi nevaviri - shamwari. Japanese mwana anogona kuva nechivimbo chokuti acharamba achinyatsoteerera, vauye kununura.
Chakavanzika chekugadzikana kwevabereki veJapan uye kuteerera kwevana zvakajeka: inongova pakutanga kwekusafungidzira kuti zvingaita sokuti zvose zvinotenderwa kuvana. Chaizvoizvo, mapuranga arimo, asi vabereki vechiJapan havaregi kurera vana pachena. Vanopa mhinduro kune avo, asi vari voga uye vakanyarara sezvavanogona.
Chokwadi
Nhasi mhemberero dzemhuri yeJapan inoshanduka kuva yemazuva ano. Amai havadi kugara pamba nemwana. Vabereki vakabatikana nebasa, vakwegura hama vari tsika yekuzvidzivirira pachavo, uye semugumisiro, vatsvakurudzi vanotaura pamusoro pekusurukirwa nekuregererwa kwevana vechiJapan.
Imwe dambudziko reJapane - kuchinja kubva muchikwata che "Mwari" kune chikamu che "muranda": kuchikoro chesekondari, kunamata mwana uye kugovera ma Caprices, zvinopera naye kuchikoro vanotanga kukumbira zvakasimba. Mudzidzisi, ane hukama hwakagadzirwa pamusoro pehukama hwehukama, anova mutungamiri anokwanisa kuranga zvakanyanya. Mitemo yacho yakaoma uye inosunga. Mwana paanoenda kuchikoro chesekondari, vabereki vanosarudza dzidzo yepamusoro yepamusoro yavanoshandisa, uye kubva panguva iyo ushamwari pakati pevana vechikoro hunomira uye kukwikwidza kwakanyanya kunotanga. Vana vari kunyanya kupfurikidza nekushandura kubva "kuMwari" kuenda ku "muranda", naizvozvo pakati pevadzidzi veJapan kune uko kubuda kwekupemberera, pamwe chete nehuwandu hwekuedza kuzviuraya.
Chimwe chikamu chekumaodzanyemba nyika inotarisirwa nevakadzi. Anogara achiterera murume. Sangano rinocherechedza kwaari iro basa guru reimba uye nekurerwa kwevana munyika dzakasiyana. Kuberekwa kwomukomana nguva dzose kunokonzera kufara, asi kuonekwa kwomusikana kunogona kutungamirira kumhuri kusagutsikana (muChina, somuenzaniso, musikana achangoberekwa anokwanisa kupiwa zita rinonzi Big Mistake).
Zvimwe zvakasiyana-siyana zvekare zvekuranga vana munyika dzakasiyana-siyana:
MuRussia, sesu tose takanzwa, taidzidzira tsvimbo, tichienda tisina kudya uye taimira pamazai kwemaawa. Bhanhire nekona hazvina kurasikirwa nezvakakosha.
Zvechokwadi, mapepa ndiyo chimiro cheChirungu. Nenzira, mutemo wehurumende muGreat Britain wakabviswa, muna 1986 chete.
MuChina, ivo vakarova minwe yavo nehombodo. MuJapan, kumanikidzwa kumira nekapu yekanda kumusoro wake, kururamisa gumbo rimwe pamakona akarurama kumuviri.
MuPakistan, nokuda kwekunonoka kuduku, vakamanikidzwa kuverenga Koran kwemaawa. Uye chirango chinotyisa cheBrazilian - kurambidza kutamba bhora ....
Dzidzo yevana vari munyika dzakasiyana mumutauro wekare wekuRussia:
Nhungamiro yevakaroorana nevabereki veMiddle Ages, vanoziva kuti vana vanoda kudiwa, asi vanokurudzira vabereki kuvanza rudo rwavo: "Musamuseka paanenge achitamba." Zvinofanirwa kuti, nokudaro kurera mwana, mubereki anogona kuiparadza uye kumutsa munhu akaparara, ane simba. Panguva imwecheteyo munyori we "Domostroi" anonyanya kurudzira vabereki vevana "kurara, kuranga nekudzidzisa, asi kuvatsanangurira nekurova." Kurangwa, maererano nevanyori, inokosha inokosha mukurerwa kwevana munyika dzakasiyana, iyo inoita kuti vabereki vave nerunyararo, runyararo uye ruremekedzo munguva yemberi. Zvakakurudzirwa kuti uratidze mutsa unokosha kune vanakomana vako: "Usasuruvara, urove mwana: kana iwe ukamurova netsvimbo, haazofi, asi ichava noutano, iwe, uchitema muviri wake, kuponesa mweya wake kubva murufu ... Kuda mwanakomana wake, uye iwe haugoni kuzvikudza. " Chinhu chinokosha muhutano hwevana munyika dzakasiyana-siyana nevanasikana ndiyo yekudzidziswa kwemaonero ehutsika kwavari kuti avadzivirire kubva ku "corporal vice."
Chokwadi
Vana veAmerica, kusiyana nevana vavo vekuRussia "vanoshanda navo", vanopfeka mbatya shoma dzimwe nguva. Mwana wacho, asina shangu achibhururuka pamusoro pevhu reNovember kana kuti akabudiswa munaJanuary mumugwagwa asina mabvi asina kubvisa, kwete kuora. Uye havarwara kakawanda, asi pane zvinopesana, kazhinji.
Mutemo "usingaishambidzi" unosanganisira, mumaonero edu, sevashandi vomumusha (vana vatatu: amai vanomwe vanodedera, mumwe anoverenga nhau, uye izvi zvose - kumirira mumugwagwa kubva muchitsauko chechitatu), uye kusava nehanya mune zvemashoko ekurera vana Nyika dzakasiyana: anAmerica haazoiti, saamai vekuRussia vemazuva ano, vanochera paInternet vachitsvaga mhinduro kumubvunzo wekuti ingave inokuvadza mwana wavo. Anongoita izvo izvo chiremba kana amai vamuudza, ndizvo zvose.