Kune mamiriro ezvinhu apo mwana pazera remakore matatu ari hurukuro chete neshamwari dzake dzinofungidzira, uye kunyange zvakadaro mumutauro usinganzwisisiki, apo vezera rake vanenge vatowedzera kana vasinganzwisisi vachitaura nevabereki vavo.
Kana ukaona kuti mwana wako atanga kutaura nevasina shamwari, haufaniri kumudanidzira uye kumurova.
Vana vane zvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana vanogadzira shamwari dzavo dzisingaonekwi, somuenzaniso:
Kana mwana asina nguva yakakwana yekukurukura nevakuru nevana vavo uye kana asina shamwari muhupenyu chaihwo.
Kana mwana achiwanzopomerwa mumhuri, zvino anofunga nezvomumwe shamwari iyo inogona kutsoropodzwa uye kurangwa, uye mwana asingabatsiri mumitambo yake kopi iyo nhengo yemhuri inoranga mwana pachake.
Zvakanaka, muenzaniso unonyanya kukosha ndeyekuti mwana anongotinha, kunyange zvazvo ane zuva rose rakanyorerwa mugs.
Vana havasi kupwanyiwa nehupi hwehutano hwevanhu, saka vanoona zvinhu zvose zvakanaka uye vanonzwa uye kana mwana ane imwe mamiriro ezvinhu asingakwanise kugadzirisa uye kuudza vabereki vake, anotanga kuumbwa pane imwe nyanzvi nhau yepakutanga uye munyaya iyi iri pasi icho chinetso chinetso, icho chaasingagoni kurarama nayo uye saka anoedza kuzvigadzirisa.
Chero amai vanozofunganya nezvepfungwa dzemwana wepfungwa paanenge achitamba neshamwari dzisingaonekwi uye achitaura naye mumutauro wavo, izvo zvisingazwiswi nevanhuwo zvavo. Vakawanda vevana vose vanozarurirwa kune pfungwa yeimwe nyika yakafanana kusvikira vakabata tsvimbo, iyo yechitatu yeziso. Kumabvazuva, inofungidzirwa kuti nyaya yacho haisati yasvika (gomba mubhehenya rinokura kusvikira pagore) haritadzisi mwana kuti asunungure kutaura nezvose zvirimo uye zvakatipoteredza uye ndiye ane simba rekunyengedzera kwepfungwa.
Maererano nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, nguva yakaoma yezviratidzo zvevana makore makumi manomwe, ndiko kuti, mushure mezera rino, mwana anofanira kumira marudzi ose ezviratidzo uye kukurukurirana neshamwari dzinofunga.
Vabereki vanofanira kuziva shamwari dzevana vavo vose, naizvozvo zvinokurudzirwa kubvunza mwana nezve shamwari dzake nguva nenguva. Kana mwana akaudzwa pamusoro pevamwe vasingaoneki shamwari dzake, iye zvino ane ramangwana rakanaka, nokuti vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanofunga kudaro. Vana vakadaro munguva dzakawanda vanotamburawo nekurara.
Ndiyo shamwari dzechokwadi dzomwana wako wausingaoni, chero zvakadaro unoda kunzwisisa mafungiro emwana, kunyange achitya.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinopa mazano avo vabereki vanoda vana vavo kubvisa shamwari dzinofungidzira, kupa mwana kunyanya kutarisa.
Pasinei neinoita seine mhosva uye panguva imwe chete inotyisa ye shamwari inofunga mumwana, pane dzimwe nguva munhu anofanira kufunga nezvekuenda kwachiremba kana:
- Mwana wacho anokanganiswa muchokwadi uye anogara munyika inonyengera uye paanorwisana neshamwari dzake dzinofungidzira dzinopinda mukuora mwoyo.
- Mwana wacho haana hanya nechinhu chero chipi zvacho kunze kwemashamwari ake asingaoneki uye ari kushamwaridzana nevabereki vake.
- Mwana wacho anozvibata zvakashata uye zvakashata.