Hapana akambotaura kuti kutanga kubva pakutanga zviri nyore. Asi kana pane zvikonzero zvakanaka zveizvi, zvakanyanya kumira kugara pasi pane kudzoka shure upenyu pakarepo. Pazera rako ikozvino indecent? Nonsenzi! Kuchinja hupenyu huri nani hahuna kumbopera.
Nzira # 1: Yeuka pamusoro penhamo
Iwe unotsamwa kumativi ose - vabereki, shamwari, vashandi pamwe chete nemunhu wawakambofunga kuti waidiwa. Vabereki vanowana mhosva, basa harisi basa ravo, uye shamwari hainokudi iwe asi iwe mafungire ako akanaka kwaari. Chiitiko chaicho chemunhu oga! Saka, inguva chaiyo yekuchinja chimwe chinhu mukati mako uye muhukama nevanoda.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Chinonyanya kukosha - pasinei nemamiriro ezvinhu okusagutsikana newe pachako, haugoni kukakavara nemunhu wose. Edza pasina kushevedzera uye unyengeri kutsanangurira vabereki kuti hausi musikana muduku, uye kuratidza kwavari kuzvimirira kwavo. Bvunza shamwari yako kutora nguva yekufamba kwemwedzi 2-3: chengeta manzwiro. Kana panguva ino iwe usingarangariri pamusoro pake, zvinoreva kuti iyi haisi hero yeveli yako. Funga nezvekuchinja nharaunda yebasa rezvenyanzvi, kana iri ikozvino isingarambi isingadi. Nekubudirira kwekutanga kubasa kuchava kusagutsikana newe!
WAKO 2: Shandura imba
Zvakare iwe unobata murara wako pakona yekambani, uchisvika pakushandura! Uye iyi nzira isingagumi kubva kumusha kuenda kuchiteshi chepasi, uye manheru kumashure ... Kusuruvara kunosangana neimba kunogona kuunza kuora mwoyo kwakadzama. Kana iwe kwenguva refu wakamanikidzwa nokusagutsika - dana kubatsirwa kubva ku realtors!
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Hazvina mhosva kana iwe uchigara mune imwe imba yakabhadhara kana uchida kutenga imba itsva, ramba wakatarira paimba yekushanda. Tsvaga kugadzikana chete kuburikidza neshamwari nevanonyatsoratidzwa-zvakare pakati pevamwe - shamwari. Usadanidza zviziviso zvinowanikwa pafence! Hazvina kukodzera kutsauswa nekudhura kweimba - ichi chinhu chekutanga chinofanira kusimudzira kusafungirwa. Ngwarira zvinyorwa mumatengesi. Usanyara kutarisa mupasipiti kune muridzi, wawakabhadhara imba - ndiyo yakanyatsoratidzwa ipapo? Kuchenjerera munyaya iyi hakuzokuvadzi. Mushure mezvose, unoda kuchinja hupenyu huri nani, uye usazvitsvakira mumakona.
WAKO Nha. 3: Shandura basa
Iwe unonamata basa rako, iwe unongonzwa sokuti watove wakakura kunze kwebasa rako kubva kumapato evana. Iwe uzere nesimba, iwe une zvirongwa zvikuru, asi haugone kuzviita pasi pekutungamirirwa kwevakuru. Anokukwevera iwe nemigumisiro yake isingashandisi kupinda mumvura yakasviba, apo iwe wakagadzirira kubhururuka munzvimbo, kuti uende paNyika, iri muStockholm, nokuda kwezvaunofunga nezveNobel ... Kana iwe uine chivimbo iwe pachako-tarisa vanhu vakaita saivo mubasa renyu idzva!
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Ibva kubva pabasa rakapera mutsika, pasina kuratidzira kuti vose mapenzi, uye iwe wakachenjera. Kubatana kwebhizimisi kuchabatsira. Mukuwedzera, iwe unofunga zvese unogona kunge usina kusimbiswa. Pane dambudziko rekutsvaga simba rako, kuva mutsindo uye kuziva-iyo-zvose. Pedzisa zvidzidzo zvekuvandudza, kukurukura nehutano, kuitira kuti uratidze mukuita izvo zvaunofanirwa.
NZIRA # 4: Usapesana nomubati
Mangwanani unoenda kunoshanda seKalvari. Iwe unonamata basa rako, asi mazwi ose omubatsiri anokutsamwira iwe. Izvi hazvirevi kuti iwe uri unyanzvi, asi haasi. Iwe hauna kungoenderana nemifananidzo. Zvinyoronyoro, izvo zvakawana kusagadzikana kwepfungwa, hazvina kutumira pamwe kusvika kumativi.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Iwe uye mubati wechuru unofanira kugovana: zvinobatsiro zvekubatana kwakadaro zero, uye kunetseka kwepfungwa kunokuvadza. Paunopinda mubasa idzva, usati iwe wakasiya nokuti waimbova mutungamiriri aiva benzi. Mubhizimusi achanzwisisa: chinhu chimwe chete iwe waunotaura pamusoro pake.
Nzira ye5: Usatya kutendeuka
Murume wangu akapiwa basa rakanaka kune rimwe guta kana imwe nyika. Sarudza! Iwe unogona kugara uchidzoka. Kana mumwe wako ari kutungamira mumhuri yako, ipe rusununguko rwekusarudza uye usavhara, uchitenda kuti titmouse iri muruoko rwomufambiro wekushanda nemari shoma asi yakagadzikana iri nani kupfuura gorosi mudenga - hapana anoziva ramangwana mune rimwe guta, kunyanya kune imwe nyika . Vakadzi veDecembrists, semuenzaniso, vakatsigira vadiwa vavo munguva yakaoma.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Zvichida muedzo wakaoma zvikuru munzvimbo itsva iwe uchave kusakwanisa kukurukurirana. Tsvaga iwe chibvumirano, uzive vavakidzani uye edza kugadzirisa dendere remhuri.
WAKO 6: Haugoni kuchengetedza mhuri yako - kurambana
Mune dzimwe nguva dzeSoviet, maitiro akadaro akakurumbira mupfungwa dzevakadzi: "Kuva usina kuroora hakuna chikonzero!" Nhasi, kurambana hakusi kuonekwa sechinhu chakaipa, kunyange ichi chinopesana ne psychotrauma. Kana iwe ukasarudza kuti kunze kwewawakaroorana naye iwe unenge uri nani kupfuura iye, - kurambana. Sezvo Omar Khayyam akanyora kuti: "Zviri nani kuva wega kune mumwe munhu." Kuroorana, izvo zvinounza kushushikana kwepfungwa nguva dzose, kudzivisa hupenyu hwako, hahubatsiri munhu.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Iwe unofanirwa kupfuura nenguva yekusurukirwa, kunyanya kana iwe nemurume wako mune shamwari dzakafanana. Asi pane denderedzwa rekare rekukurukurirana, chiedza chakanga chisina kuuya pamwe chete nemakumbo! Yeuka shamwari dzekare dzekuchikoro, dzine ukama hwakarasika. Pakupedzisira, kune Indaneti, nzvimbo dzekufambidzana uye makwikwi anofarira - vashandi vembwa, vatori vemifananidzo, vanofarira bhuku. Kuwedzera rutivi rwemashoko, iwe zvechokwadi uchawana shamwari itsva. Izvo zvinongova zvinyatsochenjerera: kana, kutonga nemashoko, munhu akaita kuti tive nechivimbo, sarudza zuva mu cafe. Mune musangano wega, akaita kuti iwe uve netsitsi yakafanana sekunyora tsamba here? Zvakanaka, mufaro kwauri!
Nzira 7: Kubatana neusurukirwa
Zvichida une mhuri uye neshamwari, asi nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero uri kuwedzerwa kunzwa wakasurukirwa uye kutsvaga nzira dzekuchinja hupenyu huri nani. Sezviri pachena, iwe wakashandura mukati: maererano nekutsvakurudza kwevanodzidza nezvepfungwa uye vanachiremba, munhu anochinja zvachose mumakore manomwe - izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuvandudzwa kweropa. Iwe hauna kuve nani kana kuipa - iwe wakangova wakasiyana. Nokudaro, denderedzwa rekare rekukurukurirana haritenderwi newe zvakare.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Hazvisiko kugovana neropa rehama yako nekuda kwekuvandudza shamwari dzako. Tanga zvese neyechikwata chechido. Edza kuchinja mabasa. Izvi zvakashandiswa kuremekedzwa neavo vaiva nevanyore 2 mubasa rekushanda: pakubhadhara uye kubvisa. Maererano nehuwandu, hukama hwakawanda hwezera rakakura huri kushanda. Ndibvumirire kuti ndikuratidze mano ako okusika - uye hupenyu huchaita sechiedza.
Mhando nhamba 8: Bereka mwana!
Mukadzi anosvika pachikamu chakakosha pazera uye anoziva kudiwa kwokuzvara. Mugore rinouya kana kuti kwete! Hatingaregi chero chinhu: munhu wose anoita sarudzo pachake. Asi nhamba dzinofunga kuti chero mukadzi upi zvake ane mwana anofara kupfuura uyo asina.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Iva akagadzirira kuchinja kukuru muupenyu. Iwe unogona here, usingashandisi, chengetedza mwana wacho kwemakore matatu ekutanga? Kunyange kana iwe usisiri wega uye uine murume, vanasekuru navanasekuru, gara uchifunga, mwana wacho "chiitiko" chinodhura. Uye kunze kwebasa raunoda iwe unogona kurarama? Vanaamai vane ruzivo vanoti makore mashanu okutanga anobviswa paupenyu: amai vemucheche havazi ivo pachavo. Funga kuti ndiani achakubatsira iwe, uye uone kana vakagadzirira kuita tsika.
YAKO Nha. 9: Shandura mamiriro ekunze
"Nyokumusoro yakaipa kwandiri," Pushkin akanyora pamusoro pake pachake muAnegin. Mamiriro asina kukodzera haagoni kukundwa nekuedza kwekuda. Utano huchaderera, simba rehutsika richasimba. Kurumidza kuenda kune iwe unonzwa zviri nani.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Kuchengetedza kuchinja kwenzvimbo yekusunungura kwakajeka - sekufara kunofadza! Upenyu hwakanaka kuburikidza nekusiyana kwahwo. Usatya kuti iwe haugoni kudzidzira nzvimbo itsva. Munhu anoshandiswa kune zvose, uye vanhu, mumitemo, vari kwose kwose.
Nzira # 10: Yira murudo!
Ichi chikonzero chokuchinja zvinhu zvose muupenyu - basa, guta, chitendero, nyika uye kunyange pasi. Pamapapiro eCoidid munobhururuka nekuda kweadiwa venyu! Kwete? Saka izvi hazvisi rudo.
Tinosangana nematambudziko. Chinhu chikuru hachisi kuputsa huni. Chinhu chakanaka chingave chisina kukodzera kushandiswa kwako kwawakaita. Iwe unogona kuzvitsvaga uri munharaunda yakaputsika ... Tarisa manzwiro emasimba. Izvi, chokwadi, ndiyo inofadza kupfuura dzimwe nzira gumi dzekuchinja hupenyu huri nani, asiwo hunotyisa. Upenyu hwako hunoita zvose hunovandudza, uye husiku huno hurasikirwa nehuwandu hwahwo uye mufaro.