Vose vana nevabereki vari kumirira chiitiko ichi nekushivirira kusingagumi. "Tiri kuenda kuchikoro nokukurumidza!" - vanaamai navanababa, vanasekuru navanasekuru vanodada kutaura. "Ndiri kutotanga kukirasi yekutanga!" - nomufaro anoudza zvose mumutsara, pedyo uye asingatauri, mwana wako.
Pakupedzisira inouya zuva re "X" - yekutanga yaSeptember. Mwana wako ari kufamba achifara uye achizvikudza pamberi pako, achikwevera pamafudzi ake pamba rake rokutanga, rakasungirirwa kumucheto wekutanga chaiyo muhupenyu hwake hwechikoro. Bhero rekutanga rinonamatira. uye pano vatungamiri vanogara pasi pamadhoroki ... zvichida, panguva ino chaiyo vanotanga kunzwisisa kuti zvakanyanya sei - chikoro. Pane imwe nguva, pane imwe kure kubva pazuva rakakwana, mwana wedu wechikoro ane misodzi mumeso ake anoti "Handichazoendi kuchikoro!". Iwe uri kurasikirwa, mwana unobata uye unoramba zvachose kugadzirira chikoro. Ndechipi chikonzero?
Ikoko kunogona kunge kune tsanangudzo dzakawanda dzeizvi - kubva pakutya kwekusiyiwa uri woga, pasina kutsigirwa kwevabereki, kuwirirana nevana vekirasi nevadzidzisi. Asi chikonzero chikuru chekusada kwevana kuenda kuchikoro ndechokuti ivo vari munharaunda isingazivikanwi, havagoni kuenderana nazvo, vanowana nzvimbo yavo mune rimwe boka.
Nokudaro chiitiko chinowanzova kutya kwavo kuenda kuchikoro, vana vanomanikidzwa vachiramba kuenda ikoko. Pano. Chokutanga pane zvose, zvakafanira kuziva chikonzero chaicho chokuramba. Asi, zvisinei, pasina chikonzero iwe unofanira kurega mwana wacho agare kumba. Kunyange kana zvikonzero nei asingadi kuenda kuchikoro ndezvechokwadi uye chinangwa. Kutya kwake kunongowedzera kusimbiswa, uye kunogona kuwedzerwa kushure kwegurogiramu, iyo isingadikanwi zvikuru.
Unofanirwa kuva wakasimba uye kutsungirira mukuedza kwako kudzosa mwana wako kuchikoro chekirasi. Mwana, kunyanya mwana, haana chikonzero chingave chikonzero chekuenda kuchikoro. Vana vanoenda kuchikoro, kuteerera vabereki vavo. Saka, kana musingadi kuenda chikoro, vabereki ndivo vanofanira kutsanangura kukosha kwekushanyira kwake. Mwana wezera remakore ekutanga anofanira kutsanangura kuti achakwanisa kudzidza zvinhu zvakawanda zvitsva uye zvinofadza. Vana vakwegura vanogona kutsanangurwa kuti pasina dzidzo, nzira inoenda mberi mune ramangwana ichavharwa kwavari, kana kutaura kumutemo, maererano nevana vese vanofanirwa kugamuchira zvidzidzo zvidzidzo.
Zvechokwadi, vabereki vanofanira nguva nenguva vachishanyira chikoro icho mwana wavo anodzidza. Mune simba revabereki kukurudzira mwana nekunzwira tsitsi mudzidzisi. Iwe unogona kumuudza kuti iwe pachako iwe unonzwira tsitsi zvikuru mutungamiri wake. Vana vanowanzoita kuti vatsvake manzwiro akanaka. Kana ivo vakavimba mune nzvimbo yemudzidzisi, zvichavabatsira kuti vakunda chigadziro chinobuda mukukurukurirana kwavo nemunhu mutsva.
Apo mwana wako ari muduku, usamusiya ari pachikoro chechikoro, chiitungamirire kukirasi, regai asangane nemudzidzisi. Nokufamba kwemazuva, kusateerera kwakashata kuchikoro kunopera. Iva nechokwadi chekubvunza mudzidzisi kuti anozvibata sei mushure mokubva iwe. Kana misodzi yake ikamira mushure mokunge iwe uchingopera kubva mumunda wekuona, iwe unogona kurega kunetseka - kugadziridza kwakagadzirisa.
Asi zvakare zvinoitika kuti vana vanoramba kuenda kuchikoro, avo vave vachida kuenda kune imwe kwemakore akawanda. Muchiitiko ichi, kutaurirana pamwoyo-kusingaitiki. Unofanirwa kuziva kuti chii chinovhiringidza mwana. Pano, kukurukura nemudzidzisi hakuzovhiringidzi. Mudzidzisi anonyatsoteerera achaona chimwe chinhu chakashata uye achagoverana newe mafungiro ake nezvechikonzero chekusada mwana wako kuenda kuchikoro. Panogona kuva nechinhu chipi zvacho chaunofarira-kufambira mberi kwakashata mune zvidzidzo, nekupesana pakati pevadzidzi, uye kutanga rudo . Kune marudzi akasiyana-siyana. Zvakakosha zvakafanana mamiriro ezvinhu epamba. Matambudziko emhuri, kurambana kwevabereki, rufu rweumwe munhu pedyo - zvose izvi zvinokanganisa mano uye chido chomwana kuti adzidze. Iva nechokwadi chekumuudza chokwadi chose - nhema dzinogona kungowedzera mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Tsanangura kuti nyaya dzemhuri chinhu chimwe chete, uye kudzidza zvakanyanya, kuti iwe unotofanira kukunda matambudziko, uye chinhu chakanakisisa chaanogona kuita munguva yakaoma yemhuri ndeyokukusunungura iwe kuzvidya mwoyo pamusoro pekudzidza kwake.
Zvisinei, vabereki vanofanira kuziva: kunyatsoziva uye kufara kwavana venyu kudzidza hakusi kungoziva chete. Mafungiro evabereki kumudzidzisi wake zvikuru anogadzira kubudirira kwechikoro chemwana. Mushure mezvose, munhu uyu ane zvakawanda zvokudzidza kubva kwaari, mafungiro emwana kuchikoro, chido chake chokudzidza, chichavimba naye.
Hazvina kumboitika, uye pasi pemamiriro ose, zvibvumira kusaregererwa pamusoro pemudzidzisi wemwana wako. Edza kuvaka hukama hwakanaka nevadzidzisi, tsvaga kunzwisisa pamwe navo. Pakupedzisira, vanoda chinhu chimwe chete sezvaunoita - kuitira kuti mwana wako ave munhu akadzidziswa zvakanaka. Ratidza kunzwisisa pakunobatsira vadzidzisi vemwana wako. iwe unoziva kuti zvakaoma sei kururamisira uye kuranga, kunyange kutarisana nevana vaviri, uye mukirasi mairi hakuna maviri, uye kwete kunyange mana, asi zvakawanda.
Mwana achave ari nyore kutsoropodza kubva mumuromo wemudzidzisi, kana achiziva kuti unomuremekedza uye unoita zvakanaka kwaari. Vana nguva dzose vanoteerera zvakanyanya kutsoropodzwa kubva kune munhu wavanoda, uye vanoedza kuchinja maitiro avo.
Vadzidzisi vanhuwo. Vachanzwisisa kushora kwevabereki nekunzwisisa kukuru kana vakaona kuti vanobatwa nehukama uye pasina rusaruro. Edza kunyatsoteerera nyaya dzevana vako - dzinowanzosvibisa "mudzidzisi asina kururama" uye kuzvichenesa pachavo - "asina mhosva." Edza kunzwisisa uye kuwana chokwadi. Semurairo, iri pane imwe nzvimbo pakati. Iva neshamwari, uchitenderera, edza kusaita zvinyorwa nenzira ine utsinye, zviri nani kuvhara manzwiro ako, kuratidza zvido mumhando yezvishuvo uye zvikumbiro. Kazhinji rumbidza mudzidzisi, kumutenda nokuda kwekudzidzisa kwakanaka. unoti mwana wako anofara nemitoo yekuratidza mashoko acho - zvose izvi zvinomunyengedza uye zvinomugadzirisa nemafungiro akanaka kune iwe nemwana wako. uye chaizvoizvo, nokuti vanhu vakadaro vakanaka, mwana haakwanisi kuva sloven, zvakarurama? Uine mafungire akanaka, mudzidzisi achaenda kunosangana newe.