Wacherechedza here kuti mwana wako anopa sei rumwe ruvara? Ndichiona musikana wangu ane tsvuku tsvuku, mwanasikana wangu akati: "Ndinoda chikoro chakafanana, chine ruvara." Nenzira, kusarudza mapepa pamwe chete, takafarira vhuzha remavara. Muduku "akabvisa" peni yangu yakasvibirira, sezvo tinonyatsoda chinhu ichocho. Pakarepo handina kumbokoshesa zvakanyanya izvi, asi ipapo ndakatanga kufunga nezvehukama hwemavara uye unhu hwomunhu, nokuti bhakisikiti inobva paudiki achiri muduku. Zvakakosha kubvira pakutanga kuti unzwisise mararamiro emunhu, unyanzvi uye zvaanoda zvemwana wako, uye nekuda kweruzivo rwakagamuchirwa, kugovera pakuvandudza matarenda emwana. Zvinosuruvarisa, isu tinowanzoshandiswa kuisa pamwana izvo zvatinoda, asi mwana ndiye munhu, kunyange ari muduku, asi neavo pachake mano, matarenda uye zvaanoda. Uye kana mwana wacho akabatanidzwa chaizvoizvo zvakasikwa mumasikirwo, zvichida, achaita munhu anozvifadza.
Saka, nei mwana achisarudza imwe ruvara? Sekutonga, vana vanoita mavara akajeka, uye izvi zvine zvarinoreva.
Vana vatsvuku vane chinangwa uye vana vane simba. Ava ndivo vatungamiri vakaberekwa: mwana anoisa chinangwa uye anobudirira. Vana vakadaro vanofambisa zvikuru, vane simba uye vane chinangwa. Nechepasi yemari ndeyekuti "vana vvuku" vanowanzokurumidza kutsamwa uye kusagadzikana. Kunyange zvakadaro, vana ava vari nyore kudzidziswa.
Vana vane ruzha vanofanira kukwanisa kusiyanisa zvakafanana nehuvara hwemavara nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana. Vanoda ruvara ruvara ruchena ndivo vakachenjera, vakagadzikana uye vana vane tariro, vane chimiro chakajeka uye pfungwa yekuongorora. Asi vanoda vema shazha shazha, zvisinei, kazhinji vanovhara vana. Rudzi rwakadaro, sekutonga, runosarudzwa nevana, vanonzwa sokuti havana hanya nevabereki vavo. "Green" varume vanoda kunyanya kutarisirwa uye kutarisirwa kubva kuvabereki vavo. Izvi zvisikwa zvinoda kuita zvisikwa, kukurukura zvakawanda nevana uye kunyatsoongorora nyika yakavapoteredza.
Vana vane mapapiro vane nyota, vane tsitsi uye vane hanya navana. Pink inenge yakasvibirira ruvara, ruvara rwezvipfeko uye zvipfeko zvevana. Kana ruvara rwepiniki runofanirwa nemukomana - ichi chikonzero chakakomba chokufunga nezvazvo, nokuti sarudzo yakadaro inotaura nezvekusarura, kusava nesimba uye kusava nechokwadi. Kunyange zvakadaro, varume vacho vanogona kusarudza ruvara rwakadaro, nokuti runobatanidzwa nemasipi kana kunogona kuva mugumisiro wekuwedzera mafungiro. Kana mwana wacho achingova piniki, chiratidzo chokuti mwana anoda kutarisirwa uye kutarisirwa kubva kuvanhu vakuru. Kazhinji kumbundira uye kutsvoda mwana wako, ratidza kuti unofunga naye.
Girazi ndiro ruvara rwehutungamiri uye kukunda kweramangwana. Vane vana vakangwara vane mafungiro mafungiro, kazhinji mune vatungamiri vemazuva ano, vanhu vane simba, vezvematongerwe enyika uye mabhizinesi. Vana vakadaro vanofambidzana uye vanobvunzisisa. Mukuwedzera, kusarudzwa kwomwana kwechhizha kunoratidza nzvimbo ine rugare uye ine ushamwari mumhuri.
Orange vana vanoberekwa vane tariro, vanofara, vanoshingaira, vane hukama hwevana vane mafungiro akafuma. Mune ramangwana vana vakadaro vanogona kukura vane talenta vane artisti uye artists.
Mwana webhuruu imhepo yakadzikama, ine runyararo ine munhu mukuru kune nyika. Ivo vanoda vemitambo yakanyarara, vanofungidzirwa, vanonzwisisika, vana vanonyangadza. Ivo vakanyarara uye kazhinji havasati vava nechisimba. Ava ndivo varume vakashinga, kazhinji vanochera, vachitsvaka kuve voga.
Muvara wehuputi wakasarudzwa nemwana ane mafungiro, ane hanya uye ane tsitsi. Idzi vana vane ruzivo rwakanaka, vanowanzofarira kuve nokuveza. Mune ramangwana, kubva kumwana akadaro anogona kukura muenzi, munhu ane unyanzvi.
Muchena mutsvuku unofanirwa nekucherechedza, manzwiro, vana vanonyara, vashoma vadzidzisi.
Bhuruvara ruvara runogona kusarudza mwana, uchiona chimwe chikonzero chinetso, manzwiro. Kana mwana akasarudza ruvara rwebhuruu nekusingaperi, zvinokosha kuti ave nechokwadi chekuzorora kubva kuvanhu vakuru.
Kudzidza kwehutano hwemunhu nemuvara waanofarira hunoitwa ne-psycho-chromotherapists. Usatevedzera mafungiro akasiyana-siyana pamusana pekuonekwa kwemwana wako, nokuti vana vari kukura, ruvara rwemavara runochinjawo. Kusvikira makore gumi, vana vakawanda vanowanzoidza ruvara rwepini, ruvara uye rutsvuku, uye zvido zvinoshanduka zvakanyanya. Zvinyorwa zvitsva zvevana zvakabatana zvikuru nekuzivikanwa zvepabonde. Uye izvi hazvishamisi, nokuti isu tiri kubva mucheche hwemucheche devochekodevaem mu pink, nguo dzakatsvuka, zvakafanana ivo vane zvidhori. Vakomana vacho vakapfeka mavara akawanda, zvichiita kuti vaone "ruvara rwevakomana".
Vagadziri vematayiri vanoshandisa muvara pavara pavanenge vachigadzira chido. Zivo yemigumisiro yemirau inogona uye inofanira kushandiswa nevabereki mumusangano wekudzidza, kunyunyuta uye kukurudzira mwana wavo kumigumisiro yakaisvonaka mukudzidza, kusimba uye kubudirira.