Zvikanganiso zvakafanana zvemuroora-mukwambo

Zvinokwanisika here kudzivisa kupesana pakati pemwanasikana nemukarahwa? Zvingangodaro, zvinoita kana tikashandira kuwirirana uye rugare. Icho chiri chakanyanya kufanana nemakanganisa ayo mudzimai wemurume anoita kune vamwene vake. Chimbofunga zvakanyanya uye zvakajairika.
Amai vangu vari nani kupfuura amai vamwene vangu
Mhuri duku iri kugara nevabereki vomudzimai. Kwaari zvakakodzera: nguva dzose amai vangu vari pedyo, kana izvozvo zvichibatsira. Hungu, uye pamusoro pehupfumi hwematoro pasi. Zvisinei, chimwe chinhu chinokanganisa nemurume wake. Akatanga kuzvisiyanisa kubva kumudzimai wake. Kakawanda hazviitike pamba, vanonoka kubasa kana kusangana neshamwari.

Amai vomurume vanoshevedza nguva dzose uye vanorondedzera kukonzera kwake kune mukomahwa wake. Amai vamwene vanoziva kuti mudzimai wechidiki haadi uye haadi mwana wavo, saka vanofanira kurambana uye kurambana.

Commentary
Mhuri duku haifaniri kugara mumhuri yemudzimai. Sezvo inoderedza hukama hwevamwe mumaziso evamwe. Amai vamwene vari kunetseka pamusoro pemwanakomana wavo kwete pasina, sezvo mwanakomana ari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya anoedza kuvandudza unhu hwake nenzira dzose. Zvakanaka, apo chido ichi chikaderedzwa kusvika kune mari yakakwirira uye kumabasa. Asi kazhinji anotanga kutsvaga kubvuma kubva kune shamwari, mumwe mukadzi kana bhodhoro.

Ini ndichabatsira amai vamwene vangu kwose kwose
Mumwe murume nomudzimai vanogara nevabereki vomurume wavo. Muroora wake anoedza kufadza amai vamwene vake muzvinhu zvose, ari kushingaira munyaya dzekumba, asi havagone kufambidzana. Mumwe nomumwe wavo ane maonero ake pamusoro pehupenyu. Amai vake vamwari vane godo nebasa rake uye vanoda kuti zvinhu zvose zviite sezvazvakaitika. Muroora wake, akauya kumba kwake "nechitendero chake," sezvavanotaura. Nokudaro, anoita zvose zvakashata, anobvisa zvakaipa, haasimbi zvakanaka, anogadzirira zvisina kunaka. Amai vake vamwene vanoedza kumudzidzisa, uye muroora wake anotanga kuramba. Dzimwe nguva kuparadzaniswa mukicheni kunoshandiswa kuva zvipenga, izvo zvinowedzera kakawanda.

Tenzikadzi ari mumba ndiye amai vamwene. Haafaniri kumupa basa kune muroora wake. Mudzimai wechidiki anofanira kubvuma mitemo yaamai vamwene vake uye ayananise navo. Muroora mwanasikana ari pano uye kubva panzvimbo iyi anogona kuwana zvimwe zvinobatsira. Rega vanaamai vatungamirire mhuri yavo, sezvavanoda. Zvisinei, pasina mhaka amai vanogona kutenderwa mukati mehupenyu hwevamwe vaduku.

Amai vamwene vanogona kutora amai
Mukadzi asina kugamuchira unyoro uye rudo semucheche kubva kuna amai vake, anoshandura mwanasikana wake kuda amai vamwene vake. Izvi zvinoitika kana amai vomunharaunda vaibata musikana wacho nechisimba kana kuti akakurira mune nherera uye haana kugamuchira rudo rwemwana. Murudo urwu anonyatsoda uye anoedza kumuwana mumhuri yemurume wake. Amai vake vatongi kubva pazuva rokutanga vanodana mai vake, vanorarama muhukama hwakakwana.

Zvingaita sezvakanaka, asi kwete pano zvaiva. Kubvira pakutanga, amai vamwene vanobatanidzwa nemwanasikana wemukomana uye izvo zvinobatana naamai vake. Asi nekufamba kwemazuva, anotanga kuendesa kuna amai vamwene vake simba risina kunaka, raakawana nekutsamwira mai vake. Izvi zvose zvinokurumidza kana kuti gare gare zvinopesana kuva mhirizhonga uye vakadzi vanotanga kukwevera mumwe nomumwe kumativi avo murume anodhura zvikuru.

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Ukama huri pakati pemwene nemwene nemukwambo nemwanasikana wemukomana vanofanira kuva nemimwe miganhu. Muroora wake mumamiriro ezvinhu aya anotarisira kubva kuna vamwene vamwene vorudo rwaanoda kuwanikwa kubva kuna amai vake. Asi amai vamwene, vachirera mwana wavo, vatozadzisa basa raamai vavo uye havatomanikidzi kuda muroora wavo semwanasikana. Apo miganhu iri pakati pemwanasikana nemukarahwa naamai vadzimai vanobviswa, mamiriro acho anodziya uye anova anoputika.

Mumatambudziko edu ose, amai vamwene vamai vamwene ndivo vanowanzopomera mhosva yemwanasikana wemwanasikana. Chero chii chakaitika kune "chakaipa" mumhuri yavo, amai vamwene vanofanira kubhadhara zvinhu zvose. Sezvo mudzimai wake akanga asina kutsamwira murume wake, haaiti kumutsamwisa kukakavadzana, asi anotora amai vake. Amai vamwene vari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya vari kurarama zvakaoma. Muroora haambofi akapika nemurume wake, sezvaanotungamirira simba risina kunaka kuna vamwene vake. Murume haaiti kupindira mumakakatanwa evakadzi, nokuti anozviona se "bhizimisi remukadzi".

Commentary
Kana munhu akanganisa mumwe munhu nekuda kwekukundikana kwake, zvino ichi chiratidzo chokusagadzikana kwepfungwa. Iwe unofanirwa kutora mutoro wezviito zvako uye nemhuri yako, sezvawakasarudza iwe munhu wakazova murume wako. Kana amai vamwene vako vari kupesana nechisimba nevemumhuri yenyu, regai kumupa simba, mupfungwa mupfungwa iyo ichava nyore kwaari. Vanzukuru nemwanakomana vacharemekedza mbuya naamai, ivo vane zvido zvavo.

Muchikoro chevana vazukuru, mbuya havafaniri kupindira
Amai vamwene vanotsigira vazukuru vake, kunyange zvazvo muroora wavo asina kuvaka ukama hwakanaka kwazvo. Anopedza nguva yakawanda nevana vazukuru vake uye anoshungurudza kuti anoziva zvakanakisisa kurera vana. Mwana ane mukana wekusarudza pakati pekuonekwa kwemakuru naamai vanoparara, anotamba nguva dzose pamatambudziko evanhu vakuru. Amai vamwene ndivo vanopindira muhupenyu hwemwanasikana wavo, nokuti anonzwa kuti ari kumubatsira nguva dzose.

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Kuna vamwene vatenzi havafaniri kusungirwa, zvakakosha kuwana kuti basa rake rive nzira dzakanakisisa dzekubhadhara. Zvichida mari, rubatsiro nemabasa epamba, zvipo, pamwe chete nazvo zvingava zvakanaka kukwanisa nguva yekugara naamai vamwene nevadzukuru pamutengo wegereji kana nanny. Asi iwe unoda zvikonzero zvakasimba zvakasimba kuitira kuti urege kugumbura manzwiro aamai vako vamwene. Semuenzaniso, mbuya vakaneta kwazvo, uye mwana anofanira kuwaniswa kutaura nevezera rake. Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, ivo vachabata naye.