Iyo inouya zvachose panguva dzakasiyana, iyo yezera remashiripiti "chii? Sei? nei? uye nei? ". Mumwe munhu mumakore maviri kana matatu, mumwe munhu pavashanu, asi akawanda - anenge mana. Uye zviratidzo zvinotyisa zvekuda kuziva munyika zviri kuuya kusvika kumagumo anenge makore matanhatu kana manomwe ... kana zvisati zvamboitika. Zvakafanana naiye ane rombo. Vamwe, vachienda kuchikoro, kuwana mhinduro dzakawanda kumibvunzo yavasina kumbobvunza, uye regai kubvunza. Vamwe vanoramba vachitsvaka mhinduro, asi nenzira yakasiyana: vanochera vari paIndaneti, vaverengera kumakomba e-encyclopedia, vanoita zvidzidzo uye vanovaka maonero avo pachavo ... Ndeipi mamiriro ako aunofarira? Zvichida wechipiri. Kuda kuziva mwana wacho kwakagadzirwa kuva chido chokutsvakurudza, iwe unoda kuziva zvakawanda uye kuita zvakawanda.
Ideal age
Chiuru chimwe chiuru "nei" kuonekwa mumusoro we karapuza yako chiratidzo chokuti akagadzirira kuita basa rekuziva. Nemakore matatu nemashanu, vana vakawanda vakatotanga kuumba masimba, mupfungwa, mupfungwa uye matauriro ekutaura kweizvi. Iye zvino mwana anokwanisa kuita zvaanoda iye. Uye chimiro chekutaurirana nevanhu vakuru chinosiyana; Panguva ino mwana anotanga kunzwisisa kuti zvinhu zvizhinji hazvisi nyore sezvazvaifunga, uye kuedza kupinda mukati mezvinhu zvezvinhu, nekubvunza mibvunzo yakawanda. Asi ruzivo rwake uye ruzivo iye haana kukwana, saka ari kutsvaga chiremera chezvinyorwa zvemashoko. Simba guru kwaari ndiro iwe. Nokudaro, mhirizhonga yemibvunzo inowira pamusoro pako. Mhinduro! Taurai mamwe maitiro, dzidzai kuwana chokwadi ne data kose-kose. Yeuka: pamakore matanhatu nemanomwe munhu anoumba hwaro hwepfungwa yenyika, unyanzvi hunovhurwa uye huratidzwa zvakajeka, chimiro chekuzvibata uye kudzidza kunoiswa. Iko ndiko kuti, chinangwa cheunhu hunoumbwa.
Kuchinja kwemubvunzo
Pakutanga, mwana anoita mibvunzo mumutauro we "izvi ndinongotaura, ndinofunga." Sezvo mutemo, iye haabvunzi zvakananga, asi anofungira zvinonzwika pamusoro pechinhu ichocho kana chokwadi chinomufadza. "Uye nei shiri shiri dzinobhururuka? Unoda kuona zvinhu zvose here? "Zvishoma hazvidi mhinduro, asi amai nababa ndivo chiratidzo: imba ine chikonzero. Pakarepo unotanga kupindura. Hazvisiko kutaura pamusoro pekushanduka kwemhuka yehupenyu uye chimiro chephiko. Nguva yeiyi ichauya. Iye zvino zvinokosha kuti titsigire hurukuro yacho: "Ndinofunga kuti ivo vanoda chaizvo kubhururuka. Uye ivo vari kutsvaga zvokudya. " Kana mushure mekupindura kwekutanga mibvunzo yakajeka yekujekesa yakawira, zvose zvinenge zvakarongeka. Kidyo kubvunza mibvunzo yakawanda inokosha kuti ikure sezvinodiwa.
Kwete pasina hint
Haasi vose "nei" chikonzero chekuziva zvido zve karapuza. Dzimwe nguva vanotaura pamusoro pezvinovhiringidza mwana, pamusoro pematambudziko ake emukati. Ichokwadi kuti kryotuli haisi kunyarara pamweya inoratidzirwa nemibvunzo isina zvazvinobatsira, mune zvaunofunga, iyo inodzokorora kakawanda, kunyange kana zvakajeka zvachose zvakatangwa. "Sei mubhedha?" Anokumbira mwana. "Iwe uri kutaura zvisina maturo pamusoro pei!" - Amai vanopindura uye vanoramba vachiita bhizinesi ravo. Kana kuti: "Aripiko mbuya vedu varipi?" - Kwenguva yechishanu mumutsara inodzokorora. "Ndakakuudza: pa dacha. Nhasi ichauya. Zvakwana pamusoro peizvi! "- kutsamwa kuri mumashoko ose. Mirira kutsamwa. Edza kududzira zvipikirwa zvomwana. Muchiitiko chekutanga, unonzwa zvinotevera: "Nditeerere," "Ngatitambe!" Kana kuti "Unondida here?" Muchipiri: "Ndinoda kutaura pamusoro pekuru vangu. Ndakamusiya "kana kuti" Unondiona here? "Kusimba kwakasimba kunopupurira zvakare kuwedzera kuzvidya mwoyo. Izvo zvinonzwika zvinofanira kunzwika kuti hapana chakachinja mumaminitsi mashanu ekupedzisira, kuti zvose zvakanaka uye mbuya vachauya zvirokwazvo. Sei ungava? Ita basa rose uye tora nguva yeimwe chikonzero. Tora, uverenge, tamba, taura nezvemakuru, mushure mezvose. Ndeupi rudzi rwechikafu chaanacho, chiri kukura imomo, pamotokari ipi ichauya. Vana vanobvunza mibvunzo yakawanda kuti vazviise ivo murudo rwenyu kwavari. Dzorera kubatana kumwoyo wemwana.
Nezvinyorwa zvemhinduro
Sei uchifanira kuva wakanyanyisa zvakanyanya pamusoro pokushungurudzwa? Zvakanaka, kuti iwe ndiwe unobva ruzivo, mune dzimwe nzira kunyange injini yekufambira mberi iwe pachako inowanikwa, iwe unotoziva. Asi zvinopera, kupindura mibvunzo yemwana, iwe unogutsawo chido chake chokuremekedza! Pano saizvozvo! Ichokwadi ndechekuti mwana akazvibvarura kubva kubatsiro kazhinji kwekuona, achipinda munzvimbo yekufunga kwekufungidzira, anonzwa asina kuchengeteka zvikuru. Uye kutadza kupi zvako kunobva kuvabereki, kuseka kana kusada kuita zvigumbuso uye kutsamwa. Asi kana amai kana pani vachibatanidzwa munhaurirano, vanoteerera uye vanotsanangura zvose, zvinoratidzika kwaari kuti akakurira. Pashure pezvose, kuzvikudza kwake kwakakura. Nenzira, kutendeseka kwevabereki kunobatsirawo kune izvi, avo vasinganyari kubvuma kuti ivo vari kure nemuzivo wezvinyorwa. Uye vanofunga kuti vatsvake mhinduro pamwechete. Uyu mutsara wekuzvibata wakanaka. Chokutanga, mwana achawedzera kukuvimba mauri. Chechipiri, karapuz inonzwisisa kuti haisi iyo zvitsvene zvinopisa uye iyewo anogona kuva akachenjera, sekukwegura. Chechitatu, mwana wacho anongodzidza nezvemamwe nzira dzokubvisa ruzivo, uye ichi chave chiri chekutsvaga chaiyo mune ramangwana rake. Uyezve. Infinite "nei?" - bharometer yekutenderera makungwa kune iwe. Pavari ivo, anotenda muhuchenjeri hwako uye kukwanisa kutsanangura zvose zviri munyika, kubatsira mune zvose. Iwe uri mushure wakatendeka uye kutsigirwa, unogona kuuya unomhanya nechinetso uye uwane mhinduro ... Nharo yakasimba yekushandisa nguva yako nesimba nesimba pakutsvaga chokwadi? Chido chiri nyore kuparadza. Iwe unoziva kamukira: usapindura, svetuka kunze, kuseka "upenzi," kusimbisa "kusava nehanya." Uye nzira yekukurudzira sei? Zvibvunze. Dzimwe nguva zvinongova izvo, pasina chikonzero: "Sei uchida mhino?" Sei une meno machena? Imwe mvui inorarama kupi? "Uye apo mwana ari kufunga pamusoro pemhinduro dzacho, zorora uye uunganidze mafungiro ako usati wadzikomba hutsva hwekugadzirisa mumhando yemibvunzo mitsva.
Pamberi, nokuda kwechokwadi!
Haasi mibvunzo yose inoda kupindurwa. Inonyanya kukosha uye inofadza kuvawana vose pamwe chete.
1. Pindura mubvunzo nemubvunzo. Kwete nguva dzose, asi kazhinji. Chinhu chakanaka ndechokuti "Unofungei?", "Unofungei nezveizvi?"
2. Funga nezvemafungiro ose emwana. Kunyange zvakanyanya kufadza. Uye kuisa mberi: dzimwe nguva kumhanyisa, dzimwe nguva kunopesana. "Iwe unoti bhinhire rinosunga chiuno chehuto kuti chidziye? Kana kuti angangodaro anoda kuvepa? "
3. Tauriranai, kurukurai, kumbira rubatsiro kubva kune zvakasiyana-siyana zvemashoko. Iwe unorangarira: mukukakavadzana, chokwadi chinoberekwa. Zvakakosha kuti mwana anoziva izvi. Ipapo achadzidza kuti asagutsikane nediki, asi kuti awane chinangwa chezvinhu. Uye ichi chivimbo chokuti mwana wako anobvunza mibvunzo yakawanda achibatsirwa. Uye nei zvicharamba zvakadaro nei ... munhu mukuru uye anokosha.