Varume :
1. Varume vazhinji havawani zvakawanda nekuda kwekurambana, nokuti ivo vakarota kuva vakasununguka zvekare nekuzvichenesa ivo vemhuri nemhuri. Mukuwedzera, vaida kusangana nemudzimai ari nani, wechidiki uyo asina kuvhiringidzika nokukurumidza semudzimai, uye varume ava vanoziva mafungiro avo uye hope dzazvo zvakananga naye. Vanotenda kuti upenyu hwemhuri hwakavhiringidza kushandiswa kwemafungiro. Makore maviri "zvikuru" anovatungamirira kune pfungwa yokuti mhuri ichiri nani, saka mumakore maviri ekutanga, varume ava vanoroorazve (vamwe, chokwadi, kune avo vaimbova madzimai), asi mumakore ava vatanga kunzwisisa kuti mudzimai wekutanga akanga ari nani pane wechipiri, kunyange zvazvo vasingazvidembi kurambana.
2. Chii chinotungamirira kurambana mushure mehupenyu hwakareba humwe humwe, hudiki, boka revarume? Vanofarira rusununguko, vanoshandura shamwari yavo, havawanzochani kwenguva yakareba, asi ivo vasingazivi kuti vanorasikirwa nemakore akanakisisa ehupenyu hwavo, uye nezera remakore makumi mashanu vanobva vachinzwa huchida hwehupenyu hwemhuri mavari, uye kusarudzwa kweshamwari kwave kutoduku, uye iye pachake akarasikirwa "nekutengesa kuona ". Iyi nhengo yevarume, kana pane upfumi hwezvinhu, inowana mudzimai wechidiki nokuda kweshanje shamwari uye yekare-mukadzi. Asi iyi "diamond yevechidiki, runako uye kutsva kunoda kubviswa kwakanaka, kureva, mari yakawanda, haisi kumhuri yakasimba, inogona kuumba kufanana kwayo kune shamwari neshamwari, pamwe nekutya kusingaperi kwekutengesa. Uye varume avo vasina hupfumi hwezvokunyama vanogutsikana nekutendeuka nokuti vakaparadzanisa zvepabonde kune avo vanoita zvekuita vasina kubatana avo vaida zvepfungwa, zvepanyama, zvepfungwa uye zvepabonde (mukuenzanisa nemadzimai avo); Tarisiro ye "hupenyu husina hanya" yakanga isingaruramiswi, uye mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma mamiriro ezvinhu kwakanga kusina kutsigirwa, nokuti murume uyu ichinjodzi, saka murume uyu anonzwisisa kuti imba yekutanga yakanga iri nani kupfuura yechipiri.
3. Kune boka rechitatu revarume vanorambana vanotungamirira kuora mwoyo kwakanyanya, zvinosanganisira zvinhu zvinodhakwa, kudhakwa kwekusurukirwa, kuvhiringidzika, kurasikirwa kwechido mubasa uye hupenyu huripo. Mutoro wemhuri yekare, iyo yavakaramba, yakakura ikava mutoro kune ivo pachavo, uye kwete munhu wese anogona kukunda izvi. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, mupfungwa wepfungwa haagoni kuita kunze. Upenyu hwemhuri hwechikwata chevarume huno hunova chiwi chinofadza chaanoda kudzoka, asi kazhinji kanyanyisa, saka zvisingaverengeki zvinyorwa zvinotarisa huwandu hwezera hwevarume vemakore makumi mashanu (kunyange zvazvo zvikonzero zvekufa kwekutanga, zvechokwadi, zvakasiyana, asi chimwe chazvo, zvechokwadi, kurambana).
Vakadzi:
1. Kurambana kwehuwandu hwevakadzi ndeyekutambudza kunofambidzana nekuderera kukuru. Pfungwa yekuti "sei zvino kurarama", "kune avo iye zvino kuti vararame", kazhinji vanotungamirira mukadzi kune chisarudzo chekugadzirisa hupenyu husina maturo, saka vazhinji vavo vanoenda kumubhedha wezvipatara, izvi zviri nani, mushure mezvo vanonzwisisa kuti hupenyu hunoenderera mberi, Tinofanira kurera vana kana kutanga kutanga kuvaka mhuri itsva.
2. Mushure mekurambana, mukadzi wacho haazombofi akafara uye akadzikama, kunyange kana ane chikwata chechipiri, nokuti pane chinotya kurasikirwa nemurume uyu, kana kutya kune ukama hwebaba vomubereki nemwana wavo kubva kumuchato wokutanga. Zvinosuruvarisa, kuroorwa kwechipiri kumudzimai hakusi nguva dzose kunopfuura yekutanga, kunyange kune zvisizvo.
3. Hupenyu hurefu hwemhuri, panguva iyo vanhu vanonzi "vakakurudzirana" kune mumwe nemumwe mupfungwa uye zvehupenyu: vane mufaro unowanzosangana nematambudziko anowanzosangana, shamwari dzakawanda nehama, zvechokwadi, vana - -kukurumidza kurambana nekurambana. Kukura kwechiremera ichi kwakanyanya kwazvo (kunyanya kuvakadzi), kuti kunyange nekubatsira kwachiremba vezvepfungwa dzepfungwa kunonetsa kuporesa, uye saka "zvinotyisa" zvicharamba zvichiguma kusvikira pakuguma kwehupenyu mumweya wemunhu asingadi kurambana.