Apo musikana anoudza munhu waanoda kuti tamputi mupasipoti yake haina kukosha kwaari, iye ane njere kuitira kuti arege kutya kumurume. Mumvura yakadzika yemweya wake anorota marwendo aMendelssohn uye jasi rakachena-chando. Asi kune varume vanobvumirana kusangana, asi havagadziri mhuri. Nzira yekuziva sei munhu akadaro, kuitira kuti tisasaparadza nguva inokosha pane izvi zvisingatauri zvidhori?
Zviratidzo gumi zvaasingazombokuroora iwe
1. Murume haadi kuwanana
Anowanzopera. Izvi zvinowedzera manzwiro apo, pakutanga, munhu wechidiki anonyora gumi mumiriridzo yeSMS usiku, ezvo anonyangarika kwemazuva mashoma. Ndiye mutenzi wechokwadi werudo. Asi kana munhu ane zvirongwa zvakakomba kwauri, haazokukwevedza iwe mumitambo iyi. Haafaniri kuderedza mitsipa yako uye kusimudza nhamba yako mumaziso ako kana iwe wava munhu wepedyo kwaari, waunofunga kufunga nezvenguva yemberi.
2. Haatauri zvakanaka nezvevaimbova vasikana
Kana iwe uchiyeuka hukama hwako hwekare, ipapo mune imwe neimwe yekare iwe unogona kuwana zvimwe zvakanaka. Sei mudiwa wako ane mamiriro akasiyana zvakasiyana? Uye nei vose varo vekare vasikana "vachikuvadza", "mapenzi" uye "mapenzi"? Zvinogona kuitika kuti mushure mokunge imwe nguva uye pakero yako ichanzwika mahedheni akafanana.
3. Anotaura nenzira isina kunaka pamusoro pevamwe vakaroorana Murume anozogadzira mhuri mune ramangwana haazotauri mazwi akadaro mudzimai weshamwari "anogara pamutsipa wake". Haazoti shamwari yake yakarasa rusununguko. Mushure mezvose, kana achitaura nezve shamwari dzake, anotaura maonero ake pamusoro pewanano nemhuri. Achida kusika mhuri yake, acharamba achitaura nezvezvipfeko zvakasiyana-siyana zvinonakidza kune vakaroorana, vachitarisa firimu rekubatana kana iwe usingadi kuenda chero kupi, nokuti pedyo naye kunogara munhu wekuzvarwa kwake.
4. Haatangi kutaura pamusoro pevana uye nemuchato.
Kana uchangotanga kutaura pamusoro pehurukuro idzi, anongotendeuka achitendeuka kutaura pamusoro pedzimwe sangano uye nezvemotokari yake. Zvakanaka kuti haashandisi paanenge achikurukura nyaya dzisingabatsiri uye anozvifananidza kurota kwemabiko echinhu chinoshamisa. Asi imwe yacho yakaipa, murume uyu haasati agadzirira kuroorwa. Haasi kuzokudziridza ukama uye haisi kugadzirirwa kuumba mhuri.
5. Inopedzisira yava kuzivikanwa neshamwari uye nemhuri yake kwenguva isingagumi
Munyaya iyi, haufaniri kuisa kumanikidzwa kumurume. Asi kana iwe wakanga uri pamwe kwemwedzi inoverengeka uye uchigere kuziva vabereki vake, zvinonzwisisika kufunga, zvichida mafungiro ake pamusoro pako haasi akaoma. Kana munhu achizogadzira mhuri, iye achazvikudza kukuzivisai kune zvakapoteredza, uye haazotarisiri chiyeuchidzo kubva kwauri.
6. Anobata nevasikana vakasiyana pamberi pako
Hazvifadzi kana musikana uyu ari shamwari yako yapedyo. Anofambisa nekutengesa kwakanaka muchitoro, wauya kuzotenga jasi idzva uye nezvakanaka zvisingazivikanwi. Zvikonzero zvekusafara zvinogona kuva zviviri. Kana iwe waunoda iwe usapa Juan nenzira yakasikwa kana kuti hauna kukoshesa ukama hwako. Uye kana ari Don Juan, unhu uhwu haugoni kugadziriswa newanano. Zvakakosha kufunga pamusoro pekuti iwe unoda murume akadaro here?
7. Haana godo kwauri iwe zvachose
Kusuruvara kwakanyanya kunouyisa matambudziko akakomba muhukama. Inobatsira zvishoma, nokuti inoita kuti ukama hwako huve pachena uye hunoratidza kukosha uye kukosha kune akasarudzwa. Kana pane zvachose kusina zviratidzo zvegodo, saka haakukoshese iwe.
8. Muukama hwepedyo, anoda kukurumidza kuwana zvaanoda
Kana munhu achiona mukati menyu mudzimai wemunguva yemberi, haazosimbidzi uye kukurumidza kana iwe usina chokwadi uye usati wakagadzirira. Ndizvo chete mukomana uyo aifarira munharaunda iyi yehukama achatanga kutarisa matanho akasiyana kuitira kuti ubvumirane nayo.
9. Ukama hwako hunogara kwenguva refu Saka varume vakarongeka, kana hukama hwavo hunopedza makore anopfuura matatu, hazvisi pachena kwaari kuti nei achifanira kuenda kuhofisi yekunyora. Izvi zvinoshanda mukuroorana kwevanhu vomunharaunda, pachava nemikana shoma yekuenda pasi pe korona.
10. Anoti haasi kuzoroorwa.
Kana mukomana wako akati haasi kuzoroora, iwe une chikonzero chekumusatenda here? Ndinoshuva kuti mazwi aya aive asina kumira, asi iye achiri kurota nezvemhuri, vana, asi munyaya iyi mukomana wako haasi kuzoroora uye izvi zvinenge zvichange zvisiri kunyengera.
Kana kubva pane urongwa uhwu wawana zviratidzo zvakawanda muhukama hwako uye iwe hauna kugutsikana nemusangano chete, zvichida iwe unofanira kutarisa mumwe murume pamwoyo wako uye noruoko?