Mushure mezvose, ndiye mukadzi ane chimiro chinomubvumira kunzwa mwana wake paanorara uye pakarepo achimuka usiku apo mwana anofamba kana kuchema. Kukurukurirana naamai - zvakakosha zvikuru kumwana, pamwe nekutarisira kwomwana anowana pfungwa yekutanga pamusoro penzvimbo yakapoteredza, rudo rweamai runoumba kuvimbwa kwekutanga kunyika, chivimbo chokuti "zvose zvichave zvakanaka." Zvino chii chinoitika kuna baba, chii chinoita mumhuri mugore rekutanga rehupenyu hwemwana? Munguva dzekare, basa romunhu raive rakagadzikana chete kuve nekuchengetedza kupona kwevakadzi nevana, uye amai nehafu yenguva yedzinza vakatarisira mwana. Muvanhu vemazuva ano, kana zvisingachafaniri kuvhima, uye mhuri dzechidiki dzinogara mararamiro akasiyana neukama Zvakaoma kuti amai vake vatarisane nemutoro waainawo oga, anoda rubatsiro uye kutsigirwa kubva kumurume wake. Basa revabereki muhupenyu hwevana chinhu chinokosha.
Kushanduka kwakanyanya
Kazhinji munguva iyi pakati pevakaroorana pane kusanzwisisana. Murume wacho anoremekedzwa mudzimai wake, achigamuchira mukudzoka rondedzero yemabasa uye mabasa, mudzimai wacho anozvipira zvachose kutarisira mwana. Somugumisiro, kuwirirana patsva kwebasa kunoumbwa mumhuri: amai-mwana pamwe chete uye baba variko varipo. Ndezvipi zvinofadza zvikuru kupfuudza danho iri, kuita kuti chitarisiko checheche chiunza kubatana uye kutaurirana pamwe chete kumhuri? Kugadzirira kwenguva yekuzvarwa kwemakwenzi zviri nani kutanga kutanga. Kunyangwe panguva yekuzvitakura, unogona kunyoresa mune zvidzidzo zvevabereki vaduku, apo vakaroorana vanodzidzisa vakaroorana nheyo dzekurapa mwana, taurai zvinokosha kune mwana achangoberekwa, vaudza maitiro ekuronga hupenyu mushure mekuonekwa kwechecheche. Idzidzo dzinongopa ruzivo rwakakodzera, asiwo rubatsiro rwevabereki munguva yemberi inotarisana mune imwe nhanho muhukama. Vaviri vacho vari kutanga vaziva kuti munguva pfupi pachava nechetatu, iyo ivo voga vachave vane mhosva. Hazvibviri here kuenda kune zvidzidzo? Iwe unogona kuverenga mabhuku akasiyana pamwe chete, tarisa mafirimu, uye utaure neshamwari dzine mhuri dzatova nemwana. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuziva kuti gore rokutanga rehupenyu rinotarisa kufambira mberi kwomwana, panguva iyi maonero ake muupenyu anoiswa - mune ramangwana tariro, kuzvidzora kunogadzirwa zvakanyatsobva kune vakomana. Vabereki vakanaka uye mhuri ine ushamwari hazviiti zvachose - inoda kudzidza.
Vimbai
Kuti ave baba vakanaka, murume anoda rubatsiro uye kuvimba kwemudzimai wake. Vanaamai vakawanda havasi kusanganisira papa mukukurukura nechecheche, vachivasiya ivo chete dambudziko pamusikana uyu. Kune rumwe rutivi, nzvimbo yakadai yakasikwa, nokuti ndiyo amai ndivo ndivo vakasununguka pamwana, kusununguka kwake kwepanyama, mwana anoziva amai kuburikidza nemoyo, kunhuwa, kufema. Kune rumwe rutivi, nemwedzi mitatu mwana anonyatsosiyanisa pakati pe "wake" uye "vanhu vasingazivi", saka zvakakosha kuti papa ave nekutaurirana nechekurumidza nokukurumidza - kutaura, kushungurudza, uye pat. Iko kunofanira kutakurwa mupfungwa kuti mubereki wevabereki mune varume nevakadzi vanoita zvakasiyana. Kana kune vakadzi nzira yekuberekwa inokonzera hutano hwemwana, ipapo kumurume ndiko kukurukurirana nediki, asingabatsiri iyo inova nguva huru mukuziva kwevana vake. Kutarisa kuti mwana anokura nekukura sei, kuvimba kwake kunowedzera kusimba sei, murume anonzwa manzwiro emufaro, chibvumirano chinomutswa maari, chinova chikonzero chehukama hwemangwana, hunomutsa maari.
Zvakadini nekuneta?
Hazvina mhosva kuti wakamirira kwenguva yakareba sei uye achida mwana wacho, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare chero vaviri vachafanirwa kutarisana nedambudziko rekushaya simba mumuviri uye mupfungwa. Munhu mutsva uye anodikanwa anoisa pfungwa dzake dzose nesimba, asingasiyi nguva yekutaurirana kwake. Amai vakazara nemibvunzo isingagumi uye kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pezvakarurama zvezviito zvake, anowanzotarisana nazvo, kana zvinhu zvose zvakanaka uye zvakashata, zvinogumbura kuti hapana nguva yakakwana yekuzvitarisira. Vanababa vanowanzonzwa vakasiyiwa, zvinoratidzika kwavari kuti mudzimai akagamuchira "chido" chakamirira kwenguva refu, uye vane basa rimwe chete - anongoita chete kuti ari kuyamura nemwana, uye anopindura nekunyomba nekunyunyuta kune chinangwa chehukama hwepedyo. Izvi zvinowanzoitika uye zvakasikwa Ichokwadi chokuti mukadzi anoratidza kufarira kune mwana zvakasikwa nemasikirwo - chimiro chomwana chinoderedza zvimwe zvishuvo, uye kusava nehanya kune murume wake kunosanganawo nekuneta kunowedzera mukutarisira mwana. Kwemwedzi 3-4 pashure pokunge aberekwa, chido chekurara chinokunda zvimwe zvose zvinodiwa. Mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti izvi zvose zvenguva pfupi, nekukurumidza hukama hwewanano huchadzokazve zvepabonde uye hukama hwepedyo.Pattern, tsitsi kune mumwe wako uye kunzwisisa kuti iye zvino mwana yakava iyo nyanzvi yekucherechedza mumhuri, kubatsira kukurira chiyero ichi muhukama.
Varume dzimwe nguva vanoedza kubvisa chigadziko pamusoro pavo, sekunge vachikwikwidzana nemwana kuti atarisire mudzimai wake. Izvi zvinowedzera kutsamwa uye kunowedzera kuparadzaniswa kune vamwe vaviri. Nzvimbo inonyanya kukurudzira yomufambidzani, uyo anonzwisisa kuti panguva iyo mwana asingabatsiri anoda kutarisira kupfuura vamwe, uye anotsigira apo mudzimai anoteerera zvinodiwa zvemucheche. Zvakakosha kuti mukadzi ave nehutano pakati pemadzimai nemhuri yemabasa. Edza kuchengetedza nzvimbo yekutaurirana iwe pachako, somuenzaniso, uchifamba nemwana unogona kutaura nemurume wako nezvebasa rake kubasa, mafungiro ako, kurukura zvirongwa zvemangwana, kuratidza rutendo rwako nokuda kwekutsigirwa uye kunzwisisa kwake. Batsira murume wake kuti ave nechivimbo mukurapa kwomwana, zvinotora nguva shoma, uye achakwanisa kutora zvimwe zvevabereki, uye iwe uchava nemukana wekuzvitarisira iwe nekudzokorora kufarira muhukama hwehukama.