Utano hwomwana ndicho chikamu chikuru chekuwedzera zvakakwana, kukura nekugadzirwa kwehupenyu hwemangwana. Saka, zvakakosha zvikuru zvose kuchengetedza nekusimbisa hutano hwevanhu, kutanga nevana vaduku. Vabereki vakawanda, kunyanya vanaamai, vanonzwisisa izvi uye vanokoshesa hutano hwemwana wavo. Kunyange zvakadaro, zvinokosha kuti urambe uine pfungwa mupfungwa dzose mune zvose, nokuti yakawanda kwazvo, hazvisi kuchenjera. Chii chinorehwa pano?
Vanaamai vakawanda vakanyanyisa nezvehutano hwemwana wavo, kuti zvishoma zvishoma, runny nose inokonzera kutya kukuru. Asi zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chehutano nderimwe pfungwa yepfungwa iyo yakanamatira zvakananga nemafungiro epfungwa emukadzi uye izvo amai vane "mukati" ake zvinonyatsoratidzwa pamwana wavo. Pano zvinongotaurwa chete nezve "goridhe kureva" maererano nehutano hwemwana, izvo zvakakosha kuti uzviite. Funga nezvenzira huru yehutano hwemwana, izvo zvaunoda kuziva uye zvakakosha kuyeuka.
Utano hwemwana hunogona kugoverwa mumapoka mana makuru maererano nematanho matanhatu akaiswa.
Mutsara wokutanga unofunga nezvekuzvarwa, ndiko kuti, maitiro ekugadzirisa muviri kune imwe kana imwe chirwere. Mukuwedzera, maererano nechirevo ichi, nguva yekuzvitakura pachayo, mararamiro ekuberekwa, pamwe chete nemwedzi wokutanga wehupenyu hwemwana inofungidzirwa. Sezvo mutemo, chimiro chechimiro chehutano chinofungidzirwa neine geneticist.
Chirevo chechipiri ndechekusimbiswa kwemwana wegore rokutanga rehupenyu, uko zviratidzo zvikuru zvekusimudzirwa zvinoongororwa, zvakadai sehuremu, urefu, musoro wepakati uye chifuva, nevamwe.
Chikonzero chechitatu chinofunga nezvehutano hwehutano hwemwana.
Maererano nechinangwa chechina, kukura kwehutano hwemwana, kutaura uye kutaurirana kunoongororwa. Sezvo mutemo, kukura kweunyanzvi idzi kunoongororwa maererano neimwe tafura. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti hakuna mitsara yakajeka uye zvinangwa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, mwana mumwe nomumwe munhu akazvimirira anozvimirira maererano nehurongwa hwake hunobudirira, naizvozvo kukanganisa mune imwe nzira kana imwe haisi yekutambudza. Pano inyanzvi yose yeunyanzvi uye mano echeche inoongororwa.
Chikonzero chechishanu chinofunga nezvekuita kwomwana, kutaura kwake nevamwe, manzwiro, sezvaanodya, tsika dzakaipa.
Mutsara wechitanhatu ndiko kuongororwa kwezvirwere zvisingagumi mumwana, uyewo kukanganisa uye kusagadzikana kwekusimudzirwa kunofungidzirwa.
Bhuku reutano ndiro chiratidzo chinogona kuchinja muhupenyu hwose, zvinosuruvarisa, sekutonga, kune yakaipa.
Sezvaunogona kuona, hutano hwemwana hunoenderana nehutano, uye pakubata pamuviri, kuberekwa, kuberekwa kwakanaka kwomwana wegore rokutanga rehupenyu, uyewo zvinhu zvekuchengetedza kwakakwana, kudya, izvo zvinokonzerwa nezvakatipoteredza.
Icho chifeve vabereki vanofanirwa kunyatsotarisira zvinhu zvose zvine chokuita nekurara pamuviri, kudya kwakakodzera, uye kutarisira mwana pachake.
Zvinosuruvarisa, chirongwa chekuronga pamuviri hachina kupinda mu "tsika" yakazara, zvisinei, inobva kune zviratidzo zvehutano zvevabereki munguva yechiratidzo kuti utano hwemwana wavo asati aberekwa hunoenderana zvakananga. Urongwa hwakakodzera hunosanganisira:
- kuongororwa kwehupenyu hwehutano hwevabereki venguva yemberi; kana zvakakodzera, zvimwe zvirwere zvinofanira kubviswa;
- kushanyira chiremba wemazino,
- kuzorora zvakakwana musati mimba pamuviri,
- Kusava nepamusoro pemitemo yakaipa (zvinwiwa zvinopisa, kusvuta, kutarisa TV, kuvharirwa mukukurukurirana pane foni),
- iyo yakanyanya kugadziriswa mumashandisirwo emasvomisitiri uye makemikari emumba,
- kurambidza kusarura kwebonde.
Kuburikidza nhengo itsva yemhuri chikamu chakakosha muupenyu hwevabereki vaduku. Saka, zvakakosha kugadzirira zvakakwana kuberekwa kwechecheche, ruzivo rwemitemo yekuchengetedza, chikafu, kuoma, chikonzero chehutano hwemwana. Zvinogona kutaurwa kuti izvi ndezvesayenzi yose, iyo inofanira kuve yakanzwisiswa nevabereki vakangwara. Zvakakosha kubatanidza pfungwa mbiri dzakadaro sehutano uye hunonzwisisika. Mwana wacho anofanira kuenzaniswa nehutano maererano nekugadzira vabereki, apo basa rinokosha rinotaridzwa nehutano hwepfungwa hunogadzirisa zvakananga humwe hutano hwemwana.